Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Feeling the pressure? 🍍 So are we. On this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about one of the lifestyle's most overlooked problems — pressure. Whether it's a spouse pushing their partner on someone else, over-serving drinks to loosen inhibitions, or just the unspoken expectation to perform at events, pressure in the swinger lifestyle is more common than anyone wants to admit. Adam confesses he was that guy early on — pushy for experiences. Pris calls him out. Repeatedly. Lovingly. Brutally. They also dig into the pressure of being recognized as podcasters at lifestyle events, the stress of finances and job searching while keeping the lifestyle going, and whether Pris is actually retiring at 50 (spoiler: Adam says absolutely not). In This Episode: Pushiness in the lifestyle — from newbies AND veterans Why asking for your partner instead of letting them speak is a huge red flag Adam's inability to say no (Pris has receipts) The pressure to drink, perform, dress the theme, and be "on" Real talk: financial stress and the lifestyle 🎉 We're Going to Naughty N'awlins! July 8–13 in New Orleans — we'll have an exhibitor booth! Day passes still available. CLICK HERE for tickets! 💚 Sponsored By: 3Fun The #1 app for couples and singles in the lifestyle. Download 3Fun and meet like-minded people near you! CLICK HERE to get started. 🔗 Find Us Everywhere 🌐 www.beyond-monogamy.com — Episodes, blogs, merch & anonymous confessional 📻 FullSwapRadio.com — Every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central Love the show? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it helps more than you know! 🙌

The guest didn't show up. The mics were already hot. What happened next became one of our most real, unfiltered episodes yet. In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris got caught mid-conversation while waiting on a no-show guest — and what started as backstage small talk turned into a deep, raw, hilarious dive into ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, swinging, jealousy, compersion, and what it actually looks like to evolve as a couple in the lifestyle. They cover: Why they didn't do polyamory "right" the first time — and what they'd do differently Pris dropping the bomb: she's open to trying poly again The wild list of stipulations Pris has for any future partners (spoiler: it's a lot) Jealousy, compersion, and the difference between rules and boundaries What successful polyamory actually looks like — and why it doesn't have to mean dating someone This one was never supposed to be recorded. That's exactly why you need to hear it. 🌐 Find everything Beyond Monogamy: beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central: fullswapradio.com 🎉 Upcoming Events: Beyond Monogamy Live @ Club Eden San Antonio – June 20 Naughty N'awlins – July 8–12, New Orleans (come find us at our booth!) Krazy Winter Nights – Kansas City – Feb 19–21, 2027 | Code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com 🔥 This episode is brought to you by FirmTech — the award-winning doctor-designed wearable tech ring built for men who want to level up in and out of the bedroom. Track your sexual health data, heighten sensitivity, and actually know what's going on down there. Use code BEYOMONO at myfirmtech.com to save.

Two confessionals. Two very real situations. One Quickie you'll want to text to your partner immediately. Adam and Pris are back in the booth answering two anonymous submissions from the Beyond Monogamy community. First up: a newbie wife wants to know how to pull off an immersive stranger roleplay in Houston AND how to handle unwanted attention at an upcoming hotel takeover — without killing the vibe or looking like the weird couple in the corner. Then things get deeper: a woman engaged to a 20-year swinger veteran realizes their connection styles may be fundamentally incompatible, and wonders if her partner is actually more poly than either of them signed up for. In This Episode: How to fully commit to a stranger roleplay (separate Ubers, people — commit) Handling unwanted attention at lifestyle events without being rude or a pushover Kitchen table vs. parallel play — what's the real difference? When your swinger needs deep emotional connections with every play partner Adam and Pris get personal about their own five-year poly chapter Why "you're not insecure — you had an agreement" might be the most validating thing we've ever said on this show 📩 Have something on your chest? Drop it in our 100% anonymous confessional at beyond-monogamy.com. No name, no login, no receipts — just you being honest. It might be the next episode. Upcoming Events: 🎉 Beyond Monogamy at Club Eden — San Antonio, TX | June 20th, 9PM Central. Club Eden membership required to attend — get yours at their website now. ❄️ Krazy Winter Nights 2027 — Kansas City, MO | Feb 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO at checkout to save. 📻 Catch us LIVE on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central. This Episode's Sponsor: Brought to you by FirmTech — the world's first smart performance ring that tracks your health data and helps you show up better in the bedroom. Use code BEYOMONO at myfirmtech.com/adamalvarez and save on your order. 🎧 Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris | beyond-monogamy.com Apple Podcasts | YouTube | Amazon Music | iHeartRadio | Pandora

