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74. Bonus Episode: How Alcohol Affects Your Health and Your Relationships (Live From Drinks With Benefits)
Apr 26, 2026
3h 09m 51s
73. How to Find Fulfillment Without Blowing up Your Life: Yasmine Cheyenne
Apr 26, 2026
52m 26s
72. SPECIAL EPISODE: Sam Feher on The Dan Buettner Podcast
Apr 19, 2026
1h 19m 58s
71. What Your Hormones Are Trying to Tell You: Biomarkers, Hormone Therapy, and Peptides With Katy Whalen
Apr 12, 2026
54m 26s
70. Mila Magnani: PCOS Journey and Balancing Your Hormones With Supplements
Apr 5, 2026
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| 4/26/26 | 74. Bonus Episode: How Alcohol Affects Your Health and Your Relationships (Live From Drinks With Benefits) | In this episode, recorded LIVE from the Drinks With Benefits alcohol-free festival in NYC, Sam has three powerful conversations that share a central theme: alcohol. The first conversation features Rob Long, founder of Surf Dating, and Tawny Lara, author of Dry Humping. Together, they explore the relationship between alcohol and romantic relationships. The second conversation features three panelists: Vanessa Rissetto, RD (CAPS LOCK's favorite dietitian), Dr. Michael Mobasser, an internal medicine doctor here in New York, and Kendall Bierman, a licensed therapist specializing in addiction. Together, they dive deep into the impacts of alcohol on your mind and body. The third conversation features Justin Garland, founder of The Maze, and Rachel Hechtman, founder of Sober in Central Park. Together, they discuss how to find and build community in alcohol-free spaces. Listen to this episode if you're interested in going alcohol-free. Join WHOOP. Check out Drinks With Benefits: https://www.instagram.com/drinkswithbenefits/ Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 3h 09m 51s | ||||||
| 4/26/26 | 73. How to Find Fulfillment Without Blowing up Your Life: Yasmine Cheyenne | In this episode, Sam sits down with Yasmine Cheyenne, an author and expert on finding and living your purpose. She shares the inner child work that is foundational to creating a fulfilling life, her 7 Cs of purpose, and what to do if you're asking yourself, "Is this really all there is?" To celebrate the release of her second book, The Comeback Era, Cheyenne dives deep on the societal framework that prevents women from winning, rediscovering who you were before the world told you who to be, and the tiny, realistic, practical things you can do every single day to feel fulfilled in your life (without blowing it up). Listen to this episode if you're asking yourself (you guessed it): "Is this really all there is?" Key moments: 03:17 Is this really all there is? 07:40 How inner child work can help you build a fulfilling life 11:13 What are the 7 Cs of purpose? 17:10 Success is NOT the same as satisfaction…how to bridge the gap 19:50 Betray yourself - you have it in you 20:50 more choice than we realize 27:10 Tiny, practical things you can do TODAY to change your life 32:01 Turning burnout into breakthrough in just 5 minutes per day 36:11 What to REMOVE (not add) to your life to feel more aligned 41:37 How to turn your plans into action RIGHT NOW Preorder The Comeback Era: https://rebrand.ly/4ivjwy7 Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 52m 26s | ||||||
| 4/19/26 | 72. SPECIAL EPISODE: Sam Feher on The Dan Buettner Podcast | In this episode, Sam sits down with her dream podcast guest...on HIS podcast! (Don't worry, we'll get him for CAPS LOCK too.) They talk about Gen Z's approach to wellness, the healthy habits of people who live to 100, changing your environment instead of your routine, and Sam and Dan's formulas for a wellness-focused lifestyle. Listen to this episode if you're so proud of Sam for hitting this milestone bc she is actually so excited about it (yes, Sam is writing this lol)<3 Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLv3ZE9AjzM Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 19m 58s | ||||||
| 4/12/26 | 71. What Your Hormones Are Trying to Tell You: Biomarkers, Hormone Therapy, and Peptides With Katy Whalen | In this episode, Sam sits down with Katy Whalen, co-founder of Joi + Blokes, to understand which of your symptoms might be related to hormonal imbalances or deficiencies...and, more importantly, what to do about it. They discuss how to advocate for yourself at the doctor's office, what low progesterone, estrogen, and testosterone feel like, what NAD+ actually is, and the very first step she'd take to feel GOOD if she could go back and do it all over again. Listen to this episode if you just feel kind of...off. Key moments: 02:01 Katy’s personal health journey 02:39 How they knew something was wrong 05:34 How traditional medicine proposed to resolve her symptoms 08:49 How to advocate for yourself at the doctor’s office 13:03 Thyroid, testosterone, and peptides 16:11 Which biomarkers to keep an eye on (and what’s “normal” vs. “optimal”) 18:14 How deficiencies are treated 19:28 What is hormone therapy and how is it administered? 21:32 What low progesterone feels like 22:49 What low estrogen feels like 23:41 What low testosterone feels like 24:30 How to get hormone therapy 25:03 What are peptides? 26:22 What is NAD+ and what does it do? 27:21 The peptides most people need and want the most 29:27 Can peptides and GLP-1s work even if you don’t make diet/lifestyle changes? 36:41 How to cut through all the wellness trends and noise to figure out what your specific body needs 39:14 The rise of bespoke/personalized medicine 40:41 What to do NOW (even if you feel good!) to be proactive for later 43:17 The future of healthcare in America Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 54m 26s | ||||||
