Midlife Libido, Confidence & Getting Rated by Teenagers

About this episode

The episode discusses midlife libido, confidence, and the impact of external validation on women, alongside listener dilemmas and recent research on women's sexual health.

This week on 40ish, Nicole brings a Hogman update direct from the gym and somehow ends up discussing the workout routine of a man called Brian, while Lauren takes her first steps into the world of Substack. We tackle a listener dilemma that every British woman will understand. What do you do when you notice someone's leggings are completely see-through at the gym? Say something and risk the embarrassment, or stay silent and hope someone else steps in? We also hear from a 45-year-old woman who was unexpectedly hurt after being "rated" by a group of teenage boys in a pub. It sparks a bigger conversation about confidence, ageing, body image and why external validation can still affect us in midlife, even when we know it shouldn't. In Midlife News, we discuss new research exploring women's libido, testosterone and sexual desire, and whether hormones are really the key to a healthy sex life. We unpack what the latest findings could mean for women navigating perimenopause, menopause and changing relationships. Meanwhile, a listener from Tennessee experiences every woman's worst nightmare when a missing handbag triggers a full-scale supermarket search involving staff, customers and…

People in this episode

Hosts: Nicole, Lauren

Topics covered

• midlife libido
• confidence
• body image
• external validation
• perimenopause
• menopause
• relationships

Keywords

• midlife
• libido
• confidence
• body image
• perimenopause
• menopause
• teenagers
• validation

Mentioned in this episode

Places: Tennessee

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