The Kelly Effect: Public Speaking That Leaves a Mark

What if your presentation wasn’t just “inspiring”… but actually profitable? In this episode, Kelly Kaye Walker sits down with speaking coach and storyteller Dr. Danny Brassell to break down how to craft a presentation that gets audiences to take a clear next step (not just clap politely and forget you by lunch).Danny shares his “well-crafted story” approach and the research-backed reason your audience remembers the beginning and end of your talk more than the middle (yes, he says it: the bun matters more than the burger). You’ll also hear wild real-life examples of what happens when someone actually follows the formula, including one client who sold 23 spots into a $40,000 program after a single podcast appearance.If you’ve ever watched someone “firehose” an audience with 28 teaching points and call it a keynote, this one is for you.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why clarity is the real first step (and the two questions 95% of people can’t answer)How to structure your first 5 minutes using RAP: Relatable, Authority, PurposeThe primacy/recency effect, and how to stop wasting the middle of your talkWhy your presentation should be measured by movement, not applauseThe danger of multiple CTAs and Danny’s mantra: “Choices confuse and cause you to lose.”How to ethically connect without turning your hardest life moment into a sales tacticA simple story-mining exercise to generate hundreds of usable personal storiesWhy getting better at speaking is reps, reps, and more reps (yes, even if you “stink” at first)Notable moments:Danny’s autobiography title: “Pivots” (because apparently he’s lived nine lives)The “award show” strategy: what you can learn from 45-second acceptance speechesThe famous “five frogs on a log” closer, and why deciding isn’t the same as doingKelly’s opening confession: peach rings are a liar and do not, in fact, provide sustainable energyFree ResourcesDanny is giving my listeners his free Well-Crafted Story Blueprint. Go to freestoryguide.com and download it (guide like a tour guide).And if you’d like my free get-started workbook, How to Find the Message In Your Mess, go to speakingcoachkelly.com/workbook

In this episode of The Kelly Effect: Public Speaking That Leaves a Mark, Kelly Kaye Walker sits down with Rosie Zilinskas, founder of No Woman Left Behind and a certified high-performance career coach, to unpack the real reasons so many brilliant women struggle to show up as speakers.Spoiler alert: it’s not laziness, lack of talent, or “not being ready.”It’s core wounds.Rosie breaks down the four internal blockers that quietly sabotage women’s confidence, visibility, and follow-through when it comes to speaking, applying for gigs, and putting themselves out there, even when they deeply want to.This conversation is especially powerful for speakers with ADHD, high achievers, and women who know they’re meant for more… but feel stuck.The four core wounds that keep women from stepping onto stagesWhy confidence alone isn’t enough without internal workHow worthiness wounds show up as procrastination and self-doubtWhy comparison and the “popularity blocker” can derail your momentumHow skill gaps and missing speaker assets quietly kill confidenceThe truth about the visibility blocker and why being seen feels so threateningWhat “sitting with an emotion” actually looks like in real lifePractical ways to start breaking these blocks down right nowWhy Toastmasters and the National Speakers Association can be powerful tools when used intentionallyRosie also shares simple, actionable strategies to begin releasing these blocks, without spiraling into years of therapy or overwhelm.If you’ve ever said:“I’ll apply when I’m more ready”“Who am I to be a speaker?”“Other people are already doing this better”“I hate being visible”This episode is for you.Resources & LinksRosie Zilinskas – No Woman Left Behind: nowomanleftbehind.comFree Gift: Promotion Readiness Quiz – https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/6526f787b315de001400d1e0Kelly’s Free Workbook: 10 Steps to Find the Message in Your Mess👉 https://speakingcoachkelly.com/workbookIn this episode, you’ll learn:Healing the internal blocks isn’t about fixing what’s “wrong” with you.It’s about clearing what never belonged to you in the first place.