| 4/5/26 | 70. Mila Magnani: PCOS Journey and Balancing Your Hormones With Supplements | In this episode, Sam sits down with Mila Magnani, founder of Milamend and PCOS advocate, to learn about the struggle women with hormone imbalances face—largely unsupported by traditional medicine. After years of knowing something was wrong (read: puberty at age 11, hair growth along jawline, hair shedding on scalp, severe cramps, unexplained 30 lb. weight gain, and more), Mila was sick of being told by her doctors that everything was normal. Over and over, they told her to try birth control, Spironolactone, IUDs...one (woman!) doctor even told her to "eat less, move more." So she took matters into her own hands, discovering and refining a supplement stack that healed her symptoms and gave her her life back, and later turning it into a blend that women facing the same challenges could buy in one shot, instead of struggling and searching for years like she did. Listen to this episode if you have PCOS or any other kind of hormonal imbalance. Key moments: 00:05:35 Mila’s PCOS story 00:06:42 Hitting puberty at age 11 and birth control at 13 00:09:09 Realizing her cycle was never “normal” 00:10:47 Going to the doctor for the first time 00:13:17 The invisible pressure of sharing your symptoms with male doctors 00:17:26 Starting Spironolactone 00:18:12 Being labeled “the sick kid” at school 00:18:52 Getting a POTS diagnosis 00:20:52 Spironolactone and POTS 00:23:19 Having cravings and getting extremely hungry, even right after eating 00:25:00 Getting an IUD to purposely eliminate her cycle 00:27:46 Complications from the IUD 00:29:53 The day that everything changed 00:31:46 The problem with the “money doesn’t buy happiness” mentality 00:33:29 The dangers of “pushing through” when things are bad 00:34:48 Developing thyroid problems (hypothyroidism) due to physical, mental, and emotional stress 00:35:05 Gaining 30 pounds in 2 months 00:36:13 Going back to traditional medicine…and getting prescribed antidepressants 00:37:46 Why the difference between “normal” and “optimal” bloodwork results is actually VERY important 00:39:33 Different types of PCOS 00:39:56 Running out of money for American healthcare 00:40:13 Turning to functional medicine, chiropractors, health influencers, etc. 00:41:19 A huge red flag for chiropractors and functional medicine 00:42:37 Taking her health into her own hands 00:43:43 Nutraceuticals 00:45:52 FINALLY getting a PCOS diagnosis 00:52:42 Standing up for yourself in the doctor’s office (or bringing an advocate!) 00:54:33 Why hormone testing is so complicated and difficult 00:56:47 Feeling defeated by PCOS treatment options 00:59:21 The supplement stack she used to treat her PCOS 01:00:42 What is inositol? 01:08:02 Healing fully in 6 months by using the right supplements 01:09:33 Why she doesn’t regret using birth control, spironolactone, etc. 01:10:15 How to know which supplement brands can be trusted 1:15:17 Non-negotiable lifestyle changes that help with PCOS Try Milamend: https://www.milamend.com/products/hormone-balance Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 26m 15s | ||||||
| 3/29/26 | 69. How to Build a Fulfilling Career and NOT Get Replaced by AI: Hannah Zhang | In this episode, Sam sits down with Hannah Zhang (aka Career Hannah), who left her dream job with no backup plan after burning out. 5+ pivots later, she's learned what it actually means to feel fulfilled at work, and now helps people achieve it for themselves. They discuss what she learned in business school that she can teach you in 15 seconds or less, how to know whether you're ready to quit your job, why it's a good thing to be a "jack of all trades" in 2026, and how NOT to get replaced by AI. Listen to this episode if you feel like you're meant for something more or something different in your career...but you're not sure what that thing is. Key moments: 04:20 How do you know if you’re ready to leave your dream job? 06:14 The questions you need to ask yourself before quitting your job 08:33 Second-guessing your decision 11:34 Why you should (or shouldn’t) go to business school 12:56 The most important thing her MBA taught her 15:41 When you know you’re meant for more, but you’re not sure what that thing is… 17:54 How to figure out what that thing is!!! 19:52 Over-planning, but under-acting 21:01 What she learned from pivoting in her career…5+ times!!! 23:26 Jack of all trades, master of none…do you know the rest of the quote? 25:20 Why a non-linear career is the best kind of career 26:24 Being the author of your own story (read: explaining your job hops) 27:22 How to be the best KIND of “jack of all trades” 28:27 The rise of AI also means the rise of entrepreneurship 30:25 Unpacking the shame around job-hopping 33:07 What your non-linear career path is trying to tell you 33:35 Why maximizing your options isn’t always the right move 38:07 Why you need to be a high-agency person in 2026 39:54 How to stop worrying if you made the right decision 41:11 How to be high agency without burning out 43:44 Building a personal brand Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 53m 50s | ||||||
| 3/22/26 | 68. Surprising Acne Triggers, Pore-Clogging Ingredients, and How to Get off Birth Control Without Effing up Your Skin | In this episode, Sam sits down with Danielle Gronich and Kayleigh Christina, both of whom suffered from severe cystic acne for years, healed completely, and later became the co-founders of CLEARSTEM. They walk Sam through the process of working together to heal Kayleigh's acne in just EIGHT WEEKS using a combination of dietary and lifestyle changes, supplements, and topical treatments, which begs the question: HOW? Don't worry—we tell you. Listen to this episode if you want to actually achieve perfect skin by healing from the inside out—not by effing up your hormones or suppressing surface-level manifestations of internal stress. Key moments: 03:25 Why they didn't seek investors 06:32 Both founders’ severe acne journeys 15:17 Most common acne triggers 17:44 What we’re getting wrong about hormonal acne 18:58 How our supplements cause hormonal acne 20:37 The sugar-free sweetener messing with your hormones 22:55 Things you would never expect to give you acne…but do 26:52 The most important thing to do before you buy food or products 27:36 Why Biotin is the scam of the century 28:57 The top pore-clogging products + ingredients 31:03 The FREE tool you can use to check the ingredients in your products 35:18 The top lifestyle + dietary changes you can make RIGHT NOW to help your acne 37:33 How to transition off Spironolactone and birth control Join WHOOP. Use code CAPSLOCK for 15% off at CLEARSTEM: https://clearstem.com/ Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 50m 11s | ||||||
| 3/15/26 | 67. Traditional Chinese Medicine, Feng Shui, and Hot Water: Sara Jane Ho | In this episode, Sam sits down with cultural expert, media personality, and entrepreneur Sara Jane Ho of Netflix's Mind Your Manners to learn for the first time what Traditional Chinese Medicine has known forever: Which directions your windows should face. Which foods nourish the feminine, and which nourish the masculine. How to prevent gray hairs. How to breathe (literally). How to poop (seriously). And how to bring the balance of eastern medicine to a chaotic western lifestyle. Listen to this episode if you feel like there's a missing puzzle piece in your wellness journey that you just can't put your finger on. (Hint: it might be qi deficiency.) Key moments: 00:03:54 How living in several countries as a child changed the rest of her life 00:05:44 Navigating both eastern and western culture as a child 00:08:27 The influence of feng shui throughout her life 00:09:45 When you’re actually supposed to feng shui your home 00:10:45 The most jarring aspects of western culture after living in China 00:15:05 The role Traditional Chinese Medicine has played in her life 00:16:21 The best hack for taking Herbal Chinese Medicine 00:20:03 The impact of western culture and habits on her body 00:25:14 Core principles of Traditional Chinese Medicine 00:26:55 What is qi and what role does it play in TCM? 00:31:36 3 ways to nourish and protect your qi 00:33:23 The relationship between qi and yin yang 00:33:58 Masculine (yang) and feminine (yin) foods 00:34:41 TCM says eat THIS to prevent gray hairs 00:38:14 Finding a healthy balance between eastern and western medicine 00:39:11 How to support your different organs, according to TCM 00:41:23 Energetic heat: inflammation, eczema, acne, and skin conditions 00:42:35 How the western diet is sooo opposite a healthy eastern diet 00:43:21 How to eat in a balance of hot and cold for health + digestion 00:43:53 The connection between your organs and emotions 00:45:11 Dampness in Chinese Medicine 00:47:18 Why rice is so important in Chinese culture 00:48:04 Postpartum confinement in China 00:50:27 Why she stopped doing HIIT workouts 00:54:09 How to incorporate eastern medicine into a western lifestyle 00:54:58 The top 3 reasons Americans get acupuncture 00:55:13 How to poop (no, seriously) 00:56:03 TCM views on coffee vs. tea 00:58:37 Common misconceptions about TCM 01:00:38 Her favorite feng shui practices and rules 01:01:21 How to feng shui your home for prosperity and abundance 01:02:22 Which direction your windows should be facing for ideal feng shui 01:03:32 Why you shouldn’t leave shoes at your front door Join WHOOP: join.whoop.com/samanthafeher Shop Antevorta: antevortalabs.com Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 13m 35s | ||||||
| 3/8/26 | 66. How Your Diet Affects Your Mental Health | In this episode, Sam links cravings and unhealthy eating habits to her worsening anxiety when she stumbles upon old research from episode #21: Gut Health 101. Turns out, the connection between your diet and your mental health runs wayyy deeper than just blood sugar spikes and crashes. So she explores the role of your microbiome, your vagus nerve, glutamate, GABA, and more to uncover the truth about food, anxiety, and depresion. Listen to this episode if you've been eating like crap lately! Key moments: 08:19 The truth about burnout 13:20 The gut-brain axis, explained 13:38 What is your enteric nervous system (ENS)? 16:12 How the gut-brain axis affects your emotional state 16:20 Which neurotransmitters are produced in your gut? 17:41 How the bacteria in your gut can cause depression, stress, and anxiety 18:25 The link between IBS and clinical depression 19:52 The vagus nerve’s role in the gut-brain axis 20:19 What does the vagus nerve actually do in your body? 23:44 WTF is glutamate, and what does it have to do with your mental health? 24:38 What does glutamate do? 26:48 Foods that have high glutamate 27:43 WTF is GABA? 29:10 How does our diet affect glutamate/GABA balance? 31:35 The vicious cycle of unhealthy eating, glutamate and GABA production, and mood disorders (spoiler: they all feed each other) 33:16 Other ways your diet causes depression or anxiety 36:15 The impact of alcohol on glutamate and GABA production 38:54 How to change your diet to improve your mental health 39:28 What is vagal tone and how do you improve it? 39:52 Symptoms of poor vagal tone 40:10 5 things you can do RIGHT NOW to improve the health of your vagus nerve 42:36 Foods and eating techniques to beat anxiety and depression 44:00 HOW to eat (not just WHAT to eat) Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Resources for this episode can be found here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 56m 26s | ||||||
| 3/1/26 | 65. Q+A: Get Snatched in 4 Weeks, Hacks for Counting Macros, Bulking Updates, and the Future of CAPS LOCK | In this episode, Sam shares her food, exercise, and wellness tips for feeling and looking better in just 4 weeks, deep dives into the reality of bulking and counting macros (spoiler...it's not fun), and gets super vulnerable about the state of the pod in 2026. Chatty bestie time on 100. Listen to this episode if you just realized summer is around the corner, or if you're a fan of CAPS LOCK. Key moments: 04:31 Sam’s highly effective program for getting snatched ASAP 06:56 Which foods to cut out if you want to look and feel better 30 days from now 12:37 Why you should eat all your meals within this timeframe 14:51 Sam’s exercise routine when she needs to tighten up on a quick turnaround 18:26 Sleep routine, sauna routine, and the drink that makes you live forever! (jokes, kinda?) 19:54 An anti-inflammatory life hack that has multiple health benefits 21:45 The best and healthiest way to doomscroll lol 23:05 Does counting macros ever get easier??? 24:41 The “ratio and order” methods for eating healthy at restaurants 28:49 Sam’s bulking journey: updates, learnings, etc. 31:49 Sam’s current diet and workout plan 33:58 Gym and nutrition advice if you want something between a Pilates bod and a gym physique 36:02 Sam’s favorite athleticwear brands and pieces 38:36 What’s coming up for CAPS LOCK listeners in 2026 47:32 Which foods trigger cortisol spikes 51:24 Sam personal life updates! Getting engaged?? Travel? Summer??? Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 00m 32s | ||||||
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| 2/22/26 | 64. 8 Simple and Effective Ways to Increase Your Attention Span | In this episode, Sam has to rewatch an episode of Loot three times because she can't lock in for the life of her. Problematic! So she decided to embark on a mission to understand her inability to concentrate one one task for more than 90 seconds at a time. Ultimately, she attributes her lack of focus to a two-pronged problem we ALL face every minute of every day, and discovers eight actionable strategies for exercising and improving your attention span that we can implement starting right. Freaking. Now. Listen to this episode if watching TikToks on 2x speed STILL isn't fast enough. Key moments: (Lots of yap intro today lol) 22:07 Why our attention spans are so short right now 22:16 The age of information overload 24:51 Why we’re all doing phone-free time wrong 26:13 The 3-level phone-free challenge (see if you can get to level 3) 29:46 Sam’s favorite entry-level meditation app 32:58 How single-tasking can extend your attention span (and productivity!) 36:05 How much caffeine is good for your attention span vs. needed for energy/productivity? 38:15 You can exercise and strengthen your attention span, and it’s actually fun :) 40:12 The best practices for amazing sleep hygiene 42:19 How sleep apnea affects your concentration and focus 43:45 How your vision and hearing affect your attention span Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Resources for this episode can be found here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 56m 43s | ||||||
| 2/15/26 | 63. Does Autophagy Actually Prevent Cancer and Slow Aging? | In this episode, Sam is inspired by her family's interest in fasting for autophagic response to do some research. Autophagy is sold to us as a cancer-killing agent—according to some Healthtokkers, a single autophagy-boosting caloric fast can halve your risk of developing cancer. Is that true? Are there limitations or variables? And how does it affect your pace of aging? All questions this episode will address. Listen to this episode if you want to know how to safely trigger autophagy, and whether you're even a candidate. Key moments: 03:36 How Sam found out about autophagy 05:09 Fasting and autophagy 05:56 Sam’s mom and her experience with fasting 09:05 What is autophagy? 18:07 The part of autophagy that allegedly kills/prevents cancer 19:43 How to trigger or ramp up autophagy intentionally 21:06 4 things you can do to try and boost autophagy 21:20 How fasting might trigger heightened autophagy 21:55 How long do you need to fast to trigger autophagy? 23:00 Caloric restriction vs. fasting 23:16 What is a keto diet and what does it have to do with autophagy? 25:24 The easiest way to trigger increased autophagic output 27:41 Wait, is autophagy even a good thing??? 28:29 World-renowned doctors and their conflicting conclusions about autophagy 29:26 How to use autophagy to achieve your health goals 29:49 The #1 danger of autophagy, and why you’d want to be VERY careful before trying to trigger it 31:03 The bottom line on whether autophagy is a good or bad thing for disease prevention 32:40 The bottom line on whether autophagy is a good thing for aging and metabolic health Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Resources for this episode can be found here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 47m 31s | ||||||
| 2/8/26 | 62. Bad Posture Is Bad for Your Heart and More...Here's How to Fix It | In this episode, Sam is caught, red-handed, ON CAMERA...with disgraceful posture. Again. And that was her final straw! So she decided to play a game of "scared straight" with herself, and unfortunately for you, that means you're playing too. Because, let's be real: we all have terrible posture at least sometimes. Mostly when we're working from home or hunched over our phones. And besides looking bad, it turns out that bad posture is actually terrible for your health! Heart problems, digestion problems, nerve damage...the list goes on. So let's fix that. Listen to this episode if you spend 80% of your time hunched over a phone or laptop. Key moments: 08:20 How bad posture can affect your neck and back 08:26 Here’s how much your head weighs at different postures 11:18 Balance and its far-reaching impact as you age 12:22 What your pelvic floor actually does 12:50 Why old people die quickly after taking a fall 14:26 How your posture affects your lung capacity…and what that means for you 16:00 Bladder control problems arising from poor posture 16:51 Posture and your digestion 18:37 FYI: Poor posture causes hormone imbalances!!! 18:44 The Harvard research that correlates posture and cortisol levels 20:20 Nerve damage from poor posture (it doesn’t have to be a severe behavior to have severe consequences!) 21:51 If you take NOTHING ELSE AWAY from this episode…take this (how bad posture affects your cardiovascular system) 23:46 What good posture actually looks like 23:53 The mistake most people make when trying to fix their posture 29:11 Exercises, habits, and products to fix your posture 29:33 The best exercises and skills to practice for postural health 30:18 Which tight muscles are affecting your posture 32:24 How to change your workspace to encourage good posture (chair, desk, and computer adjustments) 36:15 Habits to fix your posture during a sedentary workday 37:39 The best types of workouts for posture and core strength 38:04 A posture-correcting sports bra with a built-in brace?? (Taylor Swift wore it while rehearsing for the Eras Tour!) Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Resources for this episode can be found here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 48m 07s | ||||||
| 1/25/26 | 60. How Your Mouth, Gums, and Teeth Inform Inflammation, Disease, and Lifespan: Dr. Jonathan B. Levine | In this episode, Sam sits down with Dr. Jonathan B. Levine to learn about the second-largest microbiome in our bodies: the mouth. If you were worried about leaky gut before, you're worried about leaky *gums* now. They discuss how your oral health can not only predict, but also influence health outcomes like cardiovascular disease, gut imbalances, lifespan, and more; share the best products and protocols for taking care of your teeth and gums at home; and explore the unexpected—yet extremely powerful—connection between your mouth and sleep. Listen to this episode if you have persistent sleep problems, gum inflammation, plaque buildup, or gut issues that you can't figure out. You might be surprised! Key moments: 03:19 How Lenny Kravitz (rock star) became a dentist (I’m only half joking???) 07:31 How oral health impacts our longevity 10:11 Why dentistry and healthcare are separate industries 11:42 What your saliva can tell you about your overall health 11:53 The second biggest microbiome in your body 12:19 How the pH balance of your mouth affects your entire body 13:14 How to change the pH of your mouth to control health outcomes 14:00 Leaky gut’s sister disease that nobody is talking about 14:25 How gum inflammation make you sick 16:35 How your oral health affects your hormones and reproductive system 20:51 The root of all disease 24:24 The unexpected link between oral health, sleep, and longer lifespans 32:06 Does mouth taping actually work? 32:22 Why you actually grind your teeth 34:05 The metabolic impact of oral health on aging and longevity 36:34 What’s in our control vs. out of our control 38:01 The right protocol for good oral hygiene 38:48 Thoughts on the chemicals - hydrogen peroxide, fluoride, sodium laurel sulfate, etc. 41:06 The tea on tongue scraping (what’s all that white stuff???) 42:11 Fixes to common oral health problems (plaque buildup, gum inflammation, yellow teeth) Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 50m 25s | ||||||