When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No — In this Quickie episode, Adam and Pris tackle two real listener questions: What do you do when you cross a boundary in the heat of the moment? And what happens when you and your partner just don't want the same things in the lifestyle? Listener Zoya sent a voicemail asking how to stay present in her agreements when things get hot and heavy — and Adam and Pris get real, personal, and surprisingly funny about it. Then a TikTok follower asks about navigating mismatched wants in a couple. Spoiler: you've got more in common with them than you think. In This Episode: Why "horny brain" is real and what to do about it How to set up a rescue signal with your partner The power of the debrief — before AND after Why slow is a superpower in the lifestyle Mismatched interests as a couple — normal or dealbreaker? Connect With Us: 🌐 beyond-monogamy.com — Episodes, show notes, voicemail & anonymous confessional 📻 fullswapradio.com — Live every Thursday 2PM & 7PM Central Upcoming Events: 🎉 Beyond Monogamy at Club Eden – San Antonio | June 20 @ 9PM Central | Membership required: members.edenclubs.com 🎰 Naughty N'Awlins | July 8–14 | New Orleans | beyond-monogamy.com for details ❄️ Krazy Winter Nights – Kansas City | Feb 19–21, 2027 | Code: BEYOMONO This Episode's Sponsor: Snoozy Intimacy Gummies — A vegan, all-natural blend of cannabinoids and aphrodisiacs designed to get you in the mood. Fruit-infused, made in the USA, 30-day satisfaction guarantee. Get 15% off at snwbl.io/snoozy/ADAM89158

What happens when a perfectly normal lifestyle club night suddenly goes sideways — and someone ends up leaving in an ambulance? That's exactly what happened to Adam & Pris this past weekend, and they're holding absolutely nothing back in this week's Quickie. It started as a fun night at the club — good friends, some friendly competition between cubbies, and seriously enthusiastic playtime. Then things took a wild, unexpected turn. One person in their crew ended the night with EMTs, an ER visit, and a wife asking the most legendary question ever uttered at a lifestyle club: "Did you kill my husband?" Spoiler: Pris did not kill anyone. But it absolutely led to a real, honest conversation about lifestyle safety — hydration, knowing your limits, medical conditions, drug and alcohol use at clubs, and what it actually means to look out for each other in this community. In This Quickie: The full, unfiltered story of the night everything went sideways What actually caused the medical emergency (hint: it was NOT Pris) How Club Eden's staff handled it — and handled it beautifully Real talk on lifestyle safety: hydration, heat, drugs, alcohol & underlying health conditions Adam asking Pris THE most uncomfortable question on the walk to the van Why nurses secretly run the swinging world 🎙️ This episode is brought to you by 3Fun — the app built for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. It's easy, low-pressure, and it actually works. We're not just saying that. 👉 Download 3Fun here → 📍 Come hang with us LIVE! We'll be at Club Eden in San Antonio on June 20th. You'll need a Club Eden membership to get in — don't wait on that. Full details at the Events tab on our website. 🎉 Crazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, MO | February 19–21, 2027. Tickets at fullswapradio.com. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount. 📻 Live every Thursday at fullswapradio.com — 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central. Come see us. 🏠 Home base is beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, quickies, blog, video clips, guest lineup, merch, events, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your story. Zero judgment. You just might end up on a Quickie of your own. Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave us a five-star review on Apple or Spotify, and share it with someone who needs a wild story in their life today. They will not be disappointed.

