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The Truth About Lying in Addiction & Relationships
May 5, 2026
20m 12s
Emotional Affairs and Betrayal
Apr 21, 2026
21m 10s
Sex Addiction 101
Apr 7, 2026
26m 24s
How Recovery Rebuilds What Matters Most
Mar 24, 2026
20m 56s
The High-Functioning Addicts
Mar 10, 2026
23m 16s
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| Date | Episode | Description | Length | ||||||
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| 5/5/26 |  The Truth About Lying in Addiction & Relationships | The hosts dive into a tough but essential question: Why do addicts lie and are they even aware they’re doing it? Listen now. | 20m 12s | ||||||
| 4/21/26 | Emotional Affairs and Betrayal | The conversation will look at how emotional affairs can blur lines through texting, personal disclosure, and unmet emotional needs, especially when someone starts turning outside their primary relationship for support or intimacy. | 21m 10s | ||||||
| 4/7/26 | Sex Addiction 101 | The difference between normal sexual behavior and addiction, what red flags to look for, and how shame, secrecy, and early exposure to sexual material can shape lifelong patterns. | 26m 24s | ||||||
| 3/24/26 | How Recovery Rebuilds What Matters Most | When someone is caught in the cycle of sex addiction, it can appear that their only value is acting out in the addiction itself. But beneath the surface lies something much deeper. In this episode on Conversations on Sex Addiction and Relationships, Tim Stein, Wendy Conquest, and Dan Drake unpack what values really mean in sex addiction recovery. They explore the disconnect between what addicts say they value, like connection, honesty, and loyalty, and the behaviors that often contradict those beliefs. Together, they examine how trauma shapes values, why autonomy and intimacy can feel unsafe, and how recovery offers a path to realignment moving from “I value” to “I want to value.” Drawing from their clinical experience, the hosts discuss how humility, awareness, and action help recovering addicts not just define their values, but live them authentically. | 20m 56s | ||||||
| 3/10/26 | The High-Functioning Addicts | In this mailbag episode 'The High-Functioning Addicts' on Conversations Podcast, Wendy Conquest, Tim Stein, and Dan Drake tackle a listener’s question about “high-functioning” sex addicts. These are people who appear to have everything under control yet still find themselves in patterns of secrecy, betrayal, and shame. What happens when addiction wears the disguise of success? The Conversations Podcast hosts explore the subtle defenses that protect the illusion of control, the difference between compulsivity and authenticity, and why recovery work can be transformative even for those who don’t see themselves as “out of control.” Join the conversation as they discuss denial, ego, and the quiet chaos that lies beneath the surface of the “high-functioning” addict’s life and how true freedom may begin with humility and honest self-reflection. #transformational #addictionrecovery #selfreflection #authenticity #betrayal | 23m 16s | ||||||
| 2/10/26 | Six Things That Quietly Destroy Relationships (and How to Heal Them) | Conversations Podcast hosts - Wendy Conquest, Dan Drake, and Tim Stein sit down to name the everyday dynamics that quietly erode even committed relationships. They move beyond sex addiction to look at what harms connection in “ordinary” couples: assumptions and misattunement, the numbing presence of smartphones, the difference between healthy anger and aggression, dishonesty and lack of authenticity, and the pull of fantasy over reality. Using concepts like the “three H’s” (Do you want to be Helped, Heard, or Held?), love languages, and attunement, they offer practical scripts and questions partners can use in real time to reconnect instead of disconnect. They also explore how AI, social media, and cultural pressures make it harder to show up honestly and what it looks like to practice mindful “etiquette” so honesty doesn’t become brutality. If you’ve ever wondered why your relationship feels stuck, distant, or “off” even without obvious betrayal, this conversation offers a clear, compassionate roadmap back to emotional and physical intimacy. Subscribe to Conversations on Sex, Addiction & Relationships today to watch their latest episode! | 43m 04s | ||||||
| 1/27/26 | Broken to Brave: Tammy Gustafson's Roadmap from Betrayal to Healing | Betrayal shatters your world. Can you find a way to be brave and heal? Join Jeanne Vattuone, Wendy Conquest and Dan Drake as they speak with this week's Podcast Guest, Tammy Gustafson, on Conversations. Tammy unveils her 6-year journey writing Broken to Brave, sharing her four phases of healing after intimate betrayal. From dysregulated nervous systems to demystifying the path forward, this episode offers betrayed partners clear guideposts, honest hope, and proof that thriving is possible. Available now on all podcast platforms and YouTube. | 40m 51s | ||||||
