Joel & Mary Beeke: Why Strong Marriages Start with Loving God First

About this episode

Joel and Mary Beeke discuss the biblical foundation of strong marriages and the importance of loving God first.

Joel and Mary Beeke have spent decades studying, teaching, and living what the Bible says about marriage. In this conversation we explore the biblical foundation of a strong marriage, why many couples slowly drift apart, and how Scripture provides a model for love, respect, friendship, and lifelong commitment. Joel Beeke is a pastor, theologian, and author of more than 100 books. Mary Beeke is a teacher, writer, and longtime pastor’s wife who has helped generations of women and families cultivate strong Christian homes. Together they wrote How to Build a Godly Marriage: 12 Principles for Flourishing and Lasting. We discuss the biblical pattern of marriage found in Ephesians 5, the Puritan vision of joyful family life, and why holiness — not emotional intensity — is the true foundation of lasting happiness. If you want to build a strong Christian marriage, lead your household well, and recover the deeper wisdom of the Christian tradition, this conversation offers practical guidance and time-tested insight. 👉 Mentorship for men: https://willspencer.co/mentorship TOPICS DISCUSSED The biblical foundation of marriage Why couples slowly drift apart Sacrificial love and respect in…

People in this episode

Host: Will Spencer

Guests: Joel Beeke, Mary Beeke

Topics covered

• biblical foundation of marriage
• drifting apart in relationships
• sacrificial love and respect
• Puritan vision of marriage
• holiness and happiness
• kindness and encouragement
• raising responsible children

Keywords

• Christian marriage
• strong relationships
• family life
• biblical principles
• marriage advice
• holiness
• trust and unity

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: How to Build a Godly Marriage: 12 Principles for Flourishing and Lasting, Ephesians 5

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