Welcome to The Kelly Effect™ — Public Speaking That Leaves a MarkIn this episode I go through a short clip from a speech by one of my favorite speakers, Simon Sinek. He must be having an off day because he is not his usual brilliantly eloquent self. I point out some double clutches, unnecessary pointing and "so"s, and how often he turns his back to the audience and speaks to his notepad. See if you agree with me!This channel is for bold, brilliant, free-thinking humans who feel called to speak but refuse to settle for boring, buttoned-up, or by-the-book. Whether you’re an overthinking entrepreneur, an ADHD coach, or a story-rich speaker in progress—you’re in the right place.As a professional speaking coach, I’ll show you how to:✔️ Unmute your voice✔️ Craft speeches that connect✔️ Own your story without oversharing✔️ Drop the pressure to perform✔️ Leave your audience saying: “That’s gonna leave a mark.”Because your message wasn’t meant to stay quiet.And you? You were never meant to be on mute.Get the FREE Kelly Effect Checklist15 Ways to Leave a Mark Every Time You Speak👉 https://thekellyeffect.com/checklistSubscribe to the PodcastApple | Spotify | Everywhere you listen👉 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7IztzGcw8T7L2L2rwQyMeh👉 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/public-speaking-tips-and-tales-with-speaking-coach-kelly/id1755055882Book a Free Speaker Game Plan CallWant help turning your message into a signature speech that books gigs and gets clients?👉 https://www.tidycal.com/kellywalker/gameplan💜 Hosted by Kelly Kaye WalkerSpeaker Coach | Award-Winning Speaker | ADHD Brain-Friendly Trainer#publicspeaking #motivationalspeaker #publicspeakingcoach #publicspeakingtips #presentationskills #learn

In this episode, I interview Adrian Booher and evaluate her speech on The Golden Rule! To connect with Adrian, go to www.adrianonlife.com where you can also find her free email course! To have your speech evaluated on my podcast, please send me an email with the subject line Evaluation to speakingcoachkelly@gmail.com This channel is for new and aspiring motivational speakers and public speakers. Learn from international speaker Kelly Kaye Walker her best public speaking tips and presenting skills to help small business owners, coaches, and entrepreneurs improve their communication skills and reach more of their ideal clients. Kelly also shares the details of her ongoing quest to continue applying for a TedX Talk until she is finally accepted! The focus of this channel is to: - Help you get better at Public Speaking - Show you ways to connect more deeply with your audience - Improve your storytelling - Level up your communication skills - Share presentation tips for stage or Zoom - Overcome the fear of public speaking - Create and encourage more public speakers Need help getting better at public speaking? Want to be a motivational speaker? Want to just not suck at presentations? Let's chat! Book a free 30 minute game plan session at https://tidycal.com/kellywalker/gameplan Check out my speaker coaching options at: www.speakingcoachkelly.com/coaching #publicspeaking #motivationalspeaker #publicspeakingcoach #publicspeakingtips #presentationskills #learn

In this episode, Kelly Kaye Walker brings her expertise to the table with a live speech evaluation of health empowerment coach Jen Kitterman. Connect with Jen at jenkitterman.com Jen shares her transformative journey of gaining confidence and achieving personal goals, while Kelly provides invaluable feedback on stage presence, audience engagement, and the art of vulnerability. Whether you’re a seasoned speaker or just starting out, you’ll find actionable tips to elevate your speaking game. HIGHLIGHTS Jen’s Story: How she overcame fear, embraced vulnerability, and found confidence to transform her health and life. Audience Connection: Mastering interactive techniques to engage and inspire. Practical Feedback: Real-time coaching on body language, stage geography, and creating a polished presence. Confidence in Action: Why discomfort is the secret to growth and how to make it your compass. KEY TAKEAWAYS Own Your Space: Practice intentional stage geography—move with purpose to enhance your storytelling. Body Language Tips: Keep hand gestures expressive and avoid keeping elbows glued to your sides. Be Relatable: Vulnerability, like Jen’s personal video, builds trust and connection with your audience. Power of the Pause: Pause intentionally for impact, giving your audience time to reflect. Visual Simplicity: Use minimal slides with personal photos instead of stock images for authenticity. Engage Authentically: Use clear, kind instructions for audience participation to avoid discomfort. MEMORABLE MOMENTS 00:05 – Introduction to Jen Kitterman and her health empowerment journey. 00:33 – Jen’s speech: How she transformed her confidence. 02:00 – Kelly’s feedback on engagement and opening energy. 06:45 – The power of vulnerability: Sharing an emotional wake-up call. 12:10 – Feedback on stage geography and body language. 18:30 – Audience activities: Journaling and sharing goals. 22:40 – Reducing filler words: Strategies for polished delivery. 29:15 – The art of pausing for maximum impact. 33:00 – Highlighting confidence as a journey, not a destination. 40:15 – Closing remarks and final tips for success. Quotable Quotes "Discomfort is my compass. When I feel resistance, I know I’m on the path to growth." "Once I commit, I will not quit." "Confidence is the power to have whatever you want in life." TOOLS FOR GROWTH Join Toastmasters: Improve your speaking skills and get real-time feedback. Practice Stage Geography: Incorporate purposeful movements into your rehearsals. Engage with Intention: Start audience activities with clear instructions to create a safe and fun environment. Download Kelly's free workbook to help you find the stories from your life that would make a great speech at https://www.speakingcoachkelly.com/workbook

