#118: Where Fetishes Come From – And Why I'm Now Into PJ's

About this episode

Harley Rabbit explores the origins of fetishes, sharing personal anecdotes and psychological insights.

This week I'm diving into the fascinating world of fetishes: what they are, how they differ from core desires, and why some very specific things can become incredibly erotic. I share a very personal (and very cosy) story about my partner Slade's pyjama fetish, explore the psychology behind how fetishes form during our formative years, and reflect on my own unexpected turn-ons — including steel, and possibly Formula One cars. Whether you've got a fetish you've never quite understood, or you're...

People in this episode

Host: Harley Rabbit

Topics covered

• fetishes
• psychology
• core desires
• personal stories
• sexuality
• turn-ons

Keywords

• fetishes
• pyjama fetish
• psychology
• core desires
• unexpected turn-ons
• sexuality

Mentioned in this episode

Products: pyjama, steel, Formula One cars

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