| 1/20/26 | "You were staring at her!" - How to Tell If You Are Simply Looking Or Acting Out | When does simply noticing someone cross into objectifying them? In this thought-provoking conversation, Wendy Conquest, Jeanne Vattuone, and Dan Drake unpack the difference between normal human noticing and objectification — a key theme in recovery and relationships. They explore questions like:- Can someone in recovery notice someone’s attractiveness without crossing a boundary?- How can betrayed partners feel safe in a world full of triggers?- What role do stress, self-awareness, and truth-telling play in keeping connection alive? Join us for an honest look at human nature, recovery, and rebuilding trust. Available on all podcast platforms and subscribe on YouTube. | 19m 40s | ||||||
| 12/27/25 | Are We Connected or Addicted to Technology? | Technology has transformed nearly every part of modern life from how we work and communicate to how we seek comfort, connection, and even therapy. But as it continues to simplify daily tasks and free up time, a deeper question emerges: what do we choose to do with that time?In today’s episode, we explore the double-edged nature of technology, its potential to connect us, and its power to isolate us. They discuss how digital tools have reshaped connection, mental health, and even addiction, especially in a world that’s increasingly online.Together, the panel reflects on:- How technology shapes emotional connection and loneliness- The rise of technology and gaming addiction- How to find balance between digital tools and real human interactionThis conversation offers a thoughtful look at how to stay grounded, intentional, and human in an age of constant screens and virtual communication. | 4m 11s | ||||||
| 12/23/25 | Is Secrecy a Part of Porn Addiction? | Is secrecy a core part of pornography addiction — or just one possible sign of a deeper struggle?In today’s episode, we explore the complex intersection between porn use, shame, secrecy, and addiction. They unpack what “problematic use” really means, why some people hide their behavior while others don’t, and how early experiences and family culture can shape an individual’s understanding of sexuality and self-control.Together, the panel discusses:- Why secrecy may (or may not) signal addiction- The connection between shame, secrecy, and self-judgment- How upbringing and normalization influence behavior- What “average” porn use really means — and when it becomes harmful- How to identify the difference between use, misuse, and addictionThis conversation is for anyone seeking clarity, education, and compassion around pornography use and its psychological impact. It’s not about judgment — it’s about understanding the patterns that lead to distress, disconnection, or harm. | 5m 18s | ||||||
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| 11/22/25 | Male Betrayal Trauma: Breaking the Silence with Adam Nisenson | What happens when men are the ones betrayed by sex addiction?In today's episode, author and therapist Adam Nisenson joins the Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Tim Stein and Jeanne Vattoune to unpack a topic rarely discussed — male betrayal trauma. Through his book A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal, Adam gives voice to men who’ve been silenced, shamed, or overlooked in conversations about infidelity and healing.Together, the panel explores:- Why betrayal hits men differently and how society teaches them to hide it- The impact of shame, ego wounds, and emotional isolation- How unprocessed anger and silence can turn into long-term pain- Practical ways men can heal and reclaim their worth after betrayalJoin the conversation:Why do you think men’s pain is often dismissed when it comes to betrayal? Drop your thoughts in the comments.Learn more about Adam Nisenson’s work: A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal — available wherever books are sold.Subscribe for more real conversations about relationships, trauma, and healing.Turn on notifications so you don’t miss new weekly episodes.#BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #Relationships #TherapyTalk #AdamNisenson | 37m 50s | ||||||
| 11/18/25 | Differences between men and women betrayed partners | When betrayal strikes, it’s not just pain, it’s the kind of anger you’ve never felt before. In this episode, the panel talks about how to feel and express anger without going into rage. You’ll hear honest stories and professional insight on:- Why anger feels powerful in the moment but hollow afterward- How men often feel their anger isn’t validated- Healthy ways to express and release rage without letting it consume you- The importance of writing, processing, and releasing emotional energyShare your thoughts:Have you ever felt trapped in anger after betrayal? How did you move through it?Subscribe for more real conversations about healing, trauma, and emotional recovery.Turn on notifications to join us weekly for new episodes that go beneath the surface.#BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #AngerManagement #HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing #TherapyTalk #SexAddiction | 5m 03s | ||||||
| 11/15/25 | 5th stage of betrayal trauma anger: isolation? | Is betrayal trauma really different for men and women?Most men do not come into therapy later rather than sooner.Men feel isolated for most of the betrayal trauma experience.Women usually over-function during the BT experience especially earlier in the journey.Join the conversation:Do you think men are given the same emotional space to heal as women? Drop your thoughts below.Subscribe for more open, unfiltered discussions on healing, relationships, and emotional recovery.Turn on notifications so you don’t miss new weekly episodes.#BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #Relationships #HealingJourney #TherapyTalk #EmotionalHealing | 5m 16s | ||||||
| 11/12/25 | Physical Symptoms of Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma | Sex addiction takes its toll on the addict and the partner. Listen in for physical symptoms to know about.Subscribe for more powerful discussions on healing, relationships, and emotional recovery.Join our community for new uploads every week.#EmotionalHealing #Relationships #TherapyTalk #Anger #RecoveryJourney #MentalHealthAwareness #AddictiontoSex #BetrayalTrauma #Cheating | 5m 34s | ||||||
| 10/30/25 | Full Episode of Betrayal Trauma & Anger Explained | Processing Rage After Infidelity and Broken Trust with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck | Anger after betrayal can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even “out of character.” In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck joins Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattoune, Tim Stein and Wendy Conquest to break down the reality of betrayal trauma anger, why it shows up, how it unfolds over time, and what tools can help process it.Whether someone is facing infidelity, broken trust, or betrayal in relationships, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and practical guidance for navigating one of the most difficult emotions in healing.👉 If you’ve ever felt like your anger after betrayal makes you “crazy,” this discussion will remind you: you’re not crazy, you’re angry, and you should be. The key is learning how to process it with compassion and strength.Check out Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck's Protocol :https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xnd6B_SJdpqTcg5zsZF_OLV502MHprmC/view?usp=drive_link and her website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/Subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, sex addiction recovery, and relationship healing.#BetrayalTrauma #AngerAfterInfidelity #RelationshipHealing #TraumaRecovery #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #CouplesRecovery #InfidelityHealing #Cheating #Rage | 34m 32s | ||||||
| 10/29/25 | Betrayal Trauma Anger: Explanation and Progression of Anger and Rage for Betrayed Partners | When betrayal is discovered, anger can feel overwhelming. In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we sit down with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck to explore how betrayal trauma anger shows up both immediately and over time.Dr. Hollenbeck explains why betrayed partners often experience anger in waves as more consequences and realizations surface, not only at discovery, but months or even years later. This conversation validates the deep emotional impact betrayal has on both sides of the relationship and offers tools for navigating anger without shame.👉 If someone is a betrayed partner, a betrayer, or supporting others through betrayal trauma, this episode will give them clarity, hope, and strategies to move forward.Check out Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck's Protocol :https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xnd6B_SJdpqTcg5zsZF_OLV502MHprmC/view?usp=drive_link and her website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/#BetrayalTrauma #AngerRecovery #RelationshipHealing #SexAddictionRecovery #EmotionalHealing #TraumaAwareness #HealingTogether #CouplesHealing | 5m 13s | ||||||