In this episode of Speak to Impact, Kelly Kaye Walker sits down with Lydia Taggart to dive into her journey as a speaker, evaluate her recent speech, and discuss her unique Leadership Resiliency Roadmap. Lydia shares her inspiring story of becoming a speaker, her approach to overcoming technical challenges, and how to keep an audience engaged. Whether you're a seasoned speaker or just starting, this episode is packed with insights to help you refine your craft and elevate your speaking impact. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How Lydia Taggart discovered her passion for speaking and what fuels her mission to inspire others. The importance of preparation when using technology during a presentation—and how to handle hiccups like a pro. Tips for engaging your audience, from establishing authority to responding to nonverbal cues. How to use storytelling and vivid snapshots to connect deeply with your audience. The power of resilience in leadership and speaking, featuring Lydia’s three-step framework: Remember, Reimagine, and Recommit. Key Takeaways for Speakers: Be Easy to Find: Lydia emphasizes that being a speaker makes you visible, enabling you to inspire and help others. Own the Room: When asking your audience questions, ensure participation to establish authority and engagement. Use Visuals Wisely: Bright, type-appropriate clothing and colorful, relevant slides can significantly enhance your presence on stage. Make It Personal: Use specific, sensory-rich details in stories to immerse your audience. Embrace Resilience: Lydia's Leadership Resiliency Roadmap is a practical tool for overcoming challenges in life, business, and public speaking. Memorable Quotes: “There’s No Such Thing as Justa...” Timestamp: [00:27:40 – 00:28:00] “It’s not about me—it’s about being easy to find so I can encourage and help others. As a speaker, that’s a side effect: you become easy to find.” Timestamp: [00:02:27 – 00:02:42] Resources Mentioned: Carol Tuttle’s Energy Profiling: Learn more about aligning your personal energy with your wardrobe and presentation style. Leadership Resiliency Roadmap: Lydia’s framework for thriving in leadership and beyond. Connect with Lydia Taggart: Email: lydia@lydiataggart.com Website: lydiataggart.com Connect with Kelly Kaye Walker: Website: SpeakingCoachKelly.com Instagram: @SpeakingCoachKelly Email: ⁠SpeakingCoachKelly@gmail.com⁠ (Let me know if you'd like to get YOUR speech evaluated on a future episode!) Figure out your best stories to share in a speech with my free workbook "10 Steps to Find the Message in Your Mess" Join Us Next Time:Stay tuned for more actionable tips and inspiring stories to help you become the impactful speaker you’re meant to be. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review!

Episode Summary: In this engaging episode of Speak to Impact, Kelly Kaye Walker introduces today’s guest, Lawrence Stone. Lawrence is a coach, author, and public speaker with a passion for helping young adults and small business owners thrive. Lawrence shares his foundational speech on the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people to elevate your life and achieve your goals. Kelly evaluates Lawrence’s speech, offering valuable insights on storytelling, audience connection, and delivering an impactful message. This episode is packed with tips for speakers looking to refine their craft and create memorable presentations. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The three essential characteristics of the people you should surround yourself with: love, belief, and challenge. How to use pauses effectively to enhance storytelling and audience connection. The importance of incorporating personal stories into speeches to increase relatability and memorability. Why Lawrence’s restaurant name story twist ending was a comedic highlight. Actionable feedback for avoiding common speaking pitfalls, such as overusing filler words and lacking emotional range. How to craft a speech that’s expandable into a full keynote or workshop. Key Moments: [00:02] Introduction to Lawrence Stone and his passion for coaching and personal development. [03:10] Lawrence delivers his foundational speech on relationships and influence. [12:45] Kelly begins her in-depth evaluation of Lawrence’s speech. [20:30] The importance of tracking stories and leveraging them in speeches. [28:50] Lawrence shares insights on his upcoming projects, including his book Boss Level Adulting and a deeply personal book co-written with his wife. Resources Mentioned: Lawrence’s Website: The Basic Trainer (with two S’s!) https://www.thebassictrainer.com Book Recommendation: Storyworthy by Matthew Dicks Contact Lawrence: Visit his website or connect with him for coaching and speaking engagements. Next Steps for Listeners: Reflect on your inner circle and consider how the people you spend the most time with influence your growth. Start your own story file to identify impactful personal anecdotes for speeches and presentations. Stay tuned for more episodes featuring live speech evaluations and expert advice on public speaking. Call to Action: If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review! Share this podcast with fellow entrepreneurs, speakers, and anyone looking to elevate their communication skills. If you'd like to get your speech evaluated on the podcast, send at email to SpeakingCoachKelly@gmail.com with the subject line "Evaluation"

Join Kelly Kaye Walker, Speaking Coach and Queen of Presenting, as she chats with Heather Nielsen, a dynamic speaker and event host. In this episode, Heather bravely delivers a speech and receives expert feedback from Kelly, who shares actionable tips to take it from great to unforgettable. Tune in for a mix of encouragement, humor, and speaker-transforming insights. Whether you're a seasoned speaker or just getting started, this episode is packed with inspiration to up your game on stage! 🎤✨ To get Heather's pdf she shared with some other great tools for finding peace, go to: https://live.mydivinejoy.com/forgiveness-inner-peace Find Heather on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/Heather2494 If you would like to get your speech evaluated on the podcast, email Kelly at speakingcoachkelly@gmail.com with the subject line "evaluation" and we will send you the application! Want to work with Kelly on your speaking skills? Check out our coaching options at https://www.speakingcoachkelly.com Download Kelly's free workbook on how to figure out how to share your life stories in a speech here: https://www.speakingcoachkelly.com/workbook Before she was The Queen of Presenting, Kelly was The Queen of Manifesting! To check out her manifesting podcast that teaches you how to achieve any goal with her 6-Step Formula called "The Drive-Thru Method of Manifesting" just click here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-queen-of-manifesting/id1573991744 Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/69d5c599-e4be-4914-9588-f3391973f658/the-queen-of-manifesting Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3fqnlmBFCKQUXxkSMnW0IO

