Addressing Narcissistic Patterns in Marriage Ep. 721

Addressing Narcissistic Patterns in Marriage Ep. 721

From Awesome Marriage Podcast by Dr. Kim Kimberling

March 31, 2026 · 11 min · Episode 721

About this episode

Dr. Kim Kimberling discusses how to address narcissistic patterns in marriage and the importance of boundaries and healthy communication.

We've explored the spectrum of narcissism, now it's time to dive into what you can do when those patterns show up in your marriage. Dr. Kim shares how to discern when to speak up and when to self-reflect, how to cultivate an atmosphere for healthy conversation, and why boundaries are essential for meaningful connection. Episode Takeaways: Forgiveness is not pretending something didn't happen. Trust has to be built consistently over time. Being a good christian spouse does not mean absorbing pain. When you see the same behaviors repeatedly, it's time to do something. Language matters when having productive conversations. Change starts with responsibility, not accusation. God sees you and He is near! Quotes from this Episode: You can forgive someone and still require accountability. Healthy relationships don't make you feel like you're losing your mind. Keep love as the goal. Boundaries aren't unloving, they are essential. Patterns that took years to develop don't disappear in just weeks. Labels can explain behavior, but they rarely heal relationships. Defensiveness feels safe, but it slowly kills intimacy. You can't control your spouse's willingness to change — but you can control…

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Kim Kimberling

Topics covered

  • narcissism
  • marriage
  • boundaries
  • communication
  • forgiveness
  • trust

Keywords

  • narcissism
  • marriage patterns
  • healthy communication
  • boundaries
  • forgiveness
  • trust building

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