| 10/28/25 | Betrayal Trauma | Understanding Anger, Healing & Trust with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck | In this upcoming episode of Conversations on Sex Addiction and Relationships, the team explores how betrayal trauma extends beyond sexual infidelity with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck.While sexual betrayal is often the most visible form of hurt, many partners experience deep wounds from emotional betrayal, financial secrecy, or broken trust from friends, family, and community members.Crystal shares insights from her research and introduces the CALMING Model, a seven-phase approach to processing anger and navigating the chaos of betrayal. Wondering why betrayal hurts so deeply? This conversation explains why and offers compassion, clarity, and practical tools for moving forward.👉 What betrayal feels hardest to heal from: emotional, sexual, or financial? Share your thoughts in the comments below.Check out Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck's Protocol :https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xnd6B_SJdpqTcg5zsZF_OLV502MHprmC/view?usp=drive_link and her website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/ | 5m 20s | ||||||
| 10/27/25 | Woman Wants to Have Sex, Sex Addict Husband Won't! | In this episode of Conversations on Sex Addiction and Relationships: Partner Wants to Have Sex and Sex Addict Doesn'tWe explore the painful dynamics of betrayal trauma, intimacy anorexia, avoidance, childhood wounds, entitlement, and fear that often lie at the heart of these behaviors.👉 Whether you are navigating betrayal, supporting someone in recovery, or simply curious about intimacy dynamics, this discussion provides valuable insights into the complexity of sex addiction, emotional avoidance, and relationship repair.Have a question for the team? Email: conversations.sar@gmail.com | 20m 35s | ||||||
| 10/25/25 | Healing After Sex Addiction Betrayal: Navigating Sex Addiction in Relationships - Mail Bag | In this episode, we explore the complex impact of sex addiction on relationships, focusing on the grief, loss, and emotional struggles faced by betrayed partners. Unlike addictions to substances like alcohol or drugs, sexual betrayal carries unique challenges, affecting both the addict and their partner on deeply personal levels.We discuss:Understanding the addict’s unconscious drives and needsThe partner’s journey through grief, anger, and healingHow empathy and deconstructing behavior can aid recoveryResources like Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) and sexual anorexia support groupsThe delicate process of navigating emotional and sexual boundaries in a relationshipIf you or someone you know is dealing with betrayal trauma, sex addiction, or sexual anorexia, this discussion offers guidance, resources, and insights to begin the healing process.💬 Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below — your story may help someone else on their healing journey. | 4m 04s | ||||||
| 10/21/25 | Why Some Sex Addicts Withhold Sex: Understanding Intimacy Anorexia & Betrayal in Marriage | In this episode, we dive into a listener question about a sex addict who withholds intimacy while engaging sexually with others. Many partners struggle with betrayal, confusion, and grief when their spouse avoids connection at home but seeks it elsewhere.We explore the concept of intimacy anorexia, why addicts withdraw sexually, and what it might mean for the future of a marriage. Our discussion covers:Recognizing patterns of sexual avoidance and betrayalUnderstanding the emotional impact on the betrayed partnerHow to approach healing and communication in complex relationshipsThe psychology behind why some partners “play married” instead of fully engagingIf you’ve ever felt sexless in your marriage, betrayed, or just confused about your partner’s behavior, this conversation is for you.💡 Take action: If this topic resonates, subscribe for more discussions on marriage, intimacy, and relationship healing. Share your thoughts in the comments—your story may help someone else feel seen. | 4m 58s | ||||||
| 10/18/25 | Why People Seek Emotional Validation Outside Their Relationships | Understanding Fear & Avoidance Pattern | In this episode, the Conversations team explore why some individuals seek emotional or physical validation outside their intimate relationships. Often, it’s not about sex but about fear, trauma, or unmet emotional needs in the primary relationship. They discuss how past experiences, including childhood trauma and early relationship patterns, can create unconscious behaviors that affect trust and intimacy in adult relationships.Viewers will learn about:How fear and avoidance shape relationship behaviorsThe role of childhood experiences in adult connection patternsEmotional vs. physical fulfillment in relationshipsCommon patterns when relationships become more intimate or face life transitions, like having a first childUnderstanding these patterns can help individuals navigate relationships more consciously, foster deeper connections, and address unresolved fears and trauma.💬 Join the conversation: What patterns have you noticed in relationships around trust and connection? | 5m 35s | ||||||
