Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage

This special edition encourages moms on their journey of motherhood, and it's hosted by Whitney Lowe and Erin Smalley. We're covering why becoming a mom is a gift, finding your identity in Christ, hope for tired moms, and ways to celebrate Mother's Day!   Praying The Scriptures For Your Children: Discover How To Pray God's Purpose For Their Lives   Listen to the Legacy of Love podcast series celebrating Mother's Day   Want to get involved in our social media challenge for Mother's Day?   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

We're continuing our conversation on selfless sex with Pastor Doug Hanna, who shares his encouragement to pursue sexual satisfaction. He goes into how self-forgetful sex is a lifestyle, an attitude, its patient, and it seeks pleasure. Greg and Erin also have an exercise with foods around the world and date nights. We also answer a listener question about a spouse's lies and affairs.   Sex and Self-Forgetfulness   Use the Marriage Assessment Tool! It's free!   Check Out the Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool!   Look Into Hope Restored Marriage Intensive   Healing Separation Article   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley welcome guests Ashley Durand and Kristen Roush authors of Mothering on Empty. We'll talk about the pressures that can leave spouses depleted, and how joy, identity in Christ, and an eternal perspective anchor marriage without idolizing it. We'll give practical tips for husbands of exhausted wives: empathy over fixing, initiative without being asked, avoiding competitions over tiredness, setting social media boundaries, and addressing the “mental load” so no one feels alone.   Mothering On Empty   Use the Marriage Assessment Tool! It's free!   Check Out the Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool!   Here's Information on Hope Restored   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Number - 1-800-273-TALK (8255)   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Pastor Dan Seaborn returns for more great conversation on reflection in marriage. When was the last time you asked yourself, "What caused me to do that?" when you responded to your spouse in a not-so-productive way? Greg and Erin also have an exercise to build connection that will open up your spouse's inner world, and we answer a listener question about how often to have sex in a healthy marriage.   The Necessary Nine   Take the Marriage Assessment Tool   Learn More About The Hope Restored Marriage Intensive   Take The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Contact the show!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of making marriages strong enough to withstand life's challenges. We're bringing back one of our best friends, Dr. Gary Thomas, who talks about his book 'Making Your Marriage a Fortress.' The conversation covers how sin, temptations, and life trials can erode a relationship. We also discuss the significance of spiritual growth, community, and emotional safety in marriages. We'll also answer a listener's question about handling life after divorce and provide practical advice on creating a couples' vision board to achieve future goals together.   Making Your Marriage A Fortress   Hope Restored   Article: How To Overcome Unrealistic Expectations in Marriage   Take the FREE Reactive Cycle Assessment   Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or Email   Call our Counseling Line   Here's insight on a Healing Separation   Contact the show!   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

We're doing a Question/Answer Show again because you are part of our community—addressing real questions, exploring fresh perspectives, and continuing the dialogue together! Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley share on a variety of marital challenges. From persuading a husband to give family trips another chance to discussing sensitive issues like pornography in marriage, emphasizing boundaries and seeking professional help. Keep sending your questions to us. It's our honor to help you in every way possible!   Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Book   Learn More About Pornography Help From Pure Desire   Resources to Help a Pornography Addiction   Check Out The Marriage Assessment Tool   Check Out The Reactive Cycle Assessment Tool   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

We continue the conversation with Kait and JJ Tomlin, but we dive deeper into understanding ways to be more intimate with our spouse. Calling out our feelings, checking ourselves, and seeking God's truth as you walk through tough times. They delve into the surprises and challenges they faced and the importance of pre-engagement and premarital counseling. JJ shares his journey of overcoming resentment and selfishness, highlighting the impact of ownership and repentance on their marriage. The Tomlins speak candidly about their sex life, illustrating the importance of realistic expectations, too. We also address a listener's question about dealing with pain, mental health issues, and a perceived lack of support from her spouse.   Take The FREE Marriage Assessment   See Where You Are In The Reactive Cycle   Click Here For More Information About Marriage Resources   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Get ready for a GREAT conversation with Micah E. Davis, author of the book Three Strikes, You're Forgiven! He delves into the profound concept of forgiveness, emphasizing it as a deliberate decision rather than merely a feeling. Greg and Erin share strategies for beginning the forgiveness process, as well as God's grace in the journey as they share the story of someone close to their family that they had to forgive, too.   Three Strikes, You're Forgiven   Forgiveness In The Family Article   Hope Restored   Take Our Free Marriage Assessment Tool   Article: Dealing With Your Child's Divorce   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of couples working together on their goals, which research shows leads to higher levels of happiness and progress. We discuss the Marriage Champions program that you can get involved in to coach and support other couples. Our guests are the leaders of Marriage Team, Matthew Zoller and Alan & Autumn Ray. They share key coaching techniques involving communication skills, handling anger, resolving conflict, and planning for relapses. We also will share some practical exercises for couples to evaluate their relationship, appreciate each other, and plan for the future. Plus we answer a listener question what to do when your spouse walks away from their faith.   Learn More About Marriage Champions   Take Our FREE Marriage Assessment   Take the Free Reactive Cycle Assessement   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   Suicide Prevention Hotline   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Whether you're newlywed or if you've been married for years, you may have unspoken and sometimes unrealistic expectations that can lead to disappointment, conflict, and resentment. On this episode, Greg and Erin help couples develop better conflict resolution techniques such as pausing during escalated arguments, leaning in during moments of conflict, and utilizing empathy in apologies with Christian counselors Chris and Jamie Bailey. They underscore the importance of mutual support, adjustment to changing life circumstances, and maintaining fun and friendship throughout marriage. We also have a tool to help you set boundaries in your marriage, and we answer a listener question about how to encourage a husband to lead his family.   Newlywed Couple's Devotional   12 Pieces of Advice I'd Tell Newlywed Me   5 Traditional Marriage Vows: What They Mean & Why They're Still Important   Contact the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

We're continuing our conversation with Dr. Juli Slattery on how God designed sex and sexuality. We're going to discuss the detrimental effects of pornography on both individuals and marriages, as well as highlight the importance of addressing sexual issues through a Christ-centered identity and real, accountable recovery programs. Have you ever thought about how Christians need to differentiate discussions about sexual ethics based on people's beliefs about God and creation? If you're wanting healthier intimacy in marriage and a deeper spiritual relationship; if you're confused about your sexual identity, or know someone who is, listen to this episode and let us know your thoughts.   Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes Everything   Help For A Pornography Addiction   Gen Z's Marriage Misunderstanding Article   Biblical View on Transgender Identity: A Primer - Focus on the Family   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley delve into the critical issue of supporting friends in abusive or oppressive marriages with Darby Strickland, an expert counselor and author. Darby explains an insightful definition of abuse as 'oppression,' framing it as the antithesis of God's design for marriage. The discussion addresses the common mistakes helpers make, identifies the patterns of abuse, and offers practical advice for those who may be abusing subconsciously.   Is It Abuse?   Article: What You Need To Know About Domestic Violence and Abuse   Domestic Abuse Hotline 800-799-7233 - Text BEGIN to 88788   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   Send us your email or voice mail here!   Send Us A Review!   Support the show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.