102. Ophelia Gordon: living though anorexia and divorce

About this episode

Ophelia Gordon shares her experiences with anorexia and divorce, and how music has played a crucial role in her recovery.

Words hold huge power, and for a long time the word 'anorexia' felt dirty to pianist Ophelia Gordon. First experiencing its wrath while studying at the BRIT School and watching her parents' divorce unravel her life, anorexia would return two years ago when Ophelia separated from her husband. She joins Hattie and Rebecca to uncover the story of her eating disorder, the trauma of divorce and the ways in which learning and recording Nikolai Kapustin's music has saved her life. Things Musicians Don't Talk About is supported by the  Royal Society of Musicians ! Follow RSM on  Instagram ,  X  and  Facebook . ------------------------------------------------------------- Support TMDTA Want to support us on a regular basis? Consider joining our Patreon from £1 a month:  https://www.patreon.com/tmdta Feeling generous? Help us raise funds for the podcast:  https://www.gofundme.com/f/v9jgf-things-musicians-dont-talk-about Find TMDTA on all the socials at @tmdtapodcast ------------------------------------------------------------- Hosts: Hattie Butterworth & Rebecca Toal Editor: Hattie Butterworth Music: Katy Ehrlich Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy…

People in this episode

Hosts: Hattie Butterworth, Rebecca Toal

Guest: Ophelia Gordon

Topics covered

• anorexia
• divorce
• mental health
• music
• personal story

Keywords

• anorexia
• divorce
• mental health
• music therapy
• Ophelia Gordon

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Royal Society of Musicians

Products: Patreon, GoFundMe

Books & works: Nikolai Kapustin's music

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