#44| A Veteran Dad’s Guide To Surviving Training Years

About this episode

Ian Wessels shares insights on the challenges and strategies for being a primary parent during a spouse's medical training.

We sit with Ian Wessels, a Navy veteran and work-from-home dad, to explore the unseen labor, identity shifts, and relocations that define life as the primary parent while a spouse trains in cardiothoracic surgery. The talk blends candor, humor, and practical tools for mindset, self care, and community. • military medicine training timeline and family milestones • invisible labor and the emotional load at home • pressures facing female physicians in male-led specialties • strategies for moves...

People in this episode

Guest: Ian Wessels

Topics covered

• military medicine
• family dynamics
• parenting
• identity shifts
• self care
• community support

Keywords

• cardiothoracic surgery
• invisible labor
• emotional load
• female physicians
• male-led specialties
• military family

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