“You Say You Deserve Better… So Why Are You Still There?”

About this episode

The episode explores the concept of deserving better in relationships and the disconnect between what people say they want and their actions.

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re unpacking a word we use all the time but rarely question… deserve. What does it actually mean to deserve something? Is it earned… aligned… or just something we say we want? From dating standards and “soft life” expectations to the reality of accepting less than we claim we deserve, we get real about confidence, self-worth, and the disconnect between what we say and how we move. Plus, one of us shares a wild dating story that quickly turned into a lesson in knowing when to walk away… immediately. If you’ve ever said “I deserve better” but stayed anyway… this episode is for you. Offers From Our Sponsors: Soaking Wet- VB Health Visit soakingwet.com and use code CockTales for 10% off Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. MORE OFFERS: BROOKLYN BEDDING Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. Go to BrelloHealth.com to see if you qualify and explore their GLP-1 plans, starting at $133 per month for your first three months, plus access to…

People in this episode

Hosts: Kiki Said So, Medinah Monroe

Topics covered

• self-worth
• dating standards
• confidence
• relationships
• personal growth

Keywords

• deserve
• self-worth
• dating
• confidence
• relationships
• soft life
• personal growth

Sponsors

VB Health, Super.com, BROOKLYN BEDDING, BrelloHealth, IndaCloud

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