Too Busy to Flush

It’s been over a month since our last episode, J.R. is back from his extended stay in Nashville touring and Molly wants has so many things to say! Not really, but she did have an interesting conversation with our youngest about a line in a classic, hymn, we have teenagers with crushes which means discussion around framing relationships with opposite sexes and how to point to examples of character traits that are worth pursuing in a person. We’d love to have you join us around our digital table this week!Show NotesIntro: Travel, difficult people, lots of travel, keeping in touch with the family.6:00: People are weird and hard and dumb. J.R. recaps his summer touring and J.R. made progress on Molly’s [not that] big to-do list.12:40: Molly tries a TikTok recipe trend: Boursin cheese sauce for pasta18:30: What J.R.’s been eating while away, store bought eggshells are a lot thicker than backyard chickens.20:40: How many songs did Fanny Crosby write?24:15: What does “Jesus is mine” mean?27:41: Seeing flaming gaps as a parent because of your weaknesses.29:18: How to see the goal, not just the rules and conversations with our kids33:55: Molly really likes @PleaseDontMarryALoser’s content when it comes to developing relationships as a teenager.39:36: Teenage crushes, squashing them appropriately and pointing out good qualities in a person worth pursuing.45:35: Setting the tone for future potential guys by being a good husband and father.50:45: Doing sports with kids vs. putting them in traditional sports.57:02: J.R.’s most rewarding moment while touring and living in Nashville (it involved a couple big deal songwriters.)1:04:35: Show CloseCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it’s super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly’s preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: Hunting season, memes about the Louvre robbery, Coldplay family fallout.6:45: DEI and being hired for something other than merit. 12:09: Molly’s belief on women in the military and law enforcement14:00: Origins of DEI, affirmative action, feminism and transgenderism.17:59: What makes inhaling house fire smoke so bad for you.19:20: The truth or false bias of new information on the internet.21:50: A video about how England really is.24:23: What it does to our souls when we base all our education on the internet.26:15: Fevers are healthy responses to infection and Tylenol drama.31:43: It’s really hard to know who to trust. 34:38: You can’t draw many straight lines between choices and consequences. The advice changes so much.37:18: New moms needing information they didn’t grow up with.40:12: Expanding the mindset of decision-making based on fear.42:59: Making decisions based our Christian world-view.44:35: God’s mandate to trust and no straight lines from good decisions to bad outcomes. You cannot control everything.47:40: Molly’s top advice to our newly pregnant friend.51:00: Freedom in Christ is not just freedom for liberties but to let go of the sensed need for control.52:47: Show CloseToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's Preferred Milk FrotherIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: Broccoli in colder climates, garden updates6:00: Post-religious right, post-Charlie Kirk right.10:10: Boldness and the generational attraction.14:17: Alisa Childers, Derek Webb and those that didn’t deconstruct.19:07: Okay, one traumatizing youth group game.21:28: Back to Childers and changing her ministry because of Charlie Kirk.23:50: Picking up off last week’s end on 1 Timothy.28:56: A true religion, Dave Rueben, and desires to be more into religion.30:01: Is there a place for LGBT to worship in a church after they come to church before they’re convicted but after choosing to follow the Lord?34:59: A real danger in optics and protecting kids for the good, true and beautiful.38:27: A question that needs to be answered. Do you encourage a divorce or legal separation?39:13: Biological bewilderment. And an example from recent African history.43:00: Why the solution of multiple wives would not apply to today’s culture.45:09: Going for walks and stockpiling quality time. John Gottman’s observations of couples (4 Horseman) and the primary indicator for whether a marriage will last.50:00: Don’t just “date your wife.”58:01: Show CloseToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's Preferred Milk FrotherIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: schedules, taglines, girls back at school4:14: Transhumanism and a 6 minute John Stonestreet Breakpoint episode.7:40: Molly’s top 3 thoughts of the summer: thought number 1: our oldest two kids are really enjoyable.11:19: Thought number 2: lower your expectations of people. The Future of Christian Marriage.22:53: Thought number 3: don’t wait until your 30s to do something interesting. The Definding Decade. Bed and Board.34:03: Representing “home” forever to a children and husband. The act of sex is something a man does to a woman and being a good guest in her home.36:30: JR’s three things36:51: Thought number 1: how much he’s been enjoying work.41:52: Thought number 2: he’s been enjoying the property.47:32: Thought number 3: the “grayness” of scripture.50:13: Molly responds54:50: Shades of gray and the new Tophouse podcast.59:40: JR’s all-in on barefoot shoes1:00:30: Molly’s all-in on Apple Butter1:01:41: Titus harvested his first elkShow Close: JR’s special anniversary present!Too Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's Preferred Milk FrotherIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

ntro: Dude Perfect, kids finding new music, behind the scenes on music licensing and coffee consumption.10:07: Speaking of aging, Bryan Johnson isn’t sharing the negative side effects of being the most measured man on Earth.12:40: Waxing philosophical about times changing and the benefits of having grandparents around.18:07: Home is where the wife is and growing up moving a lot.20:48: Kids and change and judo struggles- some background.23:38: The current struggle with judo.28:13: Musing aloud about, life changes and uncertainties, family purpose, goals and benefits of current sporting activities.33:50: Is this burnout or is this not serving our family well?36:52: Is there room for a seasonal break?40:07: Sustainability and being trapped by optimizing opportunities.42:31: What are we trying to achieve as a family?45:21: The guardrails of God’s promises: God’s will.1:01:39: Banking culture and another element of Molly’s history that’s playing into her thinking.1:03:17: Molly wants to know your thoughts.1:04:55: Molly’s brief recap of Nicole Shanahan’s interview with Allie Beth Stuckey.1:08:37: Show CloseToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's Preferred Milk FrotherIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: More chickens, God’s ordained order for the world, scouting and prepping chicken deliveries.14:09: Still talking about chickens lol: chick deaths, early learning experiences, chick show and tell.25:21: Brief housekeeping on our upcoming show schedule.26:50: BLVDS shows this weekend, the family attends, Molly’s reflections, JRs thoughts. Growing up dancing, thoughts about jobs that your kids enjoy.40:15: A takedown of Brian Johnson49:45: A brief foray into Tesla promotions and political shenanigans.54:40: A re-awakening of religiosity, love in the 21st century, a couple of podcast episodes Molly is looking forward to.1:02:37: Pulling the milk frother recommendation.1:03:06: Coffee, mold and beer.1:10:11: Show CloseBelieve, Ross DouthatThe Suprising Rebirth of Belief in God, Justin BrieleyThe Case Against the Sexual Revolution, Louise PerryToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's Preferred Milk FrotherIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe