Are rewards necessary for your toddler’s potty training? | A Parent's Guide to Child Development

Are rewards necessary for your toddler’s potty training? | A Parent's Guide to Child Development

From A Parent's Guide to Child Development by Annamarie von Firley

April 16, 2026 · 2 min

About this episode

This episode discusses the effectiveness of rewards in toddler potty training and offers alternative strategies for parents.

In this episode, Tabitha Poole discussed whether rewards work for potty training, explaining why candy, toys, and fun activities can be effective, and also noted that parents should avoid developing a habit of using a reward system, as it might not lead to long-term success. Poole highlighted that each child responds differently. Some children, especially anxious ones, may not like the reward system, and suggested that making the process fun and stress-free is more effective and offers a new perspective for those in the middle of potty training. Time Stamps 00:26 Reasons why potty training rewards may backfire 00:56 What is the best way to reward your child for doing something that they don’t want to do? 01:23 Why is it important for parents to avoid the reward-trap habit? Follow us: Fledglings’ Flight: https://www.FledglingsFlight.com/ App: https://app.FledglingsFlight.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fledglingsflight/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@Fledglings. FlightFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/FledglingsFlight/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/fledglings-flight/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/fledglingsflight/ Music: Purple Planet Music

People in this episode

Host: Annamarie von Firley

Guest: Tabitha Poole

Topics covered

  • potty training
  • rewards
  • child development
  • parenting strategies
  • anxiety in children

Keywords

  • potty training
  • rewards
  • toddler
  • parenting
  • child development
  • anxiety
  • reward system

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Organizations: Fledglings’ Flight, Purple Planet Music

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