What Do Women Bring To The Table?

What Do Women Bring To The Table?

From The Nice Guy Show by Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

October 22, 2025 · 52 min · Episode 120

About this episode

The episode explores the toxic mindset behind the question of what each gender brings to relationships and emphasizes the importance of healing and abundance thinking.

Ever caught yourself asking "What do women even bring to the table?" or heard women firing back with "What do men bring?" If you're asking either question, this episode is for you. Faisal, Ari, and Chuck dive deep into the mindset behind these toxic questions — and more importantly, how to shift from scarcity thinking to abundance in relationships. They get brutally honest about their own dark periods: failed marriages, emotional hostage situations, trauma bonding, and the wounds that kept them stuck in victim mode. Here's what we unpack: The psychology behind "what do you bring to the table" thinking (spoiler: it's rooted in pain and immaturity) How unhealed wounds sabotage every relationship you enter Why most people enter relationships from deficit instead of wholeness The difference between being needy vs. being whole and self-sufficient What healthy women actually do bring: beauty, nurturing, social connection, aesthetic sense What conscious men bring: leadership, protection, direction, emotional stability The "garden metaphor" — how to tend your relationship instead of just taking from it This isn't about gender wars or pickup artist nonsense. It's about doing the inner…

People in this episode

Hosts: Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff, Chuck Chapman

Topics covered

  • relationships
  • self-improvement
  • mindset
  • emotional healing
  • gender dynamics

Keywords

  • women
  • men
  • relationships
  • healing
  • mindset
  • emotional stability
  • self-sufficiency
  • scarcity thinking
  • abundance

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