Where Do Gays Retire Podcast

🎧 WHERE DO GAYS RETIRE PODCASTHIV+ and Retiring Abroad:Which Countries Actually Have Your Back?Solo Episode •Host: Mark Goldstein • 46 min 17 secEpisode DescriptionIf you are HIV-positive and thinking about retiring abroad, you have probably researched the cost of living, visas, and LGBTQ+ rights. But there is one question almost nobody addresses directly: what actually happens to your antiretroviral medications when you move? Will you be able to get them? Will they be covered? Or will you arrive in a country where you are suddenly paying thousands of dollars out of pocket every month for medication you cannot live without?In this solo episode, Mark Goldstein digs into the research to give you real, sourced, country-by-country answers. He opens with a surprising look at Spain — where a legal paradox means undocumented residents have more HIV treatment rights than Americans on a legal Non-Lucrative Visa — then walks through ten countries evaluated against three clear criteria: LGBTQ+ rights, retirement visa access, and genuine HIV treatment availability.The research draws on positivedestinations.info (HIV Justice Network), the 2024 InfoVIH legal guide from gTt-VIH in Barcelona, and a series of legal guides provided by the HIV Legal Clinic at the University of Alcalá in Spain — backed by rulings from the Spanish Supreme Court.This episode is for anyone living with HIV who wants honest, accurate information before making one of the most important decisions of their life.In This EpisodeThe Spain NLV situation — what the Convenio Especial does and does not cover, confirmed by Spanish Supreme Court rulingsThe extraordinary legal paradox: why undocumented residents in Spain have more HIV treatment rights than NLV visa holdersThe three criteria used to evaluate every country: LGBTQ+ rights, retirement visa access, and HIV treatment accessWhy do all featured countries have domestically funded HIV systems unaffected by the 2025 PEPFAR funding freezeA country-by-country breakdown of HIV treatment access, visa options, and LGBTQ+ legal statusThe legal paradox in Colombia: HIV criminal laws that distinguish it from every other country featuredItaly’s November 2025 ECJ ruling and what it does — and does not — mean for American same-sex couplesA call to action for HIV-positive listeners who have already made a move abroad to share their storyCountries CoveredFull Feature — All Three Criteria Met🇵🇹 Portugal — The Gold StandardD7 Passive Income Visa: ~€920/monthHIV treatment is free for all, regardless of migration status — praised by UNAIDSARVs dispensed at hospital pharmacies, refilled every 3 months, zero costSame-sex marriage legal since 2010🇦🇷 Argentina — The Latin America LeaderPensionado/Rentista visa: ~$1,500–$2,000/monthFree HIV treatment in all public hospitals, regardless of immigration statusPath to citizenship in just 2 years of continuous residenceSame-sex marriage legal since 2010 — first in Latin America🇺🇾 Uruguay — The Underrated GemRentista visa: ~$1,500/monthMigrants have the same health rights as Uruguayan nationals by lawNo HIV-specific criminalization laws — zero documented prosecutionsSame-sex marriage legal since 2013🇨🇷 Costa Rica — Central America’s Progressive GemPensionado visa: just $1,000/month — lowest threshold in the AmericasCAJA social security system covers HIV treatment for legal residentsNon-nationals who cannot afford contributions still have the right to HIV care without interruption — Article 11, Comprehensive HIV and AIDS ActSame-sex marriage legal since 2020 — first in Central America🇫🇷 