Feeling lost in the lifestyle? You're not alone — and this Quickie is proof. This week, Adam and Pris crack open a confessional from a listener known as Wandering Aimlessly — a woman new to the lifestyle whose husband just changed the entire playbook on her. She came in wanting a bi experience while he watched. Now he wants to play with other women. Cue the jealousy spiral she didn't see coming. In this episode: Why jealousy is NOT the villain — and how to actually navigate it The communication you absolutely must have BEFORE your first experience How to approach women when you're brand new and bi-curious The "kid in a candy store" guy mentality and how the lifestyle humbles men fast Newbie + newbie pairings: Adam and Pris hilariously disagree on this one Predatory couples — what they look like and how to spot them before they spot you Whether you're brand new or a few steps in, this one is for every couple who has ever felt completely lost and too scared to ask the questions they really need answered. You're not wandering aimlessly. You're just getting started. 🌐 Home Base: www.beyond-monogamy.com Drop your 100% anonymous confessional, browse full episodes, quickies, merch, video clips, and our event tab. 📺 Catch Us LIVE: fullswapradio.com Every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central alongside a killer lineup of podcasters in the adult space. 🎟️ EVENTS: June 20 — Club Eden | San Antonio, TX Adam & Pris are live and in person. Come find us. Membership required — all details at beyond-monogamy.com. February 19–21, 2027 — Crazy Winter Nights | Kansas City, MO This will sell out. Use code BEYOMONO at fullswapradio.com and grab your tickets early. 💼 SPONSOR: Alvarez & Co. Tax preparation and bookkeeping — yes, run by Adam and Pris. We contain multitudes. Mention you're a listener for a discount. We've seen things. We will not judge. If you're getting anything out of this show, hit follow, subscribe, and drop a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Share this episode with somebody who needs it. Costs you nothing. Means everything to us.

Adam and Pris just got back from a week-long Florida trip — Disney World with the kids by day, and a night at the Florida Tree House lifestyle club that completely blew their minds. This episode covers all of it: the rides, the food, the play, a very forward woman who gave Adam the blueprint he never knew he needed, and a real conversation about feeling unsexy when life is piling up. Show Notes Disney World Recap Yes, World — not Disneyland (Adam got corrected fast). Six miles a day in brutal humidity. Pris goes deep on the layered kettle corn with chocolate drizzle, M&Ms, and cookie crumbles. Adam eats a turkey leg solo during the parade and has zero regrets. Adam also takes a 100mg gummy before entering the park, panics when security dogs appear at the gate, and nearly bails. He recovers. They ride Tron first. Swingers at Disney Full lifestyle groups organized specifically around Disney trips exist and are thriving. Pris was pineapple-spotting all week. They also debate Disney-themed club nights — Pris draws a firm line. Adam is less opposed. Florida Tree House — Full Venue Breakdown Hidden on private acreage 45 minutes from the city. ID check-in, locked gates at 10pm, indoor playrooms stocked with everything you need (you flip your own sheets), a massive screened-in pool deck, fire pits, BDSM stations, hot tub, sunroom playroom with an 8-person shower, two treehouse playrooms with green/red occupancy signs, a swing bed under the tree, and a vintage firetruck gutted and converted into a play space. Also potluck — someone brought fried chicken. The Play They played twice. A man watching said no when invited, then came back later clearly regretting it. Another approached mid-scene asking for a turn — Pris shut it down cleanly. Management was actively watching rooms all night. Pris shares honest thoughts about single men at lifestyle events. "Slutty Behavior" — A Real Conversation A woman at the end of the night was aggressively flirtatious in a way that finally gave Adam the blueprint to explain what he's been trying to tell Pris for years. Pris grabbed the bags in the moment. Afterward — she got it. New chapter unlocked. Not Feeling Sexy Adam is 30 pounds up. Pris is in mommy makeover consultation territory. They get honest about showing up in the lifestyle when life stress, finances, and fatigue are all hitting at once — and why they went out anyway. Coming Up Naughty N'awlins in July. A spicy Wednesday quickie confessional episode dropping soon. 🎟️ BM LIVE — June 20th, Club Eden San Antonio: beyond-monogamy.com 🌴 Florida Tree House: thefloridatreehouse.fun 📻 Full Swap Radio: fullswapradio.com 🌐 Beyond Monogamy: beyond-monogamy.com 🩺 Sponsored by ProDx Health — Discreet at-home STI testing. Code BEYOMONO for your discount. 👉 Sign up at ProDx Health ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Leave us a review, subscribe, and share the show!