| 1/18/26 | 59. We All Have Core Wounds From Childhood—How to Identify (and Heal From) Them: Vienna Pharaon, MindfulMFT | In this episode, Sam sits down with Vienna Pharaon (@mindfulmft) to learn about core wounds—those "first time" moments when we're let down, disappointed, betrayed, or otherwise hurt—and how they show up in our adult lives and relationships. They discuss where those core wounds come from (yes, we all have them, even if we had great childhoods!), how to spot them in your patterns and reactions, and, ultimately, how to heal from them. Listen to this episode if you've ever had a big, strong reaction to something, if you're interested in inner child work, or if you want to be a better friend, partner, and family member. Key moments: 01:47 Freud, Attachment Theory, Object Relations, and more 04:52 Core wounds—how childhood trauma shows up in adulthood 06:11 Can my core wounds come from experiences later in life, or is it truly just childhood trauma? 07:34 The five core wounds 08:43 Descriptions of the core wounds and how they affect you in adulthood 10:15 The worthiness wound (feeling like you don’t have inherent value or worth) 11:09 The belonging wound (“nobody gets me/I don’t belong here”) 11:54 The prioritization wound (never feeling like anyone’s #1) 12:22 The trust and safety wounds (being guarded or hypervigilant/being clingy) 13:27 How we internalize pain determines which wounds we get 14:15 Why someone with a happy childhood/family still has core wounds 24:21 The 2-minute quiz that can tell you which wound you lead with 24:35 A full description of the trust wound (Sam leads with this one) 25:05 Can core wounds come from friendships or romantic relationships? 29:11 Breaking and building trust with YOURSELF 31:46 How to start doing inner child work 34:07 What if you don’t really have memories from your childhood? 38:36 What to do when other people show their core wounds 41:39 The difference between emotional maturity and emotional immaturity 43:47 The 3 steps of healing from childhood trauma 49:20 Why do emotionally intelligent women get stuck in the same dating patterns? 50:19 How to tell the difference between falling in love with someone vs. they activate a familiar wound 53:24 Why it’s easier to give love than to receive it Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 02m 26s | ||||||
| 1/11/26 | 58. How to Stop Overthinking Everything | In this episode, Sam opens up about her former destructive habit of overthinking everything until she's fully spiraling and catastrophizing—and then, as always, she shares how she learned how to STOP doing it. It's literally bad for our health! Also, it's not productive. But you'll learn all that in the episode. Listen to this episode if you're a chronic overthinker. Key moments: 06:35 What does overthinking look/feel like? 07:11 Ruminating about the past vs. worrying about the future 08:06 The consequences of overthinking 11:25 Why do we overthink everything? 13:17 Big CAPS LOCK updates!!! 14:22 The one reason we all overthink 14:53 How you can trick your brain by overthinking 15:27 Why overthinking isn’t productive 16:58 All roads lead back to fear of judgment! 17:56 Why you’re always spiraling about the worst possible outcomes instead of the best possible outcomes 18:42 Why it’s dangerous to overthink the worst possible outcomes 19:12 The physical health impact of spiraling (inflammation, immune system, etc.) 20:32 Identifying triggers and patterns for spiraling, overthinking, ruminating, etc. 22:55 Do you mostly spiral at night or when you’re alone? 24:39 Why your spirals are worse at certain times 25:06 The first question to ask yourself when you start spiraling 25:57 Catastrophizing 26:20 How to reframe your thoughts while you’re catastrophizing 26:54 What to do when you catch yourself in a negative thought loop 27:56 Using your calendar app to reduce overthinking 28:02 Venting to your friends vs. venting to your therapist 30:33 Your can/cannot list - this is SO HELPFUL 32:41 How to shift from overthinking in your HEAD to executing an ACTION IRL 33:47 Sam literally wrote you a clean, concise apology text for when you’re in an awkward situation and it’s your fault lol 34:32 Honestly the most crucial advice in any episode ever lol Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 46m 14s | ||||||
| 1/4/26 | 57. Greatest Hits of 2025: Moments That Altered My Brain Chemistry | In this episode, Sam relives some moments from the first year of CAPS LOCK that really capture what the show is about. Moments that might literally make you laugh or cry (Sam does both throughout the course of this episode), moments that are profound—even some that have enormous implications, reaching far beyond our small-but-mighty audience. The idea here is that, going into 2026, we all have different goals. We all need to hear different things in this moment to start it off on the right foot. So, as usual—take what you need, and leave what you don't. Key moments: 01:24 Welcome to 2026! 07:07 How vaping affects your fertility and reproductive health (excerpt from episode 9, featuring Quit With Jones) 09:22 How belonging to a community affects your physical health (excerpt from episode 14, featuring Dr. Jonathan Leary of Remedy Place) 23:35 If “eat healthy” is one of your New Year’s Resolutions, listen up! (excerpt from episode 26, featuring Vanessa Rissetto, RD) 31:51 Dating for marriage in 2026 and beyond (excerpt from episode 23, featuring Lindsey Metselaar of We Met at Acme) 36:48 A surprising way that ADHD can affect your friendships and relationships (excerpt from episode 25, featuring Jennifer Salzman) 42:20 How having kids changes your body forever (excerpt from episode 33, featuring Taylor Rae Roman) 47:31 Why Gen Z is facing extremely high unemployment rates right now (excerpt from episode 48, featuring Suzy Welch) Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 01m 37s | ||||||
| 12/28/25 | 56. Neuroscience Behind the Law of Attraction (and How to Use It) | In this episode, Sam explores a method for approaching (and using) the Law of Attraction that isn't entirely rooted in spiritual BS and New Thought propaganda. Bringing together research from the fields of psychology and neuroscience, plus a 3-step process for implementing the Law of Attraction in your everyday life, this episode is a quick, actionable listen for kicking off 2026. Listen to this episode if you ACTUALLY want to accomplish your goals in 2026. Key moments: 00:31 Kicking off 2026 03:06 What is the Law of Attraction? 04:44 What The Secret gets wrong about manifestation 06:08 What The Secret gets RIGHT about manifestation 06:43 The neuroscience behind the Law of Attraction 08:11 How to trick your brain (in a good way) 10:55 Your reticular activating system 12:21 The Red Car Theory 13:21 Gestalt’s Principle of Figure/Ground Formation 13:43 How you’re probably manifesting your fears by accident 15:36 How negative thinking is making you sick 18:24 How to make the Law of Attraction work for you 18:36 The 3 steps of using the Law of Attraction 19:05 Step 1: Ask the universe for what you want 19:22 Try this hack for increasing the likelihood that your manifestation comes true 19:43 How to be specific when you manifest 20:37 Sam’s favorite manifestation/visualization exercise 22:33 Step 2: Believe that you are capable, worthy, and deserving of the reward 22:37 Some manifestation experts do this surprising thing with their vision boards 24:02 Faking it til you make it (literally) 24:55 The importance of affirmations 25:25 Being wary of toxic positivity 26:10 How to stop negative thinking in its tracks 28:13 This thing we ALL DO is holding us back from our manifestations 30:32 Step 3: How to receive your reward 30:40 The most nuanced and difficult part of using the Law of Attraction 34:15 How to receive your reward in a way that starts the cycle of attraction again Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Resources for this episode can be found here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 46m 17s | ||||||
| 12/21/25 | 55. Is Radiation From Smartphones, Wireless Headphones, and Microwaves Actually Dangerous? | In this episode, Sam thinks she's sitting down to talk exclusively about the supposed "dangers" of Bluetooth and wireless headphones. Ha. As if she could get through a single Google search without going down a 20-subject rabbit hole, ultimately staying up way past her bedtime to bring you a much more comprehensive episode about every type of radiation, where it comes from, and how dangerous (or not dangerous at all) it really is! Listen to this episode if you saw your favorite influencer throw out her microwave oven and your favorite Healthtokker slander AirPods on the internet. Key moments: 00:34 CAPS LOCK updates for over the holidays 01:49 Wireless headphones origin story 04:49 How Healthtokkers use fear mongering to sell us products 09:40 What are EMR (electromagnetic radiation) and EMF (electromagnetic fields)? 09:52 Natural and manmade sources of radiation 10:49 Mechanical waves vs. electromagnetic waves 11:31 The electromagnetic spectrum (all the different types of waves and radiation) 12:31 Where radio, phone, WiFi, Bluetooth, and TV fall on the radiation spectrum 13:36 How much radiation is your microwave oven putting out? 14:46 Where infrared falls on the radiation spectrum (heat sources) 15:47 Can you see and/or feel radiation? 16:15 The human body literally emits radiation!!! 17:13 Your lightbulbs probably emit more radiation than your microwave 18:18 THIS is where radiation starts becoming dangerous (according to current science) 18:27 Ionizing vs. non-ionizing radiation 19:07 Can non-ionizing radiation still harm you? 20:56 How dangerous are x-rays? 21:17 The most dangerous type of radiation 21:55 How you might get exposed to gamma rays in your life 22:11 THIS radiation is the #1 cause of lung cancer in non-smokers and the #2 cause overall and TBH we are all exposed to it and we should really be talking about this more?????? 24:01 What do you MEAN cancer treatment is exposure to gamma radiation???? 26:12 Are our electronic devices giving us cancer? 27:13 So why are radio waves a group 2B (possible) human carcinogen due to possible increased risk of brain cancer? 30:29 How human carcinogens are classified 31:06 Some other 2B possible carcinogens, for context… @ Diet Coke lovers 32:21 The bottom line on cancer risk 34:17 Is this type and level of radiation affecting your fertility? 35:22 Electromagnetic sensitivity and electrohypersensitivity disorder 38:20 Changes you can make if you want to be extra cautious about your daily EMR/radiation exposure Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Resources for this episode can be found here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 46m 01s | ||||||
| 12/14/25 | 54. Healthy Tips for Navigating the Holidays: How to Avoid Crashes, Binge-Eating, and Food Guilt | In this episode, Sam compiles research from dietitians, nutritionists, hospitals, medical journals, and more to bring you tips on how to be mindful, healthy, and consistent during the holidays so you don't leave with a bunch of shame, food guilt, or anxiety. Don't get it twisted—this is not about restricting, losing weight, or encouraging anything other than whatever TF you want. It's simply about feeling your best physically, mentally, and emotionally, and hopefully alleviating some of the stress we wellness girlies often feel heading into a very intense and food/drink-centric time of year. Mindfulness is key. Listen to this episode if you're stressed about gaining weight or "falling off track" during the holidays. Key moments: 00:34 End of year burnout and what to do about it 04:06 Today’s topic, how and why we’re covering it 10:38 How this list is organized lol 11:07 What you can do ahead of time to plan and prepare for the holidays 11:19 Does one day, or one week, actually affect your progress? 12:39 How sleep affects your digestion 15:29 Regulate your nervous system to improve your digestion 15:52 How to regulate your nervous system in less than 5 minutes 16:12 How to do Box Breathing 18:25 The science behind washing your hands to regulate your nervous system 21:16 What to do the day of the holiday for best results 21:23 This is the #1 food mistake everyone makes on holidays!!! 22:31 What to eat for breakfast the morning of a holiday meal to balance your blood sugar and digestion (and so you don’t binge when you get there) 23:59 Are you actually hungry, or are you really just thirsty? 25:52 Do this first thing in the morning on the day of a holiday meal 26:57 Movement during the holidays 29:03 Tips for once you’re actually at the party or holiday meal 29:18 The easiest change that makes the biggest difference in how you feel physically over the holidays 31:26 Definitely don’t do this… 32:24 Types of foods to prioritize on holidays 34:14 What to do about the appetizers lol 36:42 Why you should consider eating dinner off an appetizer plate 40:48 Here’s the order in which you should eat your food 42:26 WE. EAT. TOO. FAST. Here’s how to fix it!!! 46:52 How to stop eating when you’re full 48:08 How to reduce bloating, indigestion, and/or nausea after eating a big meal 49:14 How to manage your blood sugar after a big meal 49:53 What to do if you feel so bloated you might explode after a big meal lol (quick fix) Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Resources for this episode can be found here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 58m 33s | ||||||
| 12/7/25 | 53. How to Make a Good First Impression | In this episode, Sam teaches you how to make a good first impression—at a job interview, on a date, with friends...you name it. There's science behind how we hold our bodies, the tone of voice we use, and other seemingly insignificant choices that actually have a major impact on how we're perceived. And now, there's a formula for putting your best foot forward. Listen to this episode if you're interviewing for jobs, trying to make new friends, or find a life partner! Key moments: 00:34 Bestie time + life updates 01:09 CAPS LOCK’s Spotify Wrapped 04:36 Updates on my bulking journey 06:53 Gearing up for 2026 and making New Year’s Resolutions 11:57 The top 3 episodes of CAPS LOCK in 2025 15:50 How to make a good first impression 15:58 What being early (or late) says about you 16:17 What time to arrive for a job interview vs. a date 18:02 Dressing for the job you want (at work and in life) 23:05 Genius hack on how to dress for a job interview!!! 24:55 Do THIS with your phone before walking into a room 27:47 Vapes, gum, and your mouth/breath/teeth lol 28:21 I am judging you based on the way you smell 29:10 What to do if you have RBF 30:34 The importance of body language (and how to do it right) 36:05 Handshake vs. hug 38:07 Mirroring someone’s body language 41:33 What to talk about, how to talk, and also how to stfu sometimes lol 47:14 The most important takeaway from this episode Join WHOOP. Buy the Productivity Planner. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 58m 18s | ||||||
| 11/30/25 | 52. Ask a Man: Dating Rules, Falling in Love, and Finding “The One” | In this episode, Sam sits down with William(!!!) to answer your burning questions about the male brain in relationships. He’s really smart, so instead of it being cheeky and silly, it’s actually pretty deep. (Okay, it’s also a bit cheeky and silly.) They cover what men are looking for in a partner, expectation-setting in relationships, when to stop seeing other people (not that William has ever seen other people), the work you do on yourself to show up in a healthy relationship, how to find out if a guy is serious about you, bringing up the “official” conversation, how to know if you’re in love, and, perhaps most importantly, how to know if they’re “the one.” Listen to this episode if you want to know how to train your man to surprise you with flowers. Key moments: 05:00 How we met 06:19 The three meetings theory (similar to invisible string) 08:42 “You’re 23, they’re not the one” 12:04 When they start “looking” - from a man’s perspective 14:03 Becoming “ready” to find their person 15:34 Cab light theory vs. he can only be “ready” for the right person 16:22 Tinx’s box theory 18:52 Changing yourself for a man (literally vom) 19:50 William’s rules of dating 21:01 Why he might not text daily - from a man’s perspective 22:31 When you stop seeing other people 26:09 Setting expectations but not communicating them 28:26 What men are looking for in a partner 29:26 The work you do on yourself to show up in a healthy relationship 30:59 Relationship anarchy and expecting your partner to be everything to you (i.e. partner, best friend, therapist, etc.) 32:17 How to live in service without people-pleasing 37:14 How to tell if a guy is serious about you 41:38 How to bring up the “official” or “I love you” conversation 43:09 Saying “I love you” first 44:52 Compromise vs. changing for the other person 45:38 How to know if they’re “the one” 46:53 Is love a product of fate or choice? 48:36 How you know if you’re in love Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 58m 16s | ||||||
| 11/23/25 | 51. How to Count and Track Your Macros and Calorie Intake | In this episode, Sam gets into the nitty gritty: What are macros? Why do people track them? And how do you even do it? Doesn't it take forever??? (Yes, kinda. Lol.) But the good news is...we're making it easy. Listen to this episode if you've ever been curious about counting your macros but have no idea where to start. Key moments: 00:00:33 Sam is giving Snow White 00:01:51 Sam’s favorite water bottle and lip balm lol 00:04:18 CAPS LOCK turns one!!! + a very special guest 00:05:44 Boyfriend and I went on Becoming You with Suzy Welch! Episode coming soon on her pod 00:06:56 New TV shows Sam and William highly recommend 00:09:30 Trigger warning about food tracking/ED obv - love u 00:10:36 Works for weight loss, weight gain, muscle gain, body recomposition, physical health, etc. 00:12:29 What is bulking? 00:12:46 Health benefits of building skeletal muscle mass 00:16:47 Today’s topic (explanation and preview) 00:21:38 “I’ve tried everything, but I’m not seeing results” (sound familiar???) 