France — The European Option Beyond SpainVisiteur long-stay visa for passive income retireesAnyone resident 3+ months is entitled to public health cover, including ARVsArticle 313-11: residence permit granted to those who cannot access treatment in their home country — accounts for discrimination as a barrierSame-sex marriage legal since 2013🇩🇪 Germany — Europe’s Structured ApproachFull ARV coverage through the statutory health insurance systemMigrants in deportation proceedings will not be deported if ARV treatment is unavailable in their home countrySame-sex marriage legal since 2017🇪🇨 Ecuador — The Surprise StandoutPensionado visa: ~$800/month — most accessible threshold in this episodeFree HIV treatment regardless of nationality or documentation statusFirst-person verified: 7-year expat confirms zero HIV restrictions at any residency stageSame-sex marriage legal since 2019Include With Caveats🇲🇽 Mexico — Strong Policy, Real-World ComplicationsStrong legal framework: NOM-010-SSA-2023 guarantees HIV treatment access regardless of immigration statusCAVEAT: Documented ARV supply shortages reported 2024–2025 across multiple public health institutionsSame-sex marriage legal in all 32 statesPermanent Resident Visa: ~$2,500–3,000/month🇹🇭 Thailand — The Wildcard — Verify Before You GoSame-sex marriage legalized in January 2025 — first in AsiaExcellent, affordable private healthcare; ARVs available privatelyCAVEAT: Long-stay residency policy for people with HIV is genuinely unclear — the list of prohibited diseases is not publicly accessibleVerify with the Royal Thai Embassy and CHARM Thailand before committingHonorable Mentions🇨🇴 Colombia — Good Access, Important Legal ConcernHIV treatment is available through the AHF network in multiple citiesIMPORTANT: Active HIV-specific criminal laws with documented prosecutionsSame-sex marriage legal since 2016🇮🇹 Italy — Excellent HIV Access, Evolving LGBTQ+ RightsFree HIV treatment even for undocumented non-nationals at the Servizio Sanitario NazionaleCivil unions have been recognized since 2016; same-sex marriage has not yet been performed domesticallyNovember 2025 ECJ ruling: Italy must now recognize same-sex marriages performed in other EU countries by EU citizensFor American couples: US marriage is still registered as a civil union under Italian domestic lawKey Resources MentionedPositive Destinations — Global HIV Travel & Residency Database: https://www.positivedestinations.infoInfoVIHtal 2024 (Spain NLV + HIV treatment, English): https://www.gtt-vih.orgHIV Legal Clinic, University of Alcalá — Free legal consultations on HIV rights in Spain: https://www.uah.esGAT Portugal — HIV healthcare access guide for migrants: https://www.gatportugal.orgFundación Huésped — Argentina’s leading HIV advocacy organization: https://www.huesped.org.arHIV Legal Clinic, University of Alcalá — Free, anonymous, confidential consultations on HIV rights in Spain:clinicalegal@uah.esShare Your StoryAre you HIV-positive and living abroad? Mark would love to hear about your experience accessing antiretroviral treatment in any of these countries or elsewhere in the world. Your story is confidential. You do not have to appear on the podcast.Email: mark@wheredogaysretire.comConnect & Support the ShowWebsite: https://www.wheredogaysretire.comSupport the Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/wheregaysretireThe information in this episode is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or medical advice. Always consult qualified healthcare and legal professionals before making decisions about living abroad.

Today, we're diving deep into the sunny shores of Cascais, Portugal, and trust me, it’s not just a pretty postcard! Our guests, Alastair and Wes, share their journey from bustling city life to the chill vibes of this coastal gem, where they’ve found a safe haven to retire. They spill the tea on what it’s like to live in a place that’s all about art, food, and a good dose of relaxation, while also touching on the LGBTQ-friendly atmosphere. Whether you're curious about the cost of living, healthcare, or just how to hold hands without an audience, we've got you covered. So, grab your shades and let’s take this virtual trip together! Cascais, Portugal is a vibrant spot where Alastair Cull and Wes Williams have found their happy retirement after years of dreaming about life in Europe. In this episode, Mark Goldstein takes us through the pair's journey from the hustle and bustle of North America to the serene coastlines of Portugal. Alastair and Wes share how they navigated the challenges of relocating during a pandemic and embraced the new lifestyle that came with it. They fell in love with the warm climate, stunning beaches, and the friendly atmosphere that welcomed them with open arms. Listeners get a peek into their daily lives, filled with relaxing walks along the beach, engaging with the local community, and enjoying delightful meals at charming cafes. The duo emphasizes how easy it is to blend into the vibrant culture of Cascais while still feeling safe and accepted for who they are. They talk about the significance of finding a place that allows for true self-expression, where love can be celebrated freely, and life can be enjoyed at a more leisurely pace. Through witty anecdotes and heartfelt discussions, Alastair and Wes provide insights into the practical aspects of retiring in Cascais, such as healthcare, cost of living, and the overall quality of life. They reflect on the beauty of their new life, filled with joy and adventure, and encourage anyone considering retirement abroad to dive in and explore the possibilities. This episode of Where Do Gays Retire? is not just about finding the perfect location; it’s about discovering a lifestyle that resonates with one’s true self.Takeaways:Cascais, Portugal is a chill place for LGBTQ retirees, offering safety and a decent cost of living.Mark interviews Alastair and Wes about their move to Cascais and life post-retirement.Life in Cascais is all about relaxation, art, food, and enjoying the calm ocean vibes.Public displays of affection are totally cool in Cascais, no weird looks, just love!The cost of living in Cascais is manageable, especially if you're smart about your choices.Cascais offers beautiful beaches, rich history, and a welcoming community for everyone.Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

SummaryIn this conversation, Mark Goldstein interviews Chad Pitts and Jorge Pitts about their experiences living in Zaragoza, Spain. They discuss their motivations for moving, the research they conducted, and their first impressions of the city. The couple shares insights into the cultural vibe, community building, cost of living, transportation, food scene, and healthcare in Zaragoza. They also touch on the challenges of navigating Spanish bureaucracy and the benefits of living in a city that is both family-friendly and LGBTQ+ safe. Overall, they emphasize the importance of embracing the local culture and the rewarding experiences of expat life in Zaragoza.TakeawaysZaragoza offers a very authentic Spanish vibe, with a strong sense of community.The cost of living in Zaragoza is significantly lower than in larger cities like Madrid and Barcelona.Transportation in Zaragoza is excellent, with walkable streets and a reliable public transport system.Cultural experiences in Zaragoza are rich, with festivals and events happening regularly.Making friends in Zaragoza can be challenging, but it is possible with effort and openness.Healthcare in Zaragoza is accessible and affordable, especially compared to the US.The climate in Zaragoza can be extreme, with hot summers and cold winters, but it is manageable.Zaragoza is a safe place for LGBTQ+ families, with a welcoming community.The food scene in Zaragoza is diverse and delicious, with many international options available.Navigating Spanish bureaucracy can be frustrating, but it is part of the expat experience.Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Ready to level up your retirement game? We're diving into the 10 essential questions every LGBTQ person should ask before picking their retirement city. Forget about palm trees and sunshine; we're talking about finding a place that vibes with who you are today, not who you were in your 20s. From walkability to genuine LGBTQ friendliness, we've got the scoop on what really matters for your happiness and sanity. Join me and my sassy AI sidekick, Michael, as we navigate the nitty-gritty of making your golden years truly shine!Diving straight into the heart of retirement planning, this week’s episode is all about the essential questions every LGBTQ retiree needs to ask when choosing that perfect place to kick back and relax. We start by discussing the importance of picking a city that resonates with who you are today—not who you were 20 years ago. I mean, did you really think a beachside bungalow would still be your jam when you can barely handle a sand grain in your flip-flop? The conversation is rich with insights about walkability, cost of living, and how a place can either support or stifle your daily joy. We even share a few personal anecdotes about our own misadventures in city selection, which, spoiler alert, involved a gator or two in a retention pond. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s unravel what makes a retirement city the right fit for you.Next up, we tackle the burning question of LGBTQ friendliness. Spoiler: it’s not just about rainbows and parades! We dive into what actual protections look like and how to spot a community that truly embraces you year-round, not just during Pride Month. Think about it—wouldn’t it be nice to stroll down the street with your partner without feeling like you’re on display? We chat about cities that excel in creating inclusive environments, from the glittering streets of San Francisco to the surprisingly warm vibes of Asheville, North Carolina. Plus, we share how places in Spain set the bar high when it comes to feeling normal and accepted. Trust us; it’s a conversation you won’t want to miss!Finally, we wrap it all up with the big picture—what does your ideal Tuesday look like in retirement? No, really! Tuesday is the unsung hero of your week, and we explore how the day-to-day aspects of a city can make or break your experience. Accessibility to stores, health care, and even coffee shops play crucial roles in your retirement happiness. We throw in a dash of humor with tales of our own Tuesday escapades, comparing cities that excel at making life easier (hello, Spanish trams!) versus those that turn errands into Olympic events. So, hang tight as we help you navigate these essential questions, ensuring your retirement isn’t just about the sun—it's about thriving in your new home!Takeaways:Choosing a retirement city is all about finding the right vibe for who you are today, not who you were in the past.Is the city LGBTQ friendly year-round? Because Pride Month isn't the only time we need love and support!Your Tuesday routine matters more than you think—make sure it fits your retirement lifestyle and makes you happy.Don't forget to check out the healthcare situation; it’s crucial to know if you can get the care you need when you need it!Affordability goes beyond just rent; consider all the little costs that can add up and stress you out.Ask yourself if the city supports your dreams for this new chapter of life, because you deserve to thrive!Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comCities mentioned in this episode:San FranciscoAshevilleMadisonPalm SpringsCathedral CityRancho MirageSeattlePortlandBostonSpainSan DiegoValenciaAlicanteMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Today, we're diving headfirst into the world of Americans moving to Spain! We'll chat about why folks from the LGBTQ community are flocking to this sunny slice of Europe, seeking safer and more affordable retirement spots. Our guest, Christopher Hughey, is a relocation guru who's got the inside scoop on what it takes to make the big move. From climate to cost of living, he's got the lowdown on everything you need to know to ensure a smooth transition. So, whether you're dreaming of tapas in Sevilla or sunbathing in Alicante, stick around for some fabulous tips and tricks to make your Spanish adventure a reality!Who knew moving to Spain could spark a whole new identity? In this episode, we chat with Christopher about the nitty-gritty of relocating, focusing on the non-lucrative visa that many Americans are eyeing. It's not just about the paperwork; it’s about understanding what life will look like once you land in Spain. Christopher emphasizes the importance of scouting trips, not just vacations, to get the real feel of living in Spanish neighborhoods. We also dive into the social aspects, from the vibrant LGBTQ community to the challenges of adapting to a new culture and language. Let’s just say, if you’re thinking about making Spain your next home, you might want to pack more than just your bags!Takeaways:This podcast episode highlights how to find affordable and gay-friendly retirement spots globally, especially in Spain.Mark Goldstein interviews Christopher Hughey, who shares insights about moving to Spain and life there.Understanding the visa process for moving to Spain is crucial, especially for retirees in the U.S.Scouting trips to Spain are essential for ensuring a smooth transition and happy living experience.Links referenced in this episode:americansmovingtospain.comwww.wheredogaysretire.comCompanies mentioned in this episode:Americans Moving to SpainFacebookMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

