Testosterone, Hormonal Rage & An ADHD Marriage Dilemma

About this episode

The episode discusses the impact of testosterone on women during menopause, ADHD in relationships, and the challenges of body image after 40.

This week on 40ish, Lauren discovers that Mah Jong, tea and cake might actually be peak midlife entertainment, while Nicole has an unexpected tantrum on the padel court. We hear from a listener who says finally being prescribed testosterone during menopause helped her feel like herself again, boosted her confidence, improved her libido and even made her like her husband again. We discuss testosterone for women, perimenopause, menopause symptoms and why hormones can have such a huge impact on how we feel. In Midlife News, we explore why so many women over 40 feel like they have nothing to wear. Is it really about clothes, or is it changing bodies, confidence, hormones and learning to dress the person we've become? Our listener dilemma sparks a lively conversation about ADHD in women, relationships and the mental load after one woman's husband comes home from a wedding convinced she has ADHD following a lengthy chat with his female best friend. Plus, Lauren's spectacular meltdown involves the dog throwing up a raw meat fountain onto the carpet, and we ask when exactly your neighbour's cat quietly becomes everyone else's responsibility. 40ish is the funny podcast for midlife women…

People in this episode

Hosts: Lauren, Nicole

Topics covered

• Testosterone for women
• Menopause and hormones
• Perimenopause
• ADHD in women
• Midlife confidence
• Body image after 40
• Relationships and mental load

Keywords

• testosterone
• menopause
• perimenopause
• ADHD
• midlife
• confidence
• body image
• relationships
• libido

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