We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Has your spiritual growth hit a plateau? Amy and I are back with our friends Cesar Delgado and Sam Tenney to share their journeys and the transformative power of honest feedback in spiritual growth. We aren’t just talking about surface-level advice; we’re getting real about trust, submission, and the beauty of doing life together. I’m sharing how honest, sometimes difficult feedback is actually the fuel that refines your character and sharpens your skills. If you’ve ever wondered why you aren’t growing, this conversation might just be the wake-up call you’ve been waiting for. You’ll hear about the power of personal investment and how biblical insights can completely shift your perspective on your calling. Mentorship isn't about knowing everything - it’s about the transformative power of vulnerability. You’re not going to know something about your blind spots unless somebody loves you enough to point them out! Get ready to be challenged, encouraged, and equipped to level up your walk with God. If this episode hit home, I want to see you! Take a screenshot of the episode right now, share it on your IG Stories, and make sure you tag me @biancajuarezofficial. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop a review—it helps us get this message into the hands of more people who need it!  Let’s keep growing together.  Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Mentorship and Discipleship 02:13 The Personal Journeys of Our Guests 05:05 What True Mentorship Looks Like 07:46 The Role of Trust and Submission 12:11 Honest Feedback as a Growth Tool 16:11 Seasonal Seasons of Mentoring 20:08 The Power of Personal Investment 24:05 Overcoming Challenges in Mentoring 28:05 Different Discipling Methods 32:01 The Impact of Honest Critique 36:05 The Importance of Willingness and Availability 39:52 Trusting God and Leaders 44:01 Encouragement for Mentors and Mentees 47:47 Practical Advice for Aspiring Mentors 52:00 Closing Remarks and Final Thoughts Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Follow Sam Tenney: https://www.instagram.com/samuel_10e/  Follow Cesar Delgado: https://www.instagram.com/cesar_delgado  Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Key Takeaways Mentorship is about doing life together: It’s more than just a meeting; it’s coming alongside others and sharing the journey. Trust and submission are non-negotiable: These aren’t "bad" words—they are the foundational pillars of any effective, life-changing mentoring relationship. Feedback is your best friend: Honest critique might sting in the moment, but it’s the most powerful tool you have to refine your character and skills. Every journey is unique: Stop comparing your growth to someone else’s; your mentoring needs are tailored to your specific calling and season. Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp  Youtube https://youtu.be/as4fsGNBxx4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is the fear of damaging a relationship stopping you from having a difficult conversation? I’ve been there, and I know how isolating that tension can feel. But here is the truth: wounds from a friend can be trusted, and real growth only happens when we’re willing to go there. In this episode, Amy and I are pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to lead, mentor, and disciple in the messy reality of ministry. We’re talking about the "relational collateral" required to speak truth into someone’s life and how to correct in love without crushing their spirit. Whether you’re navigating past trauma that’s showing up in your leadership or learning how to handle a tough sermon critique, this conversation is for you. It’s time we stop settling for surface-level peace and start pursuing the spiritual maturity that comes through honest, grace-filled accountability. If this episode challenged or encouraged you, tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social media. Don’t forget to subscribe and drop a comment sharing one way you’re choosing growth over comfort this week.  Let’s keep going there together! Love you, B Keywords: mentorship, discipleship, ministry leadership, conflict resolution, spiritual formation. RESOURCES/LINKS Sound Bite to Share:  ** Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to the importance of tough conversations 02:02 The theology of correction and trust 02:27 Personal stories of tension and disappointment 04:13 Roots of disappointment and past trauma 07:25 The process of spiritual maturity and circumcision 08:14 Handling hard conversations with love and grace 12:07 Time management and respect in ministry 13:31 Correcting in love versus control 17:46 The military mindset in leadership and correction 20:24 Gender, opportunity, and development in ministry 24:54 Handling feedback and sermon critique 28:29 The importance of honesty and growth in preaching 32:02 Walking through seasons of change and transition 37:41 Ending well and honoring relationships 38:03 Encouragement for wounded mentees 41:44 Closing thoughts and next steps for listeners Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp  Youtube: https://youtu.be/R-Dgj9xiokU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder what it really takes to walk through seven years of mentorship? In this episode, Amy Ayala and I are pulling back the curtain on our own journey—the real, raw, and often unspoken costs of discipleship. We’re talking about the spiritual, emotional, and practical realities that come with leading well.  If you’ve ever felt the weight of leadership or the fear of being surpassed, this conversation is for you. We’re getting honest about building future generations, the power of vulnerability, and why faithfulness is about the long haul. In this episode, we cover: Our origin story: How Amy and I started this journey. The real talk: Risks, fears, and honest realities of mentorship. The theology of "iron sharpening iron." How to create space for the next generation in ministry. Whether you're a mentor, a mentee, or somewhere in between, I hope this challenges you to embrace the refining process of leadership. Loved this episode? Like, follow, and subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amyayala on social and tell me your biggest takeaway—I want to hear from you! Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to the Mentoring Series and Personal Stories 01:07 The Vision and Origins of Mentorship 04:25 How Bianca and Amy Met and Their First Interactions 07:50 The Challenges of Leading as a Woman and Latina in Ministry 14:39 Reconnecting During COVID and Deepening the Mentorship 17:51 The Commitment and Sacrifice of Mentoring 24:14 The Spiritual and Emotional Costs of Mentorship 32:22 Moments of Doubt and the Desire to Walk Away 36:34 The Legacy of Mentorship and Building Future Leaders  Resources & Links Proverbs 27:17 2 Timothy 4:6 Follow Bianca: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/?hl=en  Follow Amy: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en  Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Youtube https://youtu.be/amoTMucWjBI  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder why some leaders inspire while others intimidate? It might just come down to communication style! In this bonus episode, my sister Jasmine Star breaks down the Communication Animal Wheel, a brilliant framework by Evy Pompouras that helps us understand how different communication styles impact leadership and team dynamics. Whether you roar like a lion or approach with the quiet wisdom of a mouse, knowing your natural style can make all the difference in how you lead, support, and inspire others. Jasmine shares valuable insights on conflict resolution between leadership styles and why clear communication is the backbone of any thriving organization. She explores: ✨ Healthy vs. unhealthy leadership—recognize the signs and shift toward positive dynamics ✨ Empowering volunteers—turning passion into action and ensuring everyone feels valued ✨ Effective change management—leading with clarity and confidence during transitions Friend, I invite you to reflect on your own communication style and how articulating your needs can strengthen both leadership and relationships. Whether you’re guiding a team, mentoring others, or simply looking to improve everyday interactions, this conversation is full of gems you won’t want to miss. Let Jasmine and I know what your communication animal is by tagging @jasminestar and @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jasmine Star https://jasminestar.com/ Takeaways Leaders often embody multiple communication styles. Empowering volunteers increases engagement and retention. Conflict between leadership styles can be managed through clarity. Mirroring communication styles can improve interactions. Living within organizational means is crucial for sustainability. Building a supportive community strengthens organizational culture. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/ ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/HMrFmr5PRj0 ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: [email protected], Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ever feel like you're surrounded by a million "likes" and "followers" but still feel completely... invisible? Like, are we just screaming into the void of the internet, or is somebody actually seeing us? And speaking of being seen, has God really noticed all the hard work you're putting in? It's a lot, I know! In this episode I aim to convey that: You are SEEN by God, especially when you feel invisible. Don't look to people for validation. Go to El-Roi! Even in the desert moments, God is there. Your cry to be seen? God hears it. The next time you feel unseen, turn to God and say, "El-Roi, you are the God who sees me." You are NOT alone, my friend. If this episode touched your heart like a good mariachi song, share it with your friends and leave a review! And don’t forget to tag me @biancajuarezofficial. We need to lift each other up. And remember, God sees you, even when you feel like nobody else does. Until next time, B RESOURCES/LINKS Takeaways Feeling alone in a crowd is a common experience. The desire for validation is deeply rooted in human psychology. Leadership can be a challenging journey filled with uncertainty. Hagar's story illustrates the struggle of feeling unseen. Being seen by God can provide profound comfort and validation. The need to be recognized is essential for emotional well-being. Isolation can lead to feelings of anxiety and depression. God's recognition is more important than human validation. The journey of faith often involves waiting and uncertainty. We are all seen by God, even in our darkest moments. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/ ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - We’re all better with help. Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: [email protected], Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇Youtube: https://youtu.be/yUkBYSYAu_Q Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's my birthday! 🎉 And to make it special, I wanted to share what's actually been going on in my heart. It's been a journey of realizing, like, really realizing, some big things about my relationship with God. Have you ever had a teaching moment completely flipped upside down? I’ve got a story for you! I was all set to teach on Luke 11, feeling pretty confident, and then BOOM! Lisa Harper drops a truth bomb that totally flipped my perspective. I.Got.Schooled. In the best possible way. I talk about this and so much more in this episode. I’m also sharing about: Turns Out, I Don't Know It All: The biggest surprise? Realizing how much I don't know. Age doesn't magically equal wisdom, y'all! What's This "Orphan Spirit" Thing?: Ever felt abandoned, alone, or like you're not good enough? That might be an "orphan spirit" talking. It's when we look for validation and provision everywhere but from God. Hello, Sonship/Daughtership!: Claiming my identity as God's child? Game changer. It's about knowing I belong, and you do too! Chatting with God, Like, For Real: I'm learning to be totally honest with God. The good, the bad, the ugly—all of it. The Perks of Being a Child of God: Freedom from fear? Confidence? Boldness? Yes, please! That's what comes with knowing who I am in Him. And Yes, There Will Be Sourdough: Click here for my sourdough recipe. Because, priorities!😉 I do have this one Birthday Wish: Would you guys pray for me as I write my new book on wholeness? I really want to walk in my identity as God’s chosen child and sometimes, well, it’s tough. Let's keep the conversation going! What resonates with you? I'd love to hear your thoughts. You can tag me on social media @biancajuarezofficial. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Shameless Audacity // Luke 11 // Ask, Seek, Knock // Bianca Juarez Bianca’s Sourdough Recipe ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/ ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: [email protected], Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices