Can't Afford Therapy

Overthinking your friendships, relationship drama, or financial "what ifs"? We get real about dealbreakers, exes at weddings, and why anxiety keeps us stuck replaying the past — all with our usual mix of honesty, humor, and hard truths. Key Discussion Points/Topics Covered The hilarious (and sometimes petty) truth about relationship dealbreakers The ex-at-your-wedding debate: boundaries, co-parenting, and emotional landmines What "overthinking" actually means, and how it shows up in real life Finances, anxiety, and why some of us keep a spreadsheet for peace of mind Rumination vs. preparation: when does thinking become sabotage? Childhood trauma, hyper vigilance, and how old wounds shape adult patterns The two flavors of overthinking: worrying about the future vs. replaying the past The power (and pain) of having or lacking mentors and soundboards Honest talk about being emotionally stuck, feeling stagnant, and seeking growth Breaking the cycle: practical ways to stop overthinking (that sometimes work... sometimes don't)

In this episode, we explore what it really means to "update your software" as a person. As we grow, evolve, and move through different stages of life, the mindsets, habits, and perspectives that once served us don't always keep up. This conversation focuses on recognizing those moments—when your internal "software" is outdated—and what it takes to adapt in a way that actually supports your growth. We also dive into the role of blindspots, self-awareness, and the discomfort that comes with challenging your own patterns. Because growth isn't just about learning something new—it's about unlearning what no longer works.

SaVon, Antoinette, and Josh dive into the truth about anger and why it's often misunderstood. In a world that pushes us to stay calm, polite, and "civil," they explore how rage—especially when rooted in personal experiences and societal pressures—can actually be a powerful and necessary emotion. Through personal stories and cultural insight, they unpack the difference between destructive anger and "sacred rage," and why suppressing it can do more harm than good. Inspired by voices like Cole Arthur Riley, Audre Lorde, and James Baldwin, this conversation challenges the idea that anger is something to avoid—and instead reframes it as something to understand, process, and use with intention.

Josh, Antoinette, and Savon discuss the challenges of making new friends as adults, exploring the differences between childhood and adult friendships, the impact of work and societal pressures, and strategies for building meaningful connections.

What does it mean to build a career in corporate America while staying true to who you are? In this episode, we dive into the concept of workplace identity and how Black and Latino professionals navigate corporate environments that often come with unspoken rules, expectations, and cultural dynamics. From code-switching and representation to career growth and workplace authenticity, the conversation explores the realities many professionals face behind the scenes. We also discuss how identity can shape professional experiences, the pressure to conform in certain spaces, and the importance of finding balance between authenticity and professionalism. Whether you're early in your career, climbing the corporate ladder, or trying to understand workplace culture from a different perspective, this episode offers honest insights and relatable experiences. This conversation highlights the importance of representation, mentorship, and community while navigating professional spaces that can sometimes feel isolating.

In this episode of the Can't Afford Therapy podcast, the hosts delve into the often-taboo subject of porn, exploring their personal relationships with it, the impact it has on sexual dynamics, and the complexities surrounding porn addiction. They discuss how societal perceptions of women and their sexuality influence conversations about porn, and how porn can serve as both a source of education and a potential dependency. The conversation highlights the importance of communication in relationships, the nuances of sexual pleasure, and the need for a more open dialogue about these topics.

Antoinette, Savon, and Josh delve into the complexities of agreeing to disagree, particularly within the context of family relationships and differing political ideologies. They share personal experiences and discuss the importance of setting boundaries, maintaining one's humanity, and understanding the impact of invalidation. The episode explores the challenges of navigating disagreements rooted in oppression and the denial of someone's right to exist, offering insights on how to approach these difficult conversations and prioritize one's well-being.

An honest discussion on organic networking, moving beyond stereotypical mixers to forming authentic connections. Hear firsthand accounts of navigating professional relationships, the challenges women face in male-dominated spaces, and practical tips that break the clichéd networking mold. Join the journey to build genuine networks with an empowered perspective. Join the "Can't Afford Therapy" Community! Get all video episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, and deeper conversations you won't hear anywhere else. Support the show on Patreon today: patreon.com/cantaffordtherapypodcast

Rest isn't a prize at the end of productivity—it's a practice that keeps you human. In this episode, redefine rest beyond sleep: nervous system resets, small rituals that restore, and the courage to be 'unproductive' on purpose. This is about listening to your body, protecting your peace, and treating restoration like a skill you can learn. Permission granted to put the day down. Join the "Can't Afford Therapy" Community! Get all video episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, and deeper conversations you won't hear anywhere else. Support the show on Patreon today: patreon.com/cantaffordtherapypodcast

Dive into an honest quest for self-betterment as we explore the 1% improvement rule. This lively chat traverses gym struggles, the art of being a present parent, and nurturing friendships, all while combating our inner critics. It's a candid, relatable journey towards incremental wins that equate to life-changing gains. Tune in and take away actionable insights for your own 1% journey. Join the "Can't Afford Therapy" Community! Get all video episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, and deeper conversations you won't hear anywhere else. Support the show on Patreon today: patreon.com/cantaffordtherapypodcast

As 2025 comes to a close, we're taking a step back to reflect on the year that was — personally, professionally, and culturally. In this end-of-year recap episode, we break down the biggest moments, lessons learned, wins, losses, and conversations that shaped our year. From shifts in media and culture to personal growth, business realities, and everything in between, this episode is about taking inventory before stepping into what's next. Thank you to everyone who listened, supported, and grew with us throughout 2025. We'll see you in the next chapter.

In this heartfelt Can't Afford Therapy episode, Antoinette, Savon, and Josh pull back the emotional curtains to reveal their battles with hyper independence. They deep dive into the complexities of accepting help, maintaining boundaries, and reframing self-worth. From rejected emotional bids to coping mechanisms blooming from chaos, this episode is a raw exploration of rehearsing for life's grand stages. Join the "Can't Afford Therapy" Community! Get all video episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, and deeper conversations you won't hear anywhere else. Support the show on Patreon today: patreon.com/cantaffordtherapypodcast

Explore the anxiety-ridden world of doom scrolling with us as we unravel the impact of consuming distressing news on mental health. Joined by Antoinette, SaVon, and Josh, the Can't Afford Therapy podcast journeys through the need for problem-solving and how childlike comfort zones lead us to seek out conflict. Discover their authentic takes on dealing with current affairs and the quest for balance. Join the "Can't Afford Therapy" Community! Get all video episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, and deeper conversations you won't hear anywhere else. Support the show on Patreon today: patreon.com/cantaffordtherapypodcast