The Struggle Bubble

Somewhere along the way, youth soccer stopped being a game kids play and became a product their parents buy. Dai Redwood has spent years building a program he believes in — most recently as the executive and sporting director at Fremont FC — and he's built a club that runs almost opposite to the rest of the country. No travel tournaments. No badge on the sleeve. Kids who start at U8 and are still there when they graduate. Dai, Craig, and Chad go deep on the part of youth sports nobody markets: the gap between what kids actually need and what the system has learned to sell.We get into:How some clubs choose to chase trophies as a marketing tool. How Fremont FC turns vision and values into something you can see at every practice — high fives, handbooks, and coaches who admit they're still learningThe shiny-new-school analogy that explains every parent who leaves a club their kid lovesWhy we "professionalized the kids — the home kit, the away kit, the third kit — but not the coaches"Relative age effect, late developers, and why picking on impact instead of potential costs us the players who'd actually make itThe private-equity question — Surf, Rush, and Pioneer Sports — and Dai's blunt take on what that money does to a kid's experiencePay-to-play: not the devil, but an abused system — and what an honest version actually looks likeIf your spring just ended in a parking lot full of pop-up tents and trophies nobody will remember, this is the conversation to have before you sign up for the next thing.Dai Redwood is the Executive & Sporting Director of Fremont FC and a veteran of youth soccer development in NorCal.

In this season finale of the Struggle Bubble, hosts Chad Kutting and Craig Surgey reflect on their journey through coaching, parenting, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of balancing family life with coaching responsibilities, the transition from youth to high school soccer, and the importance of injury prevention in sports. The conversation also touches on the evolution of parenting, the significance of taking chances, and the lessons learned from their guests throughout the season. As they look back on their experiences, they emphasize the importance of time management and the journey of starting a business, all while navigating the chaos of family life.Support the showHelp support our podcast by subscribing on YouTube, Apple Music, and Spotify. Keep up to date with all things Struggle Bubble on our Instagram Page @thestrugglebubblepod

In this episode of The Struggle Bubble, we’re joined by Ricky Lewis, former MLS player, and Leslie Osborne, former US Women’s National Team and NWSL star. Together, they take us through their incredible journey—from life on the soccer field to raising families and creating a lasting impact with the launch of Bay FC, the Bay Area’s newest women’s pro soccer team.Ricky and Leslie share candid insights on navigating the chaos of parenting while managing the demands of youth sports, building community through soccer, and recognizing the signs of burnout. Listen in as they reflect on how their experiences as athletes have shaped their approach to parenting, how they balance passion with family, and what they hope to achieve through Bay FC.If you’re juggling family life, career pressures, and personal goals, this episode offers a real look at how to thrive amidst it all.Support the showHelp support our podcast by subscribing on YouTube, Apple Music, and Spotify. Keep up to date with all things Struggle Bubble on our Instagram Page @thestrugglebubblepod

In this conversation, Chad and Craig Surgey welcome Lisa Mims, an executive coach, to discuss the intricacies of leadership, work-life balance, and personal growth. Lisa shares her insights on how coaching can help leaders navigate their professional and personal lives, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection, setting boundaries, and understanding one's values. The discussion also touches on the evolution of leadership styles, the impact of COVID-19 on work culture, and the significance of creating a safe environment for growth. Lisa provides practical advice for those grappling with major life decisions, encouraging listeners to explore their values and envision a fulfilling life.X2O StudioX2O Studio in Los Gatos and Danville. Use code TheStruggleBubble for 20% off new class packs. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showHelp support our podcast by subscribing on YouTube, Apple Music, and Spotify. Keep up to date with all things Struggle Bubble on our Instagram Page @thestrugglebubblepod

In this episode, Chad and Craig have a lighthearted and humorous conversation about various topics, including gratitude, their podcast journey, sports, and their children's activities. They express their appreciation for the support they have received and discuss upcoming episodes and sponsors. Support the showHelp support our podcast by subscribing on YouTube, Apple Music, and Spotify. Keep up to date with all things Struggle Bubble on our Instagram Page @thestrugglebubblepod

In this enlightening episode, Chad and Craig sit down with Thomas Eager, pitching coach and recruiting coordinator for Stanford Cardinal Baseball. With Craig donning his coaching hat, the duo draws out Thomas's journey from small-town roots to playing at Cal Poly, getting drafted by the Cardinals, and eventually coaching at top college programs.Throughout the candid conversation, Thomas opens up about the defining moments and mentors that shaped his path. Chad and Thomas bond over the challenges of coaching their own kids and the perils of pursuing perfection in sports. Together, they tackle tough issues facing the game today, from social media pressure to the transfer portal and NIL deals.Craig brings his signature humor and hands-on coaching experience to the chat, raising thought-provoking questions about the impact of big money on college sports dynamics and the delicate art of managing team morale.As a father of three, Thomas offers honest insights on balancing career ambitions with being present for family and modeling a healthy perspective for young athletes. Through it all, he exemplifies leading and living with authenticity, empathy, and the flexibility to learn and grow.Packed with relatable moments and hard-won wisdom, this episode will resonate with anyone pursuing their passion while keeping their purpose and priorities in focus. Join Chad, Craig, and Thomas for a masterclass in navigating the struggle bubble with skill and heart.Support the showHelp support our podcast by subscribing on YouTube, Apple Music, and Spotify. Keep up to date with all things Struggle Bubble on our Instagram Page @thestrugglebubblepod