We're taking a virtual trip to the gorgeous city of Montpellier in southern France, where retirement life for the LGBTQ community is as bright as the Mediterranean sun! Joining me, Mark Goldstein, is the fabulous Lloyd Meeker, who's got the inside scoop on everything you need to know—housing, healthcare, and the local vibe. Imagine living in a place where being gay is a total non-issue and the community is all about acceptance and celebration. We’ll dive into the costs of living, the stunning culture, and how to navigate the French healthcare system without losing your marbles. So grab your sunscreen and let’s explore what makes Montpellier a Mediterranean gem for retirement!Welcome to the sunny shores of Montpellier, where the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast takes you on a lively exploration of this Mediterranean haven! Mark Goldstein is on the mic with local resident Lloyd Meeker, who spills the secrets of what makes this city so special for LGBTQ retirees. From the moment you arrive, you’ll find a place that feels like home, where the climate is as warm as the community spirit. Lloyd shares his story of moving from the U.S. to France, navigating the housing market, and getting to grips with the local customs. Want to know about healthcare? He’s got you covered with all the juicy details on how the French system works and why it’s a game changer for retirees. Plus, if you’re a foodie, you’re in for a treat! The culinary scene in Montpellier is a delightful mix of traditional Occitan dishes and fresh seafood that’ll make your taste buds dance with joy. Throughout the episode, you’ll hear about the vibrant arts scene, the ease of getting around thanks to a top-notch public transport system, and the sense of safety that comes from living in such an accepting city. Whether you’re in the planning stages or just curious about life abroad, this episode is a treasure trove of information, camaraderie, and inspiration for your next big life chapter. So tune in and let’s get ready to retire in style!Takeaways: Montpellier is a Mediterranean gem where the LGBTQ community can feel safe and thrive. Living in Montpellier offers a unique blend of sunshine, culture, and community vibes for everyone. Healthcare in France is amazing, providing quality services without the exorbitant costs found in the U.S. Public transport in Montpellier is not only efficient but also free for residents, making life easier and more enjoyable. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Today, we're diving into the fabulous world of Fountain Grove Lodge in Santa Rosa, California, where Chuck and Ed just settled in. They're not just talking about where to retire; they’re sharing their journey to find a vibrant, LGBTQ-friendly community that feels like home. You’ll hear about their charming transition from the river towns of Bucks County, Pennsylvania, to this sunny, welcoming spot that’s got everything from a phenomenal dining experience to a lively social life. They also spill the tea on the climate, the cost of living, and why this place is a haven for those looking to age gracefully and joyfully. So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s explore what makes Fountain Grove Lodge the place to be!Join Mark Goldstein as he takes us on a lively journey through the experiences of Chuck and Ed, a dynamic couple who recently made the leap from Bucks County, Pennsylvania, to Fountain Grove Lodge in sunny Santa Rosa, California. In this episode, they share their heartfelt reasons for choosing a retirement community that embraces the LGBTQ+ lifestyle, highlighting the importance of finding a supportive environment as they approach this new stage of life. With a sprinkle of humor and genuine warmth, Chuck and Ed recount their first impressions of Fountain Grove Lodge, from the beautiful architecture to the welcoming atmosphere that instantly made them feel at home. Their infectious enthusiasm shines through as they talk about the meticulous planning that went into their move, including the decision to choose a community that would provide joy and security as they age.The conversation flows effortlessly as they discuss the wide range of activities available, from gardening and art classes to social events that foster connections among residents. Chuck and Ed emphasize the significance of community and how it enriches their lives, noting that it’s more than just a place to live; it’s a vibrant hub of support and friendship. They also touch on the practical aspects of living at Fountain Grove, like the cost of living and amenities that provide peace of mind without sacrificing quality of life. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone considering retirement options, especially for those within the LGBTQ+ community seeking a place that resonates with their values and lifestyle. Chuck and Ed’s story is a testament to the joys of embarking on a new adventure together, proving that retirement can be as fabulous as you make it. So grab your headphones and join us for this delightful exploration of love, laughter, and the beauty of finding your perfect retirement community!Takeaways: Fountain Grove Lodge is a vibrant community that welcomes LGBTQ residents and their allies with open arms and festive spirits. Living at Fountain Grove means enjoying a stylish place with great food, activities, and an overall sense of belonging. Chuck and Ed's journey highlights the importance of finding a supportive retirement community that fits one's lifestyle and values. The podcast shows that aging can be a fun adventure, especially when surrounded by interesting people and engaging social activities. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: Fountain Grove Lodge Philadelphia Orchestra Kimmel Center for the Performing Arts Curtis Institute Bucks County Playhouse Welltower Oakmont Mentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Today, we’re diving into the spicy topic of walkability and whether you can retire without a car. Spoiler alert: you totally can! I’ve lived in places where cars were as necessary as oxygen, and others where you can strut your stuff on foot with ease. We’ll chat about why walkable neighborhoods are the bee's knees for your health, social life, and wallet, plus I’ll share some fab locations where you can kick back without the hassle of a vehicle. From the bustling streets of New York to the sun-soaked sidewalks of Provincetown, let’s figure out where you can enjoy life without revving an engine! So grab your walking shoes, and let’s hit the pavement!Retirement isn’t just about sipping cocktails on the beach; it’s about living your best life, and that includes deciding whether you really want to own a car. Mark Goldstein dives headfirst into the importance of walkability in retirement, drawing from his own experiences living in car-dependent and pedestrian-friendly cities. He paints a vivid picture of life in New York, where owning a car feels like an unnecessary burden, versus the sprawling suburbs that demand a vehicle just to grab a quart of milk. Through his lighthearted anecdotes, he emphasizes how walkability isn’t merely about sidewalks — it’s about reclaiming independence and fostering community as we age.Mark lays out three compelling reasons why walkability matters in retirement: health, social engagement, and financial savings. Walking isn’t just good for your waistline; it’s a gateway to meeting people and experiencing life on a more intimate level. As he humorously notes, when you’re behind the wheel, the only connection you’re likely to make is through a honk or a wave of frustration. But when you’re out strolling, you’re more likely to share a smile or a spontaneous chat with a neighbor. Plus, let’s get real — cars can gut your retirement savings quicker than you can say “car insurance.” With the costs of gas, maintenance, and unexpected repairs piling up, it’s clear that ditching the car might free up some cash for those dreamy vacations you’ve been planning.As the episode unfolds, Mark explores various cities known for their walkability, from the iconic streets of San Francisco to the historic charm of Boston, where you can enjoy a leisurely stroll without feeling like you’re on a treadmill. He highlights LGBTQ-friendly neighborhoods that not only offer vibrant community life but also make it easy to live without a car. With a nod to international destinations, he gives a shout-out to places where walkability is the norm, unlike the car-centric U.S. Join Mark on this delightful exploration of where to retire without the burden of a vehicle, and you might just find your next home sweet home, where the only thing you need to worry about is which café to visit next!Takeaways: Walkability in retirement is not just about sidewalks; it’s about freedom and community. Living in walkable neighborhoods can save you tons of money on car expenses. Places like New York City are great for walking, but they can also be pricey. In retirement, it's important to live where life happens at eye level, not behind a wheel. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comlgbtqseniors.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: New York City Phoenix Stamford Apollo Beach Wilton Manors Asbury Park Providence Provincetown Valencia Malaga Nice Montpellier Berlin Reykjavik Lisbon Mexico City Guadalajara Puerto Vallarta Mentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

This week, we're diving into the sunny vibes of Vigo, Spain, where our guest, Daniel Louis Loboto, is living it up under a digital nomad visa. He’s all about redefining community after coming out later in life, and he's got some fantastic insights on why Spain is the place to be for retirement. From the affordable cost of living to the lush, green landscapes, Daniel spills the tea on what makes Vigo so special. We’ll chat about everything from the local food scene to the LGBTQ+ community, and how easy it is to get around without a car. So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s explore why Vigo might just be your next retirement hotspot!> Stepping off the plane and into the vibrant world of Vigo, Spain, our guest Daniel Louis Loboto shares the thrilling tale of his journey from Denver to this picturesque port city. At 62, Daniel's life took a bold turn when he came out later in life, transitioning from a traditional family life to one filled with adventure and self-discovery. With a rich background in Spanish heritage, he made the leap across the Atlantic, seeking a community that resonates with his identity. The conversation dives deep into the factors that drew Daniel to Vigo—its affordable cost of living, welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and the allure of a vibrant culture. We learn about the stunning climate boasting mild summers and manageable winters, making it an ideal retirement locale. Daniel is not just living in Spain; he’s thriving in a unique cultural tapestry that weaves together his roots and his newfound freedom. Join us as we uncover what it means to redefine home and community, and how life in Vigo fosters a sense of belonging and joy.> As we cozy up with Daniel, we explore the ins and outs of living in Vigo, focusing on the economics, culture, and the undeniable charm of the city. With his digital nomad visa in hand, Daniel discusses the financial advantages of retiring in Spain compared to the U.S. He shares how his retirement income stretches further here, allowing for a lifestyle filled with tapas, local wines, and the kind of leisurely afternoons that make life sweeter. Listeners will learn about the affordability of housing, utilities, and healthcare, painting a clear picture of financial freedom in this coastal gem. The conversation covers everything from the lush, green landscapes of Galicia to the vibrant street life, making it clear that Vigo isn't just a place to retire; it's a place to live life to the fullest. With a dash of humor and a lot of heart, Daniel's stories will have you daydreaming about your own retirement in this enchanting corner of Spain.> In the final segment, we get into the nitty-gritty of community—specifically, the LGBTQ+ scene in Vigo. Daniel describes a welcoming atmosphere where diversity flourishes, even if there aren't specific gay bars or organizations. The relaxed vibe of the city allows for a blend of cultures, where same-sex couples hold hands freely in the streets, and everyone feels at home. He shares his experiences of meeting other LGBTQ+ folks and emphasizes the importance of establishing a social network upon arriving. From local festivals celebrating Galician culture to the delicious culinary scene featuring Michelin-starred restaurants, it’s clear that Vigo offers a rich, fulfilling life. Daniel’s insights and experiences are not just informative; they’re an invitation to step out of your comfort zone and consider the beautiful possibilities that await in retirement. So grab your café con leche, sit back, and let’s dive into the wonders of life in Vigo!Takeaways: Vigo, Spain is a hidden gem for LGBTQ+ retirees, offering a vibrant community and low cost of living. The climate in Vigo is mild, with summers in the 70s and winters rarely freezing, perfect for outdoor lovers. Living in Vigo means enjoying fresh seafood, local cuisine, and a rich cultural scene with festivals and art. Establishing a social network is key in Vigo; it helps newcomers adjust and feel at home in this welcoming city. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: Bayer Primark El Corte Ingles Mentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

Today, we're diving into the sun-soaked paradise of Madeira, Portugal, where Paul and Kevin share their epic journey from Seattle to this dreamy island. They've been living it up on Madeira for over four years now, and let me tell you, they have no plans of ever leaving! We’re chatting about everything from the cost of living, which is basically a steal compared to Seattle, to the laid-back lifestyle that makes you feel like you’ve stepped into a postcard. Plus, they spill the tea on what it’s like to be part of the LGBTQ community on this little slice of heaven. So, grab your sunscreen and join us as we explore why Madeira might just be your next big retirement dream!Ever thought about trading your busy city life for the sunny, laid-back vibes of Madeira, Portugal? Well, our guests Paul and Kevin did just that, and they’re here to tell us all about their journey from Seattle to this picturesque island. With a dreamy climate that feels like endless spring and a cost of living that’s a fraction of their old life, these two lovebirds are living the retirement dream! They share how they navigated moving during the COVID pandemic, why they chose Madeira over Mexico, and all the juicy details of settling down in this subtropical paradise. Get ready to learn about the local culture, the unique flora and fauna, and why they absolutely adore their new home. Spoiler alert: it involves great wine, stunning views, and a sense of community that makes them feel right at home.Not only do Paul and Kevin give us the scoop on why Madeira is such a great place for LGBTQ retirees, but they also dive into the nitty-gritty of everyday life on the island. From the surprisingly low property taxes to the affordable healthcare system, they break down how living on this beautiful island compares to their previous lives in the U.S. And let’s not forget the food! They share some delicious local specialties and their thoughts on the dining scene, which ranges from cozy cafes to Michelin-starred restaurants. Whether you’re contemplating a move or just daydreaming about island life, this episode is packed with tips, insights, and plenty of hearty laughs. As they reflect on their journey, Paul and Kevin emphasize the importance of community and connection. They talk about how easy it is to meet people, make friends, and become part of the fabric of life on Madeira. With everything from local markets to vibrant festivals, there’s never a dull moment! They even share their experiences with healthcare, transportation, and the overall safety of the island. If you’ve ever considered retiring abroad or simply want to escape the hustle and bustle for a more serene lifestyle, this episode is a must-listen. So grab your headphones and let’s explore Madeira together!Takeaways: Living in Madeira, Portugal offers a beautiful subtropical climate and a friendly community vibe that makes settling in a delight. Retiring in Madeira can be much more affordable than in the U.S., with lower costs for housing and healthcare! The local cuisine in Madeira tends to be simple, focusing on fresh ingredients and comfort food rather than intricate flavors or spices. Madeira is incredibly safe, making it easy to enjoy late-night strolls without fear, a huge plus for anyone considering relocation. Links referenced in this episode:wheredogaysretire.commatch.comLGBTQseniors.comCompanies mentioned in this episode: match.com Edmonds College Washington State Attorney's General Office Leroy Merlin Mentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

In this episode of the Where Do Gays Retire podcast, Mark Goldstein speaks with Tomek Gurzynski, a 54-year-old Polish-born adventurer and longtime airline professional who lives in Medellín, Colombia. Tomek shares his journey from the United States to Colombia, discussing the climate, cost of living, healthcare, and vibrant culture of Medellín. He emphasizes the city's safety, LGBTQ inclusivity, and the affordable yet high-quality standard of living. Tomek also offers practical advice for those considering a move to Colombia, stressing the importance of preparation, learning Spanish, and understanding local customs. His personal experiences illuminate why Medellín could be an ideal retirement destination for the LGBTQ+ community.Takeaways: Medellín has a vibrant LGBTQ community that is super welcoming and friendly. Seriously, it's like a big hug every time you step out! The cost of living in Medellin is way lower than in the US, so you can live like a king or queen for way less. Talk about winning! Colombia's healthcare system is top-notch and super affordable, making it easy for retirees to access quality medical care without breaking the bank. Medellin has a fabulous climate, so you won't have to sweat like a popsicle in the sun! It's like eternal spring here, and who doesn't love that? Finding community is key when moving abroad, and Medellín has plenty of events and groups where you can connect with fellow LGBTQ folks. Safety in Medellín has significantly improved, allowing you to enjoy the city without constantly looking over your shoulder. Links referenced in this episode:lgbtqseniors.comwheredogaysretire.comMentioned in this episode:Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & PrideMark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

We're diving into the fabulous world of Living Out, a unique 55+ LGBTQ community that’s all about creating a vibrant and accepting space for our fabulous queer elders. In this episode, we chat with Loren Ostrow, the mastermind behind this fantastic project, and trust me, you won't want to miss his insights on how Living Out stands out in a sea of retirement options. From its warm, inclusive vibe to its stunning amenities, Lauren shares how they’re flipping the script on aging in the LGBTQ community. We’ll also explore the importance of having a safe space where folks can genuinely be themselves without fear of judgment or prejudice. So grab your favorite drink and settle in—we're about to get cozy and learn about a retirement community that feels just like home!Takeaways: Living Out is a unique community where LGBTQ seniors can thrive together and foster authentic connections. Mark Goldstein interviews Loren Ostrow about the importance of safe, welcoming retirement options for the LGBTQ community. The podcast discusses how Living Out addresses specific challenges LGBTQ seniors face, ensuring they feel accepted and valued. Listeners learn about the vibrant local culture in Palm Springs, where Living Out is situated, enhancing the resident experience. Companies mentioned in this episode: Living Out SAGE Los Angeles LGBT Center National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Alice B. Restaurant Eisenhower Medical Brand G HRC