The Self Aware Leader with Jason Rigby

Your employees don't trust you. Not you personally — leadership in general. And most leaders have no idea how deep that distrust runs or what it actually takes to fix it. In this episode of The Self Aware Leader, Jason Rigby breaks down the employee trust crisis happening in 2026 — why your team walks in the door already suspicious, what toxic leadership looks like from the inside, and why servant leadership is the only real answer to a generation that has been let down by every authority figure in their lives. What you'll hear in this episode: Why Gen Z and younger employees distrust authority before you've done anything wrong The difference between toxic leadership that relies on title and servant leadership that earns trust through genuine investment Why Jesus is the most relevant leadership model for 2026 — not for religious reasons, but because he operated in the exact same environment of corrupt authority and institutional failure that your employees grew up watching The three specific things servant leaders do that toxic bosses never will Why "not being a bad boss" is not the same as being a good leader What it actually looks like to invest in your people — and why the ROI follows genuine care, not the other way around If this episode hit you, two things: Subscribe so you don't miss the next one — new episodes every week on leadership, self-awareness, and the real stuff underneath the surface Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it takes 60 seconds and it's the single biggest way to help this show reach more leaders who need it Go deeper every week: Jason writes about leadership psychology, self-awareness, and the inner work of leading at jasonrigby.substack.com — free to subscribe. Links: Substack: jasonrigby.substack.com Quiz — What's Running You? selfawarepodcast.com/quiz TIMESTAMPS 00:00 — Why your team already doesn't trust you before you've done anything 01:45 — The political, institutional, and cultural reasons distrust runs so deep in 2026 04:00 — The Roman Empire, the religious elite, and why that's your workplace right now 06:30 — What Jesus actually did differently — and why it worked 08:45 — Jason's personal story: the mentor who saw him in a crowd of thousands 10:30 — What lazy leadership looks like in 2026 (and why your team can feel it) 12:15 — Three things servant leaders do that toxic bosses never will 14:30 — Why profit and ROI follow genuine investment — not the other way around

Leadership isn't about being right—it's about being real. Angie Lyon, Chief Soul Officer at Black River Performance Management and host of the Leader U Podcast, went from high-stakes operating rooms to transforming leadership teams. In this raw conversation, she reveals why 87% of leaders struggle with imposter syndrome and what to do about it. What You'll Learn: Transitional Intelligence (TQ) - The critical skill that helps leaders navigate change with intention instead of chaos, and why it's different from emotional intelligence The root cause of leadership struggles - Why most challenges trace back to feeling "not enough" or "not safe," and how to break free from these limiting beliefs Creating micro-cultures of excellence - How one self-aware leader can build a thriving team even inside toxic organizations AI-proof leadership skills - The human capabilities (empathy, communication, self-awareness) that will make you irreplaceable in an AI-driven world The unlearning paradox - Why authentic leadership requires shedding the habits that got you here From proving to improving - How to shift from external validation to internal growth and confidence Key Insights: Angie shares her journey from surgical technologist to leadership expert, revealing what she learned watching leaders in life-or-death situations. "One good leader can create a culture where people thrive," she explains. "But leaders stuck in fear mode create environments where people make more mistakes." She introduces the concept of Transitional Intelligence—your ability to move through change without losing yourself. While Emotional Intelligence helps you feel your way through moments, Transitional Intelligence helps you move through them, especially in the messy middle of transition. The conversation gets real about vulnerability, ego, and the courage to ask: "Do I want to be right, or do I want this relationship?" Perfect for: Mid-to-senior level managers, entrepreneurs, executives, team leads, HR professionals, and anyone committed to becoming a more self-aware, resilient, and human-centric leader. About Angie Lyon: Angie is a certified surgical technologist turned leadership development expert, recognized as Woman of Influence in Entrepreneurship (2021). Her upcoming book "Emerge: Charting Waters to Discover Your Best Self" releases September 2025. Connect: BlackRiverPM.com | https://blackriverpm.com/leadership/angie-lion/ About The Self Aware Leader: Jason Rigby guides entrepreneurs and leaders to master self-awareness by integrating ancient wisdom with modern leadership strategies. Subscribe for weekly conversations on resilient, empathetic, and conscious leadership.

The Illusion of Success: Why We Feel Unfulfilled Even When We Have It All What if your greatest achievement was a trap? What if the success you've worked your entire life to achieve left you feeling more miserable than when you started? This isn't a hypothetical question. It's the shocking reality for countless high-achievers, entrepreneurs, and leaders. It's the central theme of a powerful conversation I had with Keala Kanae, who went from $20,000 in debt and a life of numbing out to building a multi-million-dollar empire. But as he revealed, the real breakthrough wasn't about the money; it was about "unlearning the lies he'd been telling himself". This is a new perspective that will shatter everything you think you know about success, discipline, and leadership. Procrastination is Not a Flaw, It's Feedback We've all been told that procrastination, self-sabotage, and imposter syndrome are signs of a lack of discipline or a character flaw. But Keala offers a radically different view: these are not problems to overcome, but symptoms that serve as feedback. He explains that every human being has a set of unconscious values that governs their life. When our conscious goals are in conflict with these unconscious values, we experience these symptoms. The 11-year-old boy who plays video games until 2 a.m. is not undisciplined; he is highly disciplined in something he values. The mind's purpose is to help us fulfill what we perceive to be most valuable. Therefore, our procrastination isn't a sign that we're broken—it's a signal telling us when we're venturing away from what we truly value. The True Meaning of Your Bank Account and Calendar To understand our own values, we have to stop listening to the "noisy society" that tells us who we are supposed to be. Keala echoes the wisdom of business guru Peter Drucker, who said, "Tell me what you value, and I might believe you, but show me your bank account and your calendar, and I'll show you what you value". If you're a leader who says you value your family, but your calendar is packed with work and your energy is spent on business podcasts while your kids and spouse are at the bottom of your priority list, your life is perfectly demonstrating what you actually value. When we are pursuing things we truly value, we have inspiration—an internal, self-sustaining drive. When we're pursuing something low on our value list, we need motivation—an external force that is never self-sustaining. The Trap of the "Greatest Human Illusion" Keala believes the greatest human illusion is thinking we can have one side of life without the other. We are taught to label things as "good" or "bad". When we label something as "good," we're conscious of the benefits but unconscious of the drawbacks. When we label something as "bad," we're conscious of the drawbacks but unconscious of the benefits. The reality is that equanimity, or balance, is the language of the universe. Keala shares a powerful example: the Black Plague of the 14th century killed tens of millions, but a mutation that stemmed from its survivors made millions of people immune to the AIDS virus centuries later. Was the plague good or bad? "It was both," he says, because both sides exist. From Forgiveness to Gratitude This understanding is the key to true healing and fulfillment. We often hold onto resentment. The next step is forgiveness, which is better than resentment, but still comes from the perspective that "I'm right, you're wrong". The place beyond forgiveness is gratitude. It is the profound realization that "I see how this benefited me". When Keala went back and re-examined the traumatic memories of his childhood, he realized that the very arguments about money that caused him pain were what honed his communication skills and helped him become a great marketer. When you realize your greatest challenge was also your greatest gift, "what the fuck can stop you then?". Your Secret Weapon: Know Thyself, Lead Thyself This entire journey is about becoming an "authentic leader". Keala defines this as someone who "knows their calling and has the courage to answer the call". This requires shedding the personas and false beliefs we've inherited from a noisy world. Want to start this journey of profound self-discovery? Keala has a free self-assessment that will help you identify your actual, unconscious values. He calls it The Power Code. Take the free self-assessment here: thepowercode.com.

Leaders spend $5-10K monthly on ads that disappear overnight. But what if there was a single asset that could instantly elevate your authority, attract ideal clients, and open doors to unparalleled speaking opportunities for YEARS to come? In this episode, Jason sits down with Everett O'Keefe, "The Book Whisper," who's behind over 200 bestselling launches. They dive deep into why authorship isn't just about writing—it's about igniting your legacy and multiplying your impact. 🎯 Key Takeaways: Why bestselling authors are rarer than doctors and lawyers The FAQ + SAQ method: Turn your expertise into chapters in days (not years) How one client increased speaking fees by 600% post-launch Print-on-demand secrets: Get books for $3.25 vs paying $10K+ for inventory The "editorial board" process that replaces expensive book coaches Why owning your ISBN = owning your future revenue 💡 Powerful Insights: "Time for your business card to get a spine" "You want to be the one who wrote the book, not the one who read the book" "There's nothing like a book to move a brand or an idea" What You'll Learn: ✅ Traditional vs Hybrid vs DIY publishing (pros/cons of each) ✅ How to turn 20 FAQs into a bestselling business book ✅ The "unread book" power (why it works even sitting on a shelf) ✅ Speaking fee strategies using your book as leverage ✅ The biggest post-launch mistake that kills momentum About the Guest: Everett O'Keefe has helped launch over 200 bestsellers and specializes in hybrid publishing that gives authors complete ownership while handling the complex logistics. He's the founder of Ignite Press and believes every leader has a book inside them waiting to transform their business. Resources Mentioned: Everett's book: "The Power of the Published" https://www.amazon.com/Power-Published-Rapidly-Authoring-Business/dp/1950710033 Free consultation: ignitepress.us Free PDF download: mypodcastperk.com Why This Matters for Self-Aware Leaders: Your expertise deserves a spine. In an AI-driven world, your unique human story, wisdom, and insights become MORE valuable, not less. A book isn't just marketing—it's your legacy in print. This episode could be the catalyst that transforms your expertise into lasting authority. Your move, leader. Subscribe to Self Aware Leadership for more no-BS insights that combine ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help you lead from clarity, not chaos.

"Unless you learn how to make money while you sleep, you'll work until you die." - Warren Buffett In this transformative episode, Bronson Hill reveals how he went from a $200K medical sales professional to raising over $50 million in real estate capital - and the mindset shifts that made it all possible. 🎯 WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER: - Why 90% of "passive income" strategies actually create more work - The difference between financial freedom and TIME freedom - How to reduce your taxes by 80-90% through strategic investments - The "wealth worthiness" breakthrough that unlocks abundance - Ancient wisdom principles for modern wealth building - How to structure your week for maximum freedom (145 days off!) KEY INSIGHTS: - The real test of passive investing (10X scalability without becoming a job) - Why rental properties aren't actually passive income - Tax strategies for high earners that most CPAs don't know - The psychology behind wealth building (80% mindset, 20% strategy) - How to develop "whisperings" that rewire your money beliefs Bronson shares his exact frameworks for building truly passive income streams and developing the psychology of wealth that separates millionaires from everyone else. GUEST: Bronson Hill - Managing Member of Bronson Equity, Author of "Fire Yourself," $45M+ in Real Estate Capital Get Bronson's free "Mailbox Money Blueprint" - text CASHFLOW to 33777 Connect with Bronson: - Website: bronsonequity.com - Instagram: @bronsondavidhill - LinkedIn: Bronson Hill - YouTube: @bronsonequity --- The Self Aware Leader Podcast guides modern entrepreneurs and leaders to deeper self-awareness and impactful action through ancient wisdom for contemporary challenges. Host Jason Rigby explores the intersection of consciousness, leadership, and practical success - helping you build wealth while building character. Subscribe for weekly episodes on leadership development, passive income strategies, and building thriving communities. KEYWORDS: passive income, real estate investing, financial freedom, wealth building, leadership development, tax strategies, mindset, entrepreneurship, self awareness, ancient wisdom

