Becoming Reborn

Starting your fitness journey can be intimidating, especially if you've never stepped into a gym before. In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat break down the biggest mental barriers that stop people from getting started and how to overcome them. One of the most common fears is the thought, "What will everyone think of me?" The boys explain why this fear is far more common than reality. Most people in the gym are focused on themselves, their own workout, and their own goals, not judging anyone else. Trav and Pat also remind listeners that every confident gym member was once a beginner. Everyone has had a first session. Everyone has felt nervous. Everyone has walked through the doors wondering if they belonged. This episode is all about building the confidence to take that first step, letting go of the fear of being judged, and understanding that consistency always starts with one session. If you've been waiting for the right time to start, this conversation might be exactly what you need to hear.

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Pat Carr sits down with Reborn's Head of Programming, Dan Wagstaff, to discuss one of the toughest challenges any athlete or active person can face — injury. Currently recovering from a ruptured Achilles, Dan shares the physical and mental challenges that come with having your routine disrupted and being forced to slow down. For someone who has spent years helping others improve their performance, it has been a powerful reminder of the importance of patience, perspective, and resilience. The boys dive into how injuries can impact identity, motivation, and mental health, while exploring practical ways to stay positive and focused throughout the recovery process. They discuss the importance of controlling what you can control, finding opportunities for growth during setbacks, and maintaining a long term perspective when progress feels slow. Whether you're currently injured, returning from a setback, or simply want to build a stronger mindset, this episode provides valuable insights into navigating adversity and coming back stronger. Because sometimes the greatest growth doesn't happen when everything is going well — it happens when you're forced to adapt.

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, the boys switch gears and dive into a lighter, banter filled conversation about all the unofficial gym rules they wish actually existed From people sitting on machines scrolling their phones, to not reracking weights, to asking what the session is right after the coach explained it — nothing was off limits Trav and Pat share the funny, frustrating and painfully relatable moments that happen inside gyms every single day, while also unpacking the culture and respect that make a training environment great This episode is full of laughs, gym stories, and the little things every gym goer will recognise immediately If you've ever been annoyed by gym etiquette or caught yourself doing one of these things, this one's for you 😂

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat unpack a truth that most people overlook — the boring stuff is usually what creates the biggest results They dive into the power of routine, structure, and consistency, and why success is rarely built on motivation or big moments. Instead, it comes from the small things you do over and over again Trav shares how creating structure and frameworks in your life actually gives you more freedom, not less. When you clearly define what you want to achieve and write it down, you remove uncertainty and gain focus. Instead of wasting energy constantly making decisions, you create a system that keeps you moving forward The boys talk about why so many people avoid the basics because they seem too simple, when in reality those basics are what separate people who stay stuck from people who make real progress This episode is a reminder that discipline, routines, and boring repetition are often the key to long term success in fitness, business, and life

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat break down a mindset shift that can change everything — stop negotiating with yourself They explore how so many people delay progress by constantly going back and forth on decisions. The internal conversation of "maybe later", "just this once", or "I'll start tomorrow" slowly chips away at consistency and results Pat explains that every decision you make has an outcome. It can move you closer to where you want to be, or further away from it. And the reality is, no one else is controlling that direction — you are This episode is about taking ownership, removing the hesitation, and understanding that your future is shaped by the decisions you make in the moment No one else can do it for you No one else can change it for you When you stop negotiating and start committing, everything shifts

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Dan Wagstaff dive into one of the most frustrating parts of any fitness journey — hitting a plateau They unpack why progress can stall, even when you feel like you're doing everything right, and what actually needs to change to start moving forward again Dan shares the often overlooked importance of rest and recovery, explaining that it's not a step backwards, but a critical part of growth. Without it, performance drops, motivation fades, and results slow down The conversation also highlights the value of understanding your training. Every session is designed with intention, built from years of experience and knowledge. When you follow the program properly and understand why you're doing what you're doing, you give yourself the best chance to progress This episode is about trusting the process, respecting recovery, and taking a smarter approach to training so you can break through plateaus and keep improving

