The 3 Ways Men Initiate Sex That Almost Guarantee Rejection #430

About this episode

This episode discusses the three common ways men initiate sex that often lead to rejection and how to improve those approaches for better connection.

Ever turned to your partner at 9:30pm, asked "you wanna…?" and rolled over disappointed when she said no? She didn't reject you... she rejected the way you initiated. In this episode, I break down the three ways most men initiate sex that almost guarantee a "no". None of them are your fault, you weren't taught this. But once you see which one you fall into, you can stop blaming her (or yourself) and start building the kind of connection that makes sex feel inevitable instead of awkward. I'll walk you through what real initiation looks like... the small, intentional moments throughout the day, the touch, the eye contact, the way you talk to her like she's your woman and how that completely changes what happens at night. This is about creating the frame and the energy that sex actually lives inside of. If you want me coaching you on your situation, not just teaching you in general, that's what Built Daily is for. Founding 20 men get $50/month locked in for life: Join Built Daily

People in this episode

Host: Stephanie Ganowski

Topics covered

• sex initiation
• relationships
• communication
• male-female dynamics
• connection

Keywords

• sex initiation
• rejection
• relationships
• communication
• connection
• male dynamics
• intimacy

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