In this engaging episode of Public Speaking Tips and Tales with Speaking Coach Kelly, host Kelly Kaye Walker welcomes a truly remarkable guest, Ann Washburn of 3 Key Elements, who has mastered the art of public speaking. With an impressive track record of over 5,000 presentations, Ann has not only spoken to diverse audiences around the world but also made significant appearances on national TV and radio over 50 times! She has also delivered a TED Talk, a milestone that many aspiring speakers dream of, with views currently at 1.9 MILLION! Throughout the episode, Kelly and Ann delve deep into the nuances of public speaking, exploring what it takes to captivate an audience and leave a lasting impact. They discuss the importance of persistence and how facing rejection, including multiple TED Talk rejections, can be a powerful motivator rather than a setback. Ann calls it Collecting NOs! Ann shares personal stories of resilience, recounting her journey from her early days as a speaker to becoming a sought-after figure in the industry. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the strategies that have helped our guest secure national TV and radio appearances. She breaks down the process of preparing for these high-stakes opportunities, emphasizing the significance of authenticity, confidence, and preparation. Kelly also shares her own experiences and aspirations, including her ongoing quest to land her own TED Talk. This episode is not just for seasoned speakers but for anyone looking to improve their communication skills, whether for professional or personal growth. From practical tips on presentation skills to a candid discussion on the emotional and mental aspects of public speaking, this conversation is packed with actionable advice and inspiration. By the end of the episode, listeners will be equipped with a deeper understanding of what it takes to succeed in the world of public speaking and will feel motivated to pursue their own speaking goals, no matter the challenges they may face. To connect with Ann Washburn, go to 3ke.to/TalkToAnn To attend her next monthly body language hotseat event online, go to 3ke.to/hotseat (if there is no event coming up, it means she just finished one, so check back in a week or so!) To find Ann's 2 free trainings, go to 3kegift.com/ann but remember you are committing to taking an action step after watching these trainings if you claim these free gifts! Want to find the stories that will fit best with your message and audience? Download Kelly's free workbook that walks you through that process at www.kellykayewalker.com/workbook And if you want to CRUISE with Kelly, go to www.kellykayewalker.com/cruise This podcast is for new and aspiring motivational speakers and public speakers. Learn from international speaker Kelly Kaye Walker her best public speaking tips and presenting skills to help small business owners, coaches, and entrepreneurs improve their communication skills and reach more of their ideal clients. Kelly also shares the details of her ongoing quest to continue applying for a TedX Talk until she is finally accepted! The focus of this podcast is to: - Help you get better at Public Speaking - Show you ways to connect more deeply with your audience - Improve your storytelling - Level up your communication skills - Share presentation tips for stage or Zoom - Overcome the fear of public speaking - Create and encourage more public speakers Need help getting better at public speaking? Want to be a motivational speaker? Want to just not suck at presentations? Let's chat! Book a free 30 minute game plan session at https://tidycal.com/kellywalker/gameplan Check out my speaker coaching options at: www.kellykayewalker.com/coaching #publicspeaking #motivationalspeaker #publicspeakingcoach #publicspeakingtips #presentationskills #learn

In this episode, Brigham Blackham from the Levelin' Up Podcast with Brigham joins my podcast for a fun interview! He shares tales from the stage that are both epic, funny, and embarrassing! Tune in for a great episode with former actor turned success coach, Brigham Blackham!! Find Brigham's podcast on YouTube here! https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNjiS0Kaqpvl2_wIp4K49X7sMgJFbG_Bt

In this episode of Public Speaking Tips and Tales with Speaking Coach Kelly, I share a personal and somewhat embarrassing story about experiencing stage fright while evaluating a high-level professional speaker at a Toastmasters meeting. Despite being a seasoned speaker and coach, I found myself unexpectedly nervous and shaking. This episode dives deep into the causes of stage fright, how our minds and bodies react to imagined failures, and what I wish I had done differently in that nerve-wracking moment. Join me as I explore the psychological and physiological aspects of stage fright and offer insights into how to manage it effectively. If you’ve ever faced similar challenges or have a great stage fright story, I’d love to hear from you in the comments! If you know you have a message to share but you still haven’t figured out what it is yet, download my workbook 10 Steps to Find the Message in Your Mess! It walks you through the process, focusing on finding the best stories from your life to create a powerful, transformational signature presentation so you can get out there and start changing lives from the! Find the link in the show notes or just type in www.kellykayewalker.com/workbook to download it for free!

In this episode I am going to tell you Five ways to ruin your speech in the first 5 seconds. You might want to get out your notebook and take notes! You may be wondering why I am focusing on the negative for this episode since as a manifesting expert I am all about focusing on the positive! It’s because THESE 5 ways to ruin a speech in the first 5 seconds drive me NUTS and they are things I wish I could eradicate from all speaker’s MOUTHS so no audience ever has to suffer through them again! I attend a public speaking class/party/training - I don’t know what to call it but it’s so fun I lean towards calling it a party. It happens every Tuesday night in Sandy UT and it’s called The Studio. It’s a bunch of speakers and aspiring speakers who get together and ‘play’ with our speaking. If you are interested in checking that out, go to SpeakUpSpeakers.com and click on The Studio! I have a poll going on this episode to vote for the one that bugs YOU the most - I am very curious to see how they stack up! If you know you should be speaking but you can’t figure out your next step, I offer a completely free, no strings attached 30 minute Game Plan to help you find your best next step! To claim one of those free sessions, go to tidycal.com/kellywalker/gameplan