| 9/30/25 | Betrayal Trauma from Cheating: Why “Just Move On” Hurts Healing | What happens when a betrayed partner feels invalidated, not only by the one who hurt them, but also by a professional who should be offering support? In this conversation, experts discuss how the way a question is worded can shift the entire meaning, and how outdated therapeutic approaches may unintentionally cause harm.The discussion also highlights the painful reality for betrayed partners who often feel they must advocate for themselves—not just in the relationship, but even with the therapist.Key insights covered in this video:- Why wording and energy behind questions matter in recovery discussions- How betrayal trauma can be dismissed or minimized by outdated advice- The impact of therapists who are not trained in betrayal trauma modalities- Why betrayed partners often feel forced to advocate for themselves- How accountability, empathy, and updated research can change the healing processHealing from betrayal and addiction recovery requires more than surface-level advice. Both individuals deserve accurate support, empathy, and a pathway to rebuilding trust.Watch now to learn how professionals, partners, and those in recovery can work toward healthier, research-backed healing.#BetrayalTrauma #AddictionRecovery #RelationshipHealing #TraumaInformedCare #TherapistTraining #HealingJourney #AccountabilityInRecovery #TraumaHealing | 5m 03s | ||||||
| 9/27/25 | Is Betrayal Trauma Detrimental to an Addict’s Recovery? | What happens when a betrayed partner is told that their trauma is detrimental to an addict’s recovery?In this discussion, we unpack why this perspective is outdated, harmful, and rooted in misunderstanding.We explore the difference between sobriety and true recovery, how shame resiliency plays a role, and why betrayal trauma responses are valid—not intentional attempts to sabotage healing. Recovery requires accountability, empathy, and facing reality, not avoidance.Key insights in this video:- Why betrayal trauma is not detrimental, but a natural trauma response- The difference between recovery vs. sobriety in addiction healing- How shame resiliency supports accountability and growth- Why outdated therapeutic advice can harm both the addict and the betrayed partner- The importance of seeing trauma responses as unintentional, not blame-worthyHealing is not about avoiding the mirror that a partner holds up—it’s about learning to face it, accept responsibility, and build resilience. Both individuals deserve support and accurate, trauma-informed guidance to move toward real recovery.#BetrayalTrauma #AddictionRecovery #ShameResilience #TraumaHealing #SobrietyVsRecovery #RelationshipHealing #AccountabilityInRecovery #HealingJourney | 5m 03s | ||||||
| 9/23/25 | Christian Partners of Sex Addicts; Tabitha Westbrook on Embodied Recovery | In this episode, Tabitha Westbrook talks and sexual abuse within the church, childhood and with being married to a sex addict. She weaves neuroscience, embodiment, and story into her work with survivors of betrayal trauma and sexual harm. Tabitha shares why understanding your nervous system, connecting with your body, and reclaiming your voice are essential steps in the healing journey.This episode explores:- How trauma lives in the nervous system- The power of naming your story- Reclaiming pleasure and body connection after betrayalThis conversation is especially powerful for survivors of betrayal trauma, therapists seeking integrative models, and anyone longing to feel safe in their body again.#TraumaHealing #NeuroscienceOfTrauma #BetrayalTrauma #TabithaWestbrook #StoryAndHealing #SomaticTherapy #ReligiousTrauma #ChristianTherapist #WomenHealing #EmbodiedHealing | 37m 46s | ||||||
| 9/20/25 | Healing After Trauma: Embracing Self-Compassion and Identity with Tabitha Westbrook | How do you begin healing from trauma especially when self-hatred feels like second nature?In this honest and hopeful episode, Dan Drake, Tim Stein, Jeannie Vattoune and guest Tabitha Westbrook speak directly to survivors at the beginning of their healing journey. They explore what it means to show kindness to yourself, how deeply harmful theology can distort your self-worth, and how to take small, meaningful steps toward believing you are lovable and valuable, whether you're faith-based or not.Topics include:- How trauma teaches self-abuse—and how to challenge it- The importance of kindness and self-compassion early in recovery- Using affirmations and "opposite action" from DBT to shift how you feel- Why distorted theology can damage identity, and how to reclaim truth- The power of body posture and presence in reinforcing your worth- Encouragement for survivors wrestling with faith, shame, and healingThis is one of the most grounding, relatable episodes for anyone beginning the work of trauma recovery and rebuilding their sense of self.#TraumaHealing #SelfCompassion #TabithaWestbrook #SexualTraumaRecovery #FaithAndHealing #DBT #OppositeAction #ChristianTherapist #ReligiousTrauma #IdentityHealing | 5m 10s | ||||||
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3 placements across 3 markets.