00:22:03 Start the episode here if you don’t want any of the chatty fluff lol 00:23:50 Do this BEFORE calculating your calories and macros 00:25:26 Different things you can achieve by setting intentional calorie and macro intake 00:26:31 Calculating your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) 00:28:54 How to determine your BMR/RMR (basal or resting metabolic rate) - AKA how many calories your body requires just to stay alive 00:30:08 The Mifflin-St. Jeor equation for men and women 00:35:25 Adjusting based on your daily activity level (be realistic!!!) 00:41:46 Adjusting your target calorie goal based on your physical goal 00:47:32 How to calculate your macros after determining your calories 00:47:48 What actually are macros? 00:49:08 How much protein you should consume per day 00:53:29 How many carbs you should consume per day 00:54:38 How much fat you should consume per day 00:55:49 How counting your calories and macros can affect your metabolism 01:00:42 How to track your calorie and macro INTAKE throughout the day Get Sam's water tumbler. Get Sam's lip balm. Get Sam's food scale. Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Resources for this episode can be found here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 14m 08s | ||||||
| 11/16/25 | 50. How to Glow Up Your Mind, Body, and Soul This Winter | In this episode, Sam walks in crying but leaves laughing—and that's on having an hour of bestie time with you guys! As the temps start to drop, we start to glow down...we're pasty, dry, sick, dull, and things just feel STUCK and BLOCKED and STAGNANT. But that's not who we are. We're hot girls, and we deserve to look and feel that way all year round! So Sam shares 7 steps to glow up your bod, 6 steps to glow up your mind, and 6 steps to glow up your soul this winter. Listen to this episode if you want to spend winter leveling up, but you don't know where to start. The time will pass either way—might as well use it! Key moments: 02:00 Chatty life updates - missed u besties <3 06:19 The tea about glowing up 12:18 How to glow up your body 12:20 Step 1…everyone should do this TODAY 14:23 Step 2…same vibe but more fun lol 15:40 High vs. low maintenance and an 80/20 lifestyle 17:03 Step 3…do this minimum once per week 18:27 Step 4…Sam reveals her secret pro tips for self-tanning (she’s been gatekeeping this for years lol) 21:29 Step 5…Sam’s #1 favorite glow-up workout plan 24:49 Step 6…this tip could (and probably will) change your life 26:54 Step 7…the perfect formula for your closet cleanout 31:12 How to glow up your mind 31:37 Step 1…how to read to get smarter instead of just for entertainment 35:56 Some of Sam’s latest book recs!!! 38:54 Step 2…how to stay up to date with current events (hot girl methodology!) 40:37 Step 3…a slightly more passive way to glow up your mind lol (easy “on ramp” to being smart) 41:55 Step 4…this one should be a no-brainer TBH 42:41 Step 5…how to exercise your brain on a daily basis (in an actually fun way) 43:17 Step 6…seek out learning opportunities (and an awesome idea on how to do it) 45:15 How to glow up your soul 45:26 Step 1…Sam started doing this a few months ago and it changed her life 46:07 Step 2…journal prompts for glowing up 47:23 Step 3…if you only take one thing away from this episode, TAKE THIS 48:37 How to take inventory of (and evaluate) your relationships 49:09 Step 4…how to find and join a community 50:18 Step 5…Sam’s boyfriend’s mantra, which is literally life-changing lol 51:39 Ways to volunteer that aren’t “typical” 53:00 Step 6…GTFO (literally lol) Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 00m 56s | ||||||
| 11/9/25 | 49. Navigating Complicated Family Relationships Ahead of the Holidays | In this episode, Sam sits down with Ashley Oerman, author of Motherf*cked, to talk about navigating unhealthy, complicated, and even estranged family relationships. They discuss Ashley's relationship with her mom, which has been difficult for as long as she can remember, and dig into some studies, interviews with mental health professionals, and psychological theories (ever heard of secure vs. insecure attachment?). If you can relate to anything in this episode, the bottom line is a three-parter: 1. It's not your fault. 2. You're not alone. 3. You can heal. Listen to this episode if you have a fucked up relationship (relative, friend, or even sometimes partner), and you want to feel seen or find healing. Key moments: 04:20 What a dysfunctional relationship with your mom might look like (Ashley’s personal experience) 07:35 The #1 way it manifested in her adult life 13:11 Realizing her social anxiety and perfectionism were related to her mom 14:36 Resisting (and ultimately accepting) the idea that it was root-cause trauma 15:29 What inspired her to write the book 18:40 How your primary caregiver relationship influences you throughout your life 19:15 Attachment styles and their root causes in parent-child relationships 22:06 Does everything go back to childhood trauma? (Spoiler: Not necessarily!) 22:56 Secure vs. insecure attachment styles 26:26 Insecure attachment in childhood affects your family relationships MORE than your romantic ones 27:08 How our parents can set us up for success vs. screw us up 30:03 Studies that show how our parents continue to influence us as we grow up 30:35 Your closest relationship doesn’t mean it’s your healthiest 31:40 Expectations in messed up parent-child relationships 33:56 Different types of fucked up relationships you could have with your parents/primary caregivers 37:24 You can be close with your parent and it’s still not healthy…ever heard of enmeshment? 38:47 Having empathy for your parent vs. making excuses for them 42:30 What can you do within yourself to navigate these relationships? 43:21 Radical acceptance of these relationships 43:58 How, exactly, to grieve these relationships (even if the other person is still alive) 45:20 How to set boundaries if you suck at setting boundaries 47:32 How do you decide whether low or no contact is right for you? 50:21 Navigating feelings of guilt while setting boundaries 53:05 How talking about it helps 55:11 What it’s like to be on the other side of “doing the work” Preorder Motherf*cked. Join WHOOP. Follow along: Instagram: www.instagram.com/lifeincapslock TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lifeincapslock YouTube: www.youtube.com/@lifeincapslock Threads: www.threads.net/@lifeincapslock Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 1h 06m 27s | ||||||
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