What starts as a listener confession about prostate massage turns into the most honest, vulnerable, and surprisingly hilarious conversation Adam and Pris have ever had on mic — completely unscripted, completely real. About This Episode A brave listener wrote into the Beyond Monogamy confessional to share what prostate massage actually feels like — and his words were hard to ignore: "earth-shaking," a "full-body orgasm," with increased intensity, duration, and volume of ejaculate. He said he was completely incapacitated afterward. That letter opened a door neither Adam nor Pris expected to walk through on this quickie. Adam admits he has never had prostate play done — and he explains exactly why: a past experience where it happened without his consent left him with a lasting emotional association he has carried for years. Pris, meanwhile, reveals she has actually done it before (to her first husband, no less 👀). Together, they work through the anatomy, the stigma, toxic masculinity, vulnerability, and the very real question of whether this is something they will explore together. Spoiler: Adam Googled "what is a prostate" in real time on mic. You're going to want to hear this one. Topics Covered What the prostate is and what it actually does The P-spot — why it's called the "male G-spot" and how stimulation works Internal vs. external stimulation (the taint is a real starting point) Adam's past experience and why consent is the real issue Toxic masculinity and the "I ain't gay" barrier so many men face Whether prostate play should be a lifestyle boundary or an open one A practical beginner's guide for curious couples Practical Guide: Starting the Conversation Even if you're brand new to this topic, here's where Adam and Pris landed with their practical takeaways: Have the conversation first — no surprises, ever. Both partners need to be on the same page before anything happens. Don't cause trauma where there doesn't need to be any. Start slow and stay external. External pressure on the perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus, sometimes called the taint) is a low-commitment entry point. It gives you a sense of whether there's something worth exploring further — without diving all the way in. If going internal: hygiene and preparation matter. Short nails, gloves if preferred, and lube — always lube. Always. Check in throughout. Communication during is just as important as communication before. This should feel like an upgrade to intimacy, not something anyone is white-knuckling through. If it's not working, you stop. Full stop. And if it's incredible? Talk about that too — then hit up the Beyond Monogamy confessional and let us know how it went. 🎉 This Episode Is Brought To You By FIRM TECH Speaking of exploring new things — our friends at FIRM TECH make it easy to take that first curious step. Whether you're brand new to intimacy products or looking to level up, they've got everything you need. Use code BEYOMONO at checkout and get 15% off your entire order! 🔗 Shop here: FirmTech - SHOP HERE! 🏷️ Code: BEYOMONO 💸 Saves you: 15% off Send Us Your Confessional This episode literally started because one listener had the guts to write in. If something in this episode hit home, or if you have your own story to share, drop it in our 100% anonymous confessional at www.beyond-monogamy.com. Zero judgment. You just might end up on a future quickie of your own. Find Everything Beyond Monogamy 🌐 Website, full episodes, quickies, merch, blog, guest lineup & confessional: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Live Streaming: Every Thursday on fullswapradio.com — 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central 🎟️ Live Event: Adam & Pris LIVE at Club Eden in San Antonio — June 20th. Membership required. Details at beyond-monogamy.com under the Events tab. If this episode made you think, laugh, or squirm just a little — that means it worked. Hit follow, leave us a five-star review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Those 30 seconds cost you nothing and mean everything to us. We'll see you next week. 💜

