Wholly Jewish

On the season finale of Wholly Jewish season 2, we are joined by NYU student and college organizer Noa Baron (they/them)! Noa shares the personal and Jewish and significance of their name (and their Jewish name-changing ceremony), the importance of deep listening to the queer community, their aspirations as a trans Jewish leader, and the beauty LGBTQ+ Jews bring to the Jewish community. "I think I've been able to shed a real sense of fear…and in this, I've been more myself in all the ways that I can be," Noa says. "I want to tell people like me that there is space for us…in Judaism and in the world and that someone like me who lives in this weird in-between space of gender has…the right to exist and the right to take up space."

Jewish innovation thrives on different perspectives, and it's so vital that queer Jewish leaders be empowered to share their own. This week, Rabbi Dara Lithwick shares her experience wrestling both with God and coming out as a lesbian. She talks about her work with the Canadian Council for Reform Judaism and the Canadian Parliament, and embracing Torah through a lens of intersectionality. "When you bring different eyes and a different experience…to the study of Torah…it enables our tradition to stay alive and to stay relevant," says Rabbi Lithwick. "[I bring] all of myself…as a queer woman, as a mom, as a lawyer, as a Canadian…into my read of Torah…And it's a really exciting time…to be a part of all of this."

With so much turmoil and uncertainty happening around us, finding wholeness – with oneself and one's community – is especially important. This week's guest, Cantor Laura Stein, shares her perspectives on how we can best care for those around us, the (lack of) tension between being Jewish and being a lesbian, and how her spiritual leadership inspires her social work at Mount Sinai Hospital's Center for Transgender Medicine and Surgery. "I see…my work with the patients as trying to bring wholeness to their lives," she says. "And for my patients in particular [to] look in the mirror and see who [they] are in a way that reflects who [they] truly are…spiritual pursuit is about [making] the world more whole. I really see that as beginning with these individuals."

Being wholly Jewish means not having to hide parts of who we are when we enter Jewish spaces - including our queer identities. Caroline Dorn (she/her) discusses the importance of such a community; why Jewish congregations must hold intentional communities for marginalized folks; combining her improv skills with her "extracurricular Judaism"; and the importance of expanding our worldviews. "I think that the best resource that the Jewish community has is people," she says. "It's our relationships. It's our connection to one another. It's how we move through the world and the people that we hold close to us while we do it."

Being queer means something different to everyone who identifies this way. Mo Selkirk (she/her), a queer Jewish mother, spouse, and activist, to name a few, discusses how her grandparents inspired her to embrace Judaism, what it means to be in a queer family, and how presenting as straight has been a blessing and a curse. "My [queer] invisibility is my personal superpower," she says, "because people will say things to me [when] they don't know who they're talking to, and…I have the have the opportunity to educate them."

On the premiere episode of Wholly Jewish: Season 2, we hear from Eliana Rubin (she/her). Eliana (who went by Elias at the time of this episode's recording) talks about when she first connected with her nonbinary transfemme identity and her desire to create more queer-inclusive classrooms. "I find that identifying as a Reform Jew and a queer person...are two parts of me that are so integral now to my core identity," she says.

Fashionista and future rabbi Becky Jaye talks about navigating the world as an Asian Jew – in rabbinical school, in Israel, in the broader Jewish community, and in society at large. "I'm probably the most confident I've ever been in my identity as a Reform Jew," she says.

Meet Destiny Karash Givens, a multiracial Jewish teacher and scientist who's proving that she can do just about anything – including raising the profile and visibility of Jews of Color. "People automatically have this assumption of the 'why' about my Judaism," she says.

Amanda Ryan, a elected official in Nebraska, talks about what it means to her to identify with historically marginalized communities. "I'm pushing people to think outside of what is Jewish and or what is Latino."

Tani Prell Epstein, an artist, Jewish educator, and woman of Color, talks about what drew her to Judaism and how we can all embrace and move toward a fully inclusive Jewish world. "Judaism is the way that I think and love and learn," she says.

Come schmooze with Alexandra Corwin, a dedicated Jewish educator, a proud Latina woman, and a lover of Yiddish: "Those identities fill me spiritually and culturally," she says. We discuss antiracism work, her evolution as a Jewish leader, and teaching social justice to students.

Anjelica Ruiz, a Jewish educator with Hispanic-Filipino heritage, shares personal stories and classroom experiences from the heartbreaking to the heartwarming. "I want to keep teaching and keep bettering myself as a Jew," she says.

Gina Drangel is a trained opera singer and devoted mother who recently became a bat mitzvah. "Feeling so whole with my Jewishness and my Blackness, it completes me," she says of her beautiful, ongoing journey.