The Late Night Date Night Podcast

In this episode of Late Nate Date Night, we sit down for one of the most honest conversations we’ve ever had. We talk about the unseen weight we both carry in marriage. The pressure of being the sole provider. The exhaustion of being a stay-at-home mom. The guilt, resentment, loneliness, and identity loss that quietly build when these things go unspoken. Lizzi opens up about mom guilt, perfectionism, and feeling torn between being present with the kids and wanting something for herself. Ser...

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night. I’m Sergio, and I’m here with my wife, Lizzi. In this episode, we talk about one of the hardest questions couples face but rarely say out loud: what’s actually harder, marriage or divorce? We share the real moments when our relationship almost ended before it even began. From taking our rings off in the kitchen, to planning separate lives, to realizing that walking away felt easier than staying and doing the work. This conversation goes deep into resentme...

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night. I’m Sergio, here with my wife, Lizzi. In this episode, we talk openly about something most couples never say out loud — what happens when your marriage loses all sexual desire. After having kids, breastfeeding, exhaustion, mom guilt, dad frustration, and emotional disconnection, our intimacy disappeared. And instead of talking about it, we both went deeper into resentment, avoidance, and escape. I share the moment I realized I didn’t want to live in a sex...

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night! In this episode, we open up about one of the biggest conversations we’ve had lately, whether or not we want to have a third child. It’s something we didn’t expect to talk about again, especially after saying we were “two and done,” but here we are, torn between our heads and our hearts. We share the real fears, the emotional back-and-forth, and how we’re trying to make a decision that aligns with both our marriage and our purpose. From parenting gu...

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night. I’m Sergio, and I’m here with my wife, Lizzi. This episode gets real about what it means to speak the truth in your marriage, even when it’s uncomfortable. We talk about the pain of people pleasing, the exhaustion of keeping fake peace, and how avoiding hard conversations almost cost us real connection. Lizzi opens up about breaking free from her “peacekeeper” identity — learning to say what she truly feels, set boundaries with family, and stop pretending...

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night. In this episode, we talk about why marriage breakthroughs only happen when you stop waiting for your spouse to change and start doing the work yourself. We share how old triggers, self worth struggles, and perfectionism used to fuel fights about small things like being late to church or cleaning the house. But now, instead of repeating the same old cycles, we’ve learned how to process pain, own our patterns, and create peace in our marriage. We also open ...

This week on Late Nate Date Night, Lizzi and I open up about our 4 year wedding anniversary and the hard questions every marriage faces. I had to ask myself, do I love Lizzi for who she is, or only when she performs and does what I expect? We dig into childhood wounds, performance based love, and the moments that nearly pulled us apart. From questioning if we were the “right” partners to discovering what true unconditional love looks like, this conversation is raw and real. If you’re a husban...

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night. I’m Sergio, and this is my wife, Lizzi. This episode is raw, vulnerable, and probably one of the most honest we’ve ever recorded. We talk about the dark side of entrepreneurship, what it did to our marriage, and how we almost didn’t make it. From fighting over love languages and money, to parenting burnout and a heart attack at 34 — we walk you through the chaos that nearly tore us apart. But we also share how everything started to shift when we stopped...

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night. Sergio here — solo today — and I’m talking straight to the fellas. If you’ve ever wondered why your wife doesn’t desire you anymore, why she’s pulling away, or why the spark feels dead — this episode is for you. I’m breaking down the Four Pillars of Magnetic Masculinity that every husband, dad, and business owner needs to master: Presence, Polarity, Power, and Pleasure. ✔️ How to stop being distracted and actually connect with your wife ✔️ How to flirt ...

In this episode, we talk about the pressure money puts on our marriage — especially when one person stays home and the other brings in income. We open up about the silent shame Lizzi feels not making money as a stay-at-home mom, the resentment that builds from unspoken expectations, and the hard truth that old patterns don’t die unless we kill them. From money guilt to identity shifts, to God, body image, and feeling stuck — this is one of the realest episodes we’ve done. If you're a husband ...

In this raw and real episode of the Late Night Date Night podcast, we open up about the hard truths behind our marriage struggles — the yelling, the guilt, the resentment, and ultimately, the breakthroughs. From feeling like a "single married mom" to learning the power of extreme ownership, we dive deep into what it really takes to heal a relationship and become better partners and parents. We talk about how our worst fights in front of the kids became the catalyst for change, the therapy th...

If you're struggling in your marriage constantly fighting about the same things, or feeling stuck in your role as a husband or father—this episode is for you. Lizzi and I dive deep into what really changed the dynamic in our relationship. We talk about how repeating arguments, resentment in marriage, and lack of intimacy were all symptoms of something deeper—and how we finally broke the cycle. We also get real about what it looks like when one partner starts growing and the other doesn’t… a...