Where Parents Talk: Evidence-based Expert Advice on Raising Kids Today

What if the key to raising emotionally intelligent, resilient kids isn't about managing their behavior — but about shifting your own?Lorena Seidel, Montessori teacher, emotional intelligence coach, and creator of the Cooperation Shift framework, joins Lianne Castelino host of the Where Parents Talk podcast, for a candid, research-backed conversation about why good intentions alone won't rewrite old parenting patterns — and what actually will.Seidel shares how a humiliating childhood memory became the compass for her life's work, and how years later, as a new mom, she found herself repeating the very patterns she swore she'd leave behind. Her journey — through Montessori education, a master's in emotional intelligence, mindfulness training, and years of practice — led her to develop a transformative approach that helps parents stop putting out fires and start building lasting skills.In this episode, you'll learn about the Cooperation Shift framework, the powerful Skill Do Over tool, and the three questions every parent can ask in the heat of the moment to shift from reactive to responsive. Seidel also explores what emotional intelligence, resilience, and an "unsinkable mindset" really look like — and why 80% of your child's future success may hinge on what's between their ears, not the school they attend or the sports they play.Takeaways:Understanding the impact of hormonal changes during adolescence is crucial for effective parenting and communication.Device usage among teens can both enhance and complicate relationships, making discipline and guidance essential.The role of social media in bullying presents challenges for emotional and mental health that parents must address thoughtfully.Consent and relationships are pivotal topics for young adults, requiring open communication about boundaries and respect.Links referenced in this episode:whereparents talk.comCompanies mentioned in this episode:MontessoriTEDxThis podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.You’ll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.

In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino sits down with entrepreneur, business coach, and mom of four, Alana Kayfetz, to explore why so many mothers put themselves last—and how to change that.From mom burnout and self-neglect to self-prioritization and identity shifts in motherhood, this conversation dives into the real challenges modern moms face. Learn how to balance parenting, career, and personal well-being without guilt, and why self-care is essential—not optional—for raising healthy families.Whether you're a working mom, stay-at-home parent, or mom entrepreneur, this episode offers practical strategies to reclaim your time, set boundaries, and redefine what “having it all” truly means.Topics include:Why mothers are hardwired to put themselves lastThe difference between healthy sacrifice and self-erasureSelf-prioritization as a parenting tool — not a selfish actWhat children learn when moms model self-carePractical tips for reclaiming your time without guiltThe mindset shift that changes everything for mom entrepreneursThis podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.You’ll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.Links referenced in this episode:whereparentstalk.comalanakayfetz.commomhalo.comCompanies mentioned in this episode:Mom HaloKayfetz Method

Why do so many parents feel like they’re failing — even when they’re doing everything “right”?In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino is joined by Manu Brune, postpartum specialist, parent coach, mother of 3 and author of Overcorrecting: Parenting in the Middle While the World Shouts in Extremes. They unpack a timely issue facing parents today: overcorrection.Brune explains how many parents are unconsciously parenting in reaction to their own childhood experiences, swinging between extremes in an effort to “break generational cycles.” The result? Chronic stress, nervous system dysregulation, parental burnout, and growing self-doubt.This episode explores:How nervous system regulation shapes parent-child relationshipsWhy perfectionism and hyper-vigilance are exhausting parentsThe long-term impact of reactive parenting on children’s mental healthWhat co-regulation means and how children “borrow calm” from adultsHow to parent with consistency without rigidityWhy the space between parenting decisions matters more than the decisions themselvesThis podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.You’ll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.Links referenced in this episode:whereparentstalk.com

In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino speaks with Matthew Kaufman, camp director, author, lifelong camp professional and father, about the powerful science behind camp and what parents can learn from it.Drawing from his book The Campfire Effect: How to Engineer Belonging in a Disconnected World, Kaufman explains how camp environments intentionally create safety, belonging, and healthy challenge—and why those elements are essential for learning and emotional growth.Parents will learn:Why children can’t learn or grow unless they feel emotionally safeHow positive stress (not zero stress) builds confidence and resilienceThe role of brain chemicals like cortisol, oxytocin, and endorphins in child developmentThe difference between supporting a child and rescuing themSimple, practical ways parents can recreate “camp-like” belonging at home through rituals and connectionThis conversation supports parents navigating anxiety, screen overload, and the pressure-filled school year.This podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.You’ll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.Links referenced in this episode:whereparentstalk.com

Food allergies affect 1 in 13 children—and for many parents, the fear and uncertainty can feel overwhelming.In this episode of Where Parents Talk, host Lianne Castelino speaks with Malina Malkani, pediatric registered dietitian, bestselling author, and mom of three, to break down the latest science-backed guidance on food allergy prevention.Learn why early introduction of allergenic foods like peanut and egg during infancy can significantly reduce the risk of food allergies, what the research really says about safety, and how parents can confidently introduce allergens in simple, baby-safe ways. Malkani explains the critical window for prevention, common misconceptions, and what to do if you’ve missed it.Takeaways:Understanding the importance of early allergen introduction can significantly reduce food allergy risks in infants.When it comes to feeding babies, simplicity and variety are key to fostering healthy eating habits.Parents should prioritize establishing open communication about food allergies to empower their children in social settings.The role of a caregiver is pivotal in shaping a child's relationship with food, especially during the formative years.The current landscape of food allergy management is evolving, with more healthcare providers embracing new guidelines and research.Encouraging children to participate in meal preparation can boost their confidence and independence in making healthy choices.Links referenced in this episode:whereparentstalk.comCompanies mentioned in this episode:American Academy of PediatricsCDCLEAP StudyWICThis podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.You’ll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.