The Jonnie Jensen Show

You saved for it. You booked it. You told everyone it was going to be brilliant. That's exactly why it turned into a row by day three. Do not fall into the holiday pressure trap.See exactly where your energy, connection and joy is leaking. The free HVM Scorecard takes three minutes https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreJonnie is back from ten days in France with his two kids and one of their mates, and this episode is the honest version of how a family holiday actually goes well. Not the destination, not the budget, not the itinerary. The pressure a man loads onto the trip before he has even left the house, and what happens to his wife and kids when reality does not match the picture in his head. He shares what he does before he packs the boot, on the drive, at the dinner table and in the moments he deliberately steps back to catch.WHY THIS MATTERSFor most men the holiday is the one stretch of the year his family gets all of him, and he arrives too loaded to give it. What he wanted to be the best fortnight of the year becomes the one everyone remembers for the wrong reasons. The cost is not a wasted week. It is another year of his kids and his partner learning what he is like under pressure.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS01:08 Why Holidays Go Wrong06:29 Plan Less, Enjoy More11:56 Make Mealtimes Matter14:18 Balance Family Time and Freedom15:58 Keep Your Healthy Habits17:11 Make Time for Your Relationship19:37 Choose Peace, Fun and Lasting MemoriesYOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORENot sure where your life is leaking energy, focus and drive? The free HVM Scorecard takes three minutes and shows you exactly where you are winning and where you are losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreSHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBESend this to the mate whose holiday stories always include a drama or a row! He will hate it and then he will thank you.Give the Jonnie Jensen Show a review. It takes ninety seconds and they are how other dads find the show. On Spotify, hit the three dots and rate it. On Apple, it has to be done on mobile.Listen here: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastWatch on YouTube: https://highvaluemanproject.com/video

No man wakes up one morning and decides to stop fancying his wife. It happens by a decision neither of you remember making.See exactly where the connection is leaking. Take your free HVM Score: https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreDr Lee Baucom has spent thirty years working with couples and is the author of Save the Marriage. Jonnie bought that programme during his own divorce, ten years ago, and says it changed how he thinks about relationships to this day. They talk about the relationships that aren't broken, just quiet, and what it takes for one man to bring one back to life without waiting for permission.WHY THIS MATTERSNobody arrives at the end of a marriage. Everybody drifts there, one benign decision at a time, and most men don't notice until the distance is too wide to talk across. Lee names the exact slope, and what a man can do about it on his own.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS02:38 What Jonnie learned about himself after his divorce04:41 Good people having bad relationships08:40 Save the Marriage, and the app that came before it10:24 The little things that keep love alive11:29 How couples hit the pause button14:38 Why "we really love each other" doesn't beat the statistics15:21 Treating the symptoms instead of the disconnection17:26 The three levels of connection: physical, emotional, spiritual20:16 Why the movie stops at happily ever after24:21 The telltale signs of the pause phase25:49 Setting the rules early: no eye rolls, no silent moods30:54 Anger is a secondary emotion32:29 Why you're more gracious with strangers than your wife33:34 The disses: from disinterest to disdain36:30 What constant rejection does to a man40:04 When the relationship strains, everything strains45:09 Putting your whole life on one relationship47:18 Relationship before results49:37 The three Cs: connect, change, create50:45 Invitational connection, not date night52:40 The moment his girlfriend said "believe"55:49 Breaking up with loveCONNECT WITH LEEIf your marriage is in crisis: https://savethemarriage.comIf you're stuck and drifting that way: https://unpauseyourmarriage.comYOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCOREDiscover your High Value Man score, so you can see where you're leaking your energy, connection and joy. Three minutes, and a personal report the moment you finish.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreSHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBEKnow a man whose marriage has gone quiet? Send this to him directly. Not a broadcast. One specific man.A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds. It's the most useful thing you can do to help more men find this show.Apple: htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify