Struggling w/Ditching The Male Gaze

Struggling w/Ditching The Male Gaze

From Thirty Flirty and Trying by NoLo and Chris

November 16, 2025 · 1h 11m · Season 2 · Episode 11

About this episode

The episode discusses the impact of the male gaze on personal identity and social interactions.

Hi, frahnd! This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives. Today we’re getting real about something that so many of us are unlearning: the influence of the male gaze and how it’s shaped the way we show up in the world. From how we dress, to how we act, to what we post online. It's time to talk about the quiet pressure of being “watchable,” “pleasing,” or “desirable”… and how exhausting that can be. What are your thoughts on today’s convo? How has the male gaze influenced your life and actions? Share your thoughts with us on Instagram or YouTube! ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon 😈 Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon! Not to mention the snail mail , exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly, and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not…

People in this episode

Hosts: NoLo, Chris

Topics covered

  • male gaze
  • social pressure
  • self-perception
  • personal growth
  • cultural influence

Keywords

  • male gaze
  • social life
  • self-image
  • cultural pressure
  • personal change

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