QUICKIE: We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club (And Pris Owns It) Pris went full chaos agent at a lifestyle club — and she owns every second of it. In this QUICKIE, Adam and Pris break down a real moment that happened to them recently: Pris spotted a hot couple, approached the woman, confirmed she was bisexual, and somehow ended up in a play room within about 60 seconds — all before anyone had a real conversation about it. The good news? She caught herself, pumped the brakes, apologized on the spot, and followed up the next day. What came out of that moment is a genuinely important conversation about the difference between enthusiasm and enthusiastic consent, how to exit a situation you're not feeling, the pressure people face when they don't know how to say no, and what real accountability looks like in the lifestyle. TOPICS COVERED [00:01:00] — How it started: complimenting the couple from across the room [00:02:00] — The approach: Pris confirms the woman is bi, grabs her hand, and... goes [00:03:00] — The cubby: everyone's in, nobody knows what's happening [00:03:45] — Pris reads the room and pumps the brakes [00:05:00] — The apology, in real time and the next morning [00:07:00] — What Pris did right (the initial approach was actually solid) [00:08:30] — Enthusiastic consent vs. enthusiasm — they are not the same [00:11:00] — The bathroom exit: a smooth and underrated escape tactic [00:14:00] — Building a pre-approach ritual with your partner [00:16:00] — Creative ways to exit a situation when saying "no" feels hard [00:17:00] — When men assume something is owed to them (and why that's a problem) [00:20:00] — The guy who gave Adam a high five mid-sex and the friend who just... chatted [00:23:00] — What defines you in the lifestyle: how you handle your mistakes KEY TAKEAWAYS - Enthusiasm is not consent. Always get the enthusiastic yes before things move forward. - The bathroom exit is a completely valid escape — and kudos to anyone who uses it gracefully. - Real accountability is rare in this community. Owning your mistake, apologizing, and following up is not just the right move — it's actually kind of hot. - Build a pre-approach ritual with your partner so spontaneity doesn't turn into a consent gap. - Saying no is hard for a lot of people. Don't ever put someone in a position where they feel like they can't. EVENTS & COMMUNITY Live show every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central on FullSwapRadio.com Live Beyond Monogamy Event — June 20th at Club Eden, San Antonio. 9 PM start. Membership required. Details at beyond-monogamy.com/events CONNECT & MORE Everything lives at beyond-monogamy.com — episodes, blogs, events, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. If this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And please leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts — it takes 30 seconds and helps more people find us.

We got a message that stopped us in our tracks — and honestly, it took us right back to the beginning. A listener found us on TikTok and sent in one of the most thoughtful, honest questions we've ever received: How do you prepare as a couple for your first lifestyle event when one of you is pumped and the other is... cautiously optimistic? In this QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dig into the confessional of a married couple — 20 years in, incredible communication, and gearing up for a Halloween hotel takeover as their very first lifestyle event. She's got concerns. He's got excitement. And together? They've already got more going for them than they know. We're covering the real talk around what it's like to jump into the deep end, why consent culture in the lifestyle actually makes it safer than you think, how to start receiving compliments without flinching, and the one thing every couple should do before they even walk through the door. In This Episode: Why this guy's approach to bringing up the lifestyle deserves a standing ovation What it actually feels like at a hotel takeover as a new couple — Adam's truth vs. Pris's truth Meet-and-greet events: why starting here changes everything The pressure to "perform" at big events — and why it's all in your head (mostly) How to learn to take a compliment without wanting to run Pre-event conversations every couple should have before the night begins Why the lifestyle is woman-centric and how husbands can stop pouting about it Pris's tunnel vision trick for feeling confident in any room Safe words, scenarios, and baby steps that actually work Whether you're two weeks from your first event or two years in and still figuring it out — this one's for you. Everything we've got lives at www.beyond-monogamy.com — every episode, every video clip, our blog, events tab, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Got a story to get off your chest? Drop it there. We read every single one. If this episode hit home, share it with a couple who needs it. You might literally change the direction of their relationship. Love the show? Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts — it takes 30 seconds and genuinely helps more people find us. Hang out with us live every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com — two shows, 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central. Live Event Alert: June 20th — Club Eden, San Antonio, 9:00 PM. Come meet us. All details on our events tab at beyond-monogamy.com.