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav, Pat and Dan reflect on a powerful milestone — 10 years of sobriety Trav opens up about what the last decade has really meant to him. When people ask what he's achieved, his answer is simple. It's not about accolades or wins. It's about becoming someone who no longer causes pain or problems, and showing up as a better man each day Pat shares his perspective on the impact Trav has had, not just within Reborn, but on the people around him. From building a life he loves to creating an environment where others can grow, the ripple effect has been massive Dan Wagstaff adds a unique point of view. Having only been around Trav for just over a year, he reflects on the time he closed his own gym and was offered a role at Reborn — and turned it down. At the time, his perception was different because he didn't truly know Trav. Now, after witnessing his growth and evolution as a leader, Dan speaks on how much that's changed, and why he now loves being part of the team This episode is about growth, second chances, leadership, and the long term impact of choosing a better path

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat dive into one of the biggest challenges people face in fitness, business, and life — consistency. They break down why most people struggle to stay consistent and why relying on motivation or pure willpower rarely works long term. Pat explains the concept of systems over willpower, highlighting how building simple routines and structures can remove the need to constantly make tough decisions. When the system is in place, showing up becomes automatic. Trav shares a powerful personal perspective from his sobriety journey. Instead of constantly testing his willpower, he made the conscious choice to avoid environments that could pull him off track. By staying in his lane and building a life that supports his goals, he created a system that made the right choices easier to maintain. This conversation is about simplifying the path to consistency, creating habits that support your lifestyle, and understanding that long term success is built on systems, not bursts of motivation.

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, we sit down with Kerrie Lawrence — a true icon in the local fitness industry. Kerrie shares her journey from where it all began to the impact she's had on thousands of lives through health, movement and community. Her story is one of resilience, leadership and staying true to your values in an industry that constantly evolves. We dive into the lessons she's learned along the way, the challenges behind the scenes, and what it really takes to build longevity and influence in fitness. This conversation is about more than workouts — it's about purpose, leadership, and leaving a legacy that goes beyond the gym floor. Whether you're in the fitness industry, building something of your own, or simply looking for inspiration, Kerrie's story will resonate.

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat sit down to talk about the daily non-negotiables that keep them grounded, consistent, and moving forward — not just in training, but in life. For Pat, it all comes down to one word: discipline. While he's always been disciplined in the gym, he admits it doesn't come as naturally in other areas of life. That's exactly why discipline has become his daily standard. When faced with a decision — big or small — he falls back on that word. It gives him a framework to choose the path that builds long-term growth, not just short-term comfort. For Trav, his non-negotiable is simple but powerful — training. It's the first thing he does every morning, and the one thing he never skips. He can't even remember the last day he didn't train. That consistency creates momentum, clarity, and a level of discipline that bleeds into every part of his life, from business to family. This episode is a reminder that success starts with the small things you do every day. When you set a standard and stick to it, everything changes.

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav and Pat return for Part 2 of the Reborn Q&A, answering more real questions from the community with raw, honest insights from their own journeys This time, they dive deep into: The leadership mistake that cost Trav personally — trying to be everyone's friend and learning the hard way that leadership requires clear standards, not just connection The part of success no one talks about — the amount of failure it actually takes to get there Why failing fast can be the fastest way to grow How setting boundaries, staying consistent, and learning from setbacks are all part of the process No fluff, no filters — just real talk about leadership, growth, and the lessons they've learned through lived experience

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Pat dives deep into the Business Mindset needed for 2026 — starting with one of the most powerful systems we use at Reborn: OKRs. OKR stands for Objective and Key Result. Most people set a goal and stop there. But an objective without a measurable weekly action behind it is just a wish — and that's where the key result comes in. For every 10 week block, the team sets a clear objective and then attaches a weekly key result that drives progress toward it. Every week, each staff member presents their OKR result using our three-tier colour system: Green for hitting the target Orange for close Red for missing it If it's red, there's no hiding — you explain why, what went wrong, and what you're changing next week. It's confronting at first, but it builds clarity, accountability, and real growth. This episode breaks down how OKRs work, why they're so effective, and how you can use them to achieve your personal, fitness, and business goals in 2026. Tune in — this mindset will change the way you operate.

In this episode of Becoming Reborn, Trav, Pat, and guest Kye Beckett dive deep into what it really means to be a father — the good, the hard, and the lessons that shape not just our kids, but ourselves. Trav opens up about seeing his dad not as Superman anymore, but as human — and how that realisation changed the way he shows up as a dad. Pat and Kye bring their own stories, struggles, and the standards they're trying to live by as men, partners, and role models. This episode is about leading by example, not perfection. It's about owning your mistakes, staying present, and teaching your kids through your actions — not just your words. Whether you're a father, had a great one, or never did — this conversation will hit home.