In this powerful episode of The Self-Aware Leader, Jason Rigby welcomes Ingrid Hu Dahl, author of "Sun Shining on the Morning Snow" and a renowned leadership coach. Ingrid bravely shares her raw story of navigating crushing racism and an identity crisis as a mixed-race "Hapa" child, growing up between white New Jersey suburbs and Taipei. This conversation delves into how her unique upbringing shaped her understanding of belonging and resilience, offering profound insights for self-aware leadership. Ingrid illuminates the critical need for leaders to cultivate self-awareness and curiosity, especially when addressing issues of diversity, inclusion, and unconscious bias in the workplace. She discusses how her parents' interracial love story defied societal norms, influencing her own boldness and commitment to authenticity. The episode provides practical frameworks for leaders to unlearn ingrained behaviors, foster truly inclusive environments, and lead with empathy and heart rather than fear or ego. Listeners will discover how embracing one's full story, vulnerabilities and all, is not only a path to personal healing but also a powerful foundation for building trust and inspiring innovation within teams. Ingrid's "Phoenix" metaphor for transformation and her grandmother's fierce, heart-driven leadership serve as guiding lights, encouraging every leader to live boldly, connect authentically, and create spaces where everyone feels they belong. Detailed Episode Overview Have you ever felt like an outsider, even in your own community? In this compelling episode, "The Self-Aware Leader" dives deep into the heart of identity and resilient leadership with special guest Ingrid Hu Dahl. Ingrid, a trailblazing leadership coach and author, shares her journey as a mixed-race individual, revealing how contrasting cultural experiences—from navigating predominantly white New Jersey suburbs to embracing her Taiwanese heritage—profoundly shaped her self-aware leadership philosophy. This conversation unpacks the subtle, often unaddressed, forms of racism and bias that leaders must confront head-on to foster truly inclusive environments. Ingrid offers a practical framework for developing emotional intelligence for leaders, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and challenging assumptions. Drawing from her own experiences, she provides actionable strategies for communicating across diverse styles, ensuring every team member feels heard and valued. Discover how to interrupt unconscious biases and slow down decision-making to cultivate a growth mindset. Jason and Ingrid also explore the power of vulnerability in leadership, highlighting how acknowledging imperfections and asking for help can transform team dynamics and accelerate business success. This episode is a must-listen for any leader seeking to enhance their empathetic leadership skills and build a culture of belonging. Key Learning Outcomes Discover how to lead with curiosity and empathy to build truly inclusive teams and challenge unconscious biases that hinder diversity. Learn the importance of self-awareness for leaders to understand how their own experiences and communication styles impact team dynamics. Master practical frameworks for breaking out of leadership "ruts" by actively listening and asking exploratory questions. Apply ancient wisdom principles to modern leadership challenges by cultivating "boldness with heart" and embracing vulnerability for stronger connections. Understand how to create environments where everyone feels they belong, regardless of background, by checking biases and fostering psychological safety. Resources Mentioned: Ingrid Hu Dahl's Official Website: Learn more about Ingrid's work and leadership coaching. https://www.ingridhudahl.com/ Sun Shining on the Morning Snow: Purchase Ingrid Hu Dahl's powerful memoir. https://www.sunshiningonmorningsnow.com/buy Ingrid Hu Dahl on Instagram: Connect with Ingrid on social media. https://www.instagram.com/ingridhudahl/?hl=en Episode Duration: 54:02 Publish Date: June 29, 2025 Host Information: Jason Rigby, The Self-Aware Leader Topic Categories: Self-Awareness Foundation, Resilient Leadership, Ancient Wisdom, Empathetic Leadership, Diversity & Inclusion, Emotional Intelligence Tags: Ingrid Hu Dahl, self-aware leadership, emotional intelligence, resilience, mixed-race identity, Hapa, leadership coaching, diversity, inclusion, unconscious bias, authentic leadership, ancient wisdom, empathetic leadership, crisis management, personal transformation, memoir, Sun Shining on the Morning Snow, Jason Rigby, conscious leadership, human-centered leadership, unlearning, vulnerability, belonging, Phoenix, family heritage. Transcript Availability: Full transcript available on the podcast website. Related Content Connections: Links to related episodes and Jason Rigby's community for deeper engagement.

What happens when a 20-year battle with bulimia meets ancient Stoic philosophy? In this episode, leadership coach Becky Schmooke shares how emotional intelligence, radical honesty, and core values helped her overcome addiction—and now empower elite NFL teams. Becky reveals her journey from anorexia at 13 to founding a mindful leadership practice that transforms chaos into clarity. You'll learn: The true meaning of humble leadership How to apply Stoicism to daily stress and emotional triggers Why bulimia operates like a behavioral addiction Becky's powerful SAFE framework (Self-awareness, Action, Fortitude, Engagement) How to lead with integrity—even when it hurts Perfect for anyone seeking deeper self-awareness, emotional mastery, and values-based leadership. Whether you're a CEO, coach, or just stuck in survival mode—this conversation will help you lead with strength and purpose. 🎯 Keywords: humble leadership, emotional intelligence, mental resilience, addiction recovery, values-based leadership, NFL coaching, stoicism, recovery stories 🔗 More at: SelfAwarePodcast.com https://www.beckyschmooke.com/

Are your people quietly quitting without ever handing in a resignation? In this powerhouse episode of The Self Aware Leader, host Jason Rigby dives deep with top leadership coach and strategist Dave Garrison, author of the highly anticipated book The Buy-In Advantage (June 3, 2025). Together, they expose the hidden disengagement epidemic costing companies billions—and unveil a clear path forward through humble leadership, emotional intelligence, and co-creation. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The real reason employees stop caring—it's not what you think 7 signs your team is disengaging while still on the payroll Why free lunches and ping pong tables won't fix culture How to use co-creation to build unstoppable teams Why vulnerability is the secret to high-trust leadership Memorable Moments: "Judgment and curiosity cannot coexist." "If you don't have time to invest in people, get ready to spend it interviewing." "Leaders go last—except when it comes to vulnerability." This isn't theory—it's a practical masterclass for CEOs, founders, and emerging leaders ready to rebuild trust, unlock team potential, and lead with purpose in 2025. Resources Mentioned: The Buy-In Advantage by Dave Garrison (Launched TODAY!): Amazon Leadership tools & workshops: GarrisonGrowth.com Connect with Dave on LinkedIn: Dave Garrison Subscribe and Review If this episode sparked new ideas for you, hit Subscribe and leave a 5-star review. It helps more heart-centered leaders like you discover the show. Join the movement at selfawarepodcast.com #Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfAwareLeader #HumbleLeadership #BuyInAdvantage #EmployeeEngagement