This past weekend, Adam and Pris were at a hotel takeover. Not just attending — they were there working, recording a live podcast episode in front of a room full of lifestyle people who were very much already in party mode. That full live show drops this Sunday, and trust us, you're going to want to hear it. But here's the thing about recording a live show at a hotel takeover full of beautiful, festive, very distracted humans: you don't exactly get to deliver a thoughtful breakdown of what hotel takeovers are and how to navigate them. You get energy, chaos, laughter, and moments that make for great radio — but the actual nuts-and-bolts guide? That's what this QUICKIE is for. Consider this your homework before Sunday. The real talk primer. The survival guide nobody hands you at the door. In this episode of the Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam and Pris break down everything you need to know about lifestyle hotel takeovers — fresh off of attending one themselves just this past weekend. From what they actually are, to what you should pack, to how to handle jealousy when your husband is making out with someone across the pool while you're just standing there. (Asking for a friend. The friend is Pris.) What We Cover in This Episode: What a hotel takeover actually is — and no, it's not as intimidating as it sounds. Think of it as the world's best adult sleepover. Who goes — couples, single women, and the very specific situation with single men (we keep it real on this one). What to bring — protection, lube, toys, a cooler full of snacks, your waterproof blankets, and maybe a hoodie because someone's wife is always cold. The money talk — expect $500–$800 for a full weekend, and plan for zero food on premises. DoorDash is your co-pilot. Consent, discretion, and closed doors — just because it's a takeover doesn't mean everyone is available to you. Rules still apply. Communication before, during, and after — including the debate over whether or not you need a code word (and why "figgy tree" is apparently not the answer). How to handle jealousy in the moment — spoiler: Pris has opinions, a snarky comment ready, and absolutely zero shame about it. The debrief — one of the most underrated relationship tools in the lifestyle, and why that car ride home matters more than you think. How to find hotel takeovers — SDC, local Facebook groups, Telegram, Discord, and yes, even TikTok. Listen to this one today, then tune in this Sunday for the live show recorded right there at the takeover. Two episodes. One unforgettable weekend. You're going to want both. Links & Resources Mentioned: 🌐 Everything Beyond Monogamy: beyond-monogamy.com 📅 Events tab, merch, and our anonymous confessional are all there 🎙️ Live show recordings every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central on FullSwapRadio.com 📍 Live Event: Club Eden San Antonio — June 20th at 9PM 🔗 Find your community on SDC — link at the bottom of beyond-monogamy.com Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and screenshot it. Send it to us at adamnpris@beyond-monogamy.com or through our website — you just might get a little something from us. 🎁 Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris is an independent podcast. Every share, subscribe, and review keeps this conversation going. Thank you for being part of it.

Everyone loves talking about the fun parts of the lifestyle — the dates, the connections, the experiences. But what about everything that has to happen BEFORE any of that? The messaging. The vetting. The scheduling. The follow-up. All of it takes time, energy, and emotional bandwidth. And in most couples? It doesn't fall equally. On today's QUICKIE, Adam and Pris get real about how they divide the emotional labor of connecting with other couples — who does the messaging, who handles vetting (and why Pris's gut is basically a superpower), what it looks like to stay in the loop without losing your mind, and why making it intentional beats letting resentment sneak in through the back door. In this episode: Why Adam carries most of the online conversation weight Pris's vetting process — and the story behind her eerily accurate intuition Online chemistry vs. in-person chemistry and how they experience it differently The DADT tendency that sneaks into their setup (and how they're working on it) What "staying in the loop" actually looks like in practice Why you need to talk about this stuff before resentment makes the decision for you Whether you divide things the same way or totally differently, the point is: make it intentional. Don't just let it default. Find everything — episodes, blogs, merch, events, and the anonymous confessional — at www.beyond-monogamy.com Catch us live every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM Central on FullSwapRadio.com Love the show? Please leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts — it genuinely helps more people find us. We're not above begging.

Someone slid into our inbox with a real one — they met a couple and their play partner, vibed with all three, and then realized they were really feeling the third. So what do you do? Is that person automatically off limits? Do you risk the friendship? Do you say nothing and just wonder forever? Adam and Pris break it all down in this week's QUICKIE — starting with the one thing that fixes almost every awkward lifestyle situation: just saying the thing out loud. In This Episode: Nobody owns anyone — but you still don't know their agreements How to find out someone's dynamic without making it weird The "swooping couple" phenomenon — and why it's a red flag Who in the couple should start the conversation (hint: it's whoever's bubblier) Word vomit as a legitimate lifestyle strategy Pris opens up about menopause, her estrogen patch, and why she's been glowing lately Poly-era triggers, emotional cheating TikToks, and how one honest conversation changed everything 15 years in and they're still learning to communicate — and that's the whole point If you've ever found yourself in a situation like this — or you just want more real, judgment-free conversations about the lifestyle — head over to www.beyond-monogamy.com. That's your one-stop shop for episodes, blogs, events, merch, and the anonymous confessional. Got a question or a situation you want us to tackle? Drop it in the anonymous confessional. We read them. We use them. Zero judgment. We are live every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com — two shows, 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central. Come hang out and get in the chat. If this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it genuinely helps more people find the show. Subscribe so you never miss a QUICKIE or a full episode dropping every Sunday.