Season 5 Ep 2: You’re Not Choosing Wrong… You’re Choosing From Who You Think You Are | Break Toxic Relationship Patterns & Heal Your Identity in Christ

About this episode

This episode explores how unhealthy relationship patterns are influenced by one's self-identity and beliefs.

Hi Love… 💛 If you’ve been finding yourself in the same relationship over and over again—just in a different person—this episode is for you. In this powerful continuation from Episode 1, we go deeper into what’s really happening beneath the surface of your relationship choices. Because the truth is… You’re not choosing wrong. You’re choosing from who you believe you are. In this episode, we uncover the real reason unhealthy relationship patterns keep repeating—and it’s not what you think. We t...

People in this episode

Host: Montoya Williams

Topics covered

• toxic relationships
• identity in Christ
• relationship patterns
• self-perception
• healing

Keywords

• toxic relationships
• identity
• healing
• relationship choices
• self-discovery

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