#183 - Ann E. Butler - "Wife. Mother. Spy." | 27-Year Undercover CIA Officer & Mom of Five on Secret Missions, Going Into Labor During Ops & Hiding It All From Her Kids 🕵️‍♀️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

About this episode

Ann E. Butler shares her experiences as a 27-year undercover CIA officer and mother of five, discussing the challenges of balancing secret missions with family life.

Ann E. Butler - "Wife. Mother. Spy." | 27-Year Undercover CIA Officer & Mom of Five on Secret Missions, Going Into Labor During Ops & Hiding It All From Her Kids 🕵️‍♀️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Her kids found out she was a CIA agent the night before her retirement party. For 27 years, Ann E. Butler recruited spies, ran covert operations across four continents, and made it home for dinner — all while raising five children who thought mom was just a diplomat. What You'll Learn: How she went into labor during a clandestine meeting (and still made the handoff) The art of the "bump" — engineering a chance encounter to recruit an asset Why a pregnant mom of five is the perfect undercover cover How to build trust fast enough that someone will commit treason for you The moment her daughter discovered the truth (a mosaic gave it away) What 9/11 was like from inside a European CIA station Power Quote: "Take advantage of opportunities that come your way. Persevere, even though it's not always easy. And be grateful for those opportunities — because they can turn into extraordinary moments." — Ann E. Butler Timestamps: 🕵️‍♀️ 0:00 - Introduction 📖 3:30 - Why she wrote the book after 27 years of…

People in this episode

Host: Joe Ciccarone

Guest: Ann E. Butler

Topics covered

• CIA operations
• undercover work
• parenting
• trust building
• covert missions

Keywords

• CIA
• undercover
• parenting
• covert operations
• trust
• 9/11
• labor during missions

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: CIA

Books & works: Wife. Mother. Spy.

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