Why Trying Harder is Making Your Faith Worse

Why Trying Harder is Making Your Faith Worse

From Thinking Allowed with Michael Wilson by Michael Wilson

February 6, 2026 · 19 min

About this episode

This episode explores how the belief that one must try harder in their faith can lead to spiritual exhaustion and anxiety.

Many Christians were taught that if their faith feels heavy, the solution is always the same: pray more, read more, try harder.But no one ever tells you when it’s enough.That’s because the system most of us inherited doesn’t have a finish line.In this episode of Thinking Allowed, we examine the belief system that turns faith into an endless improvement project, one where effort replaces trust and rest starts to feel irresponsible.Jesus didn’t invite people to impress God.He invited them to trust Him.If your spiritual life feels exhausting, this conversation may help you name why, and give you permission to question a system that keeps asking for more but never offers peace.*Topics explored in this episode:*--Why “trying harder” often increases pressure instead of freedom--How faith quietly becomes performance without us noticing--Why the absence of “enough” creates spiritual anxiety--What Jesus actually meant when He invited the weary to restThis episode is for anyone who feels sincere, committed, and tired, and suspects the problem may not be their effort, but the framework they were given.Thinking Allowed S01E06📘 *FREE RESOURCE:*Ready to dig deeper? Download my free resource…

People in this episode

Host: Michael Wilson

Topics covered

  • faith
  • spiritual anxiety
  • performance
  • trust
  • rest
  • Christianity

Keywords

  • faith
  • spirituality
  • Christianity
  • performance
  • trust
  • rest
  • anxiety

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Renovatus Church

Places: West Tennessee, Dyersburg, TN

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