DadSense with Subhasis Mishra

What do senior executives regret most when they look back on fatherhood? In this episode of Dadsense, we sit down with Roman Gaida, Chief Executive Officer of the International Engineering Group and author of Working Dad, to unpack the regret that comes up again and again among ambitious fathers: running out of time before their kids turn 12.Roman started out as a machine tool operator on the shop floor and worked his way up to the executive board, all while raising twin boys in Germany. He opens up about flying to Tokyo for a board meeting two weeks after his twins were born, the lie ambitious men tell themselves about "quality over quantity" time, and a brain research study from the Gonda Research Institute that shows time spent with kids physically changes how present a parent feels.In this conversation, we cover:- The biggest lie ambitious fathers tell themselves about work and family- Why "quality time" without quantity doesn't hold up, backed by science- A gut-punch story about a worker who sees his family for one week a year- What senior executives regret most once their kids turn 16 or 17- The daily habits Roman swears by: no alcohol, no TV, and a 15-minute walk to school- Why being present is harder than being perfect, and the only thing that fixes itRoman's book, Working Dad, releases in India on June 21st, International Father's Day.If you're a father trying to build a career without losing your kids' childhood, this one's for you.Follow us on Socials : Dadsense : https://www.instagram.com/dadsensepod/#dadsense #dadsense #WorkingDad #RomanGaida #Fatherhood #WorkLifeBalance #ParentingPodcast #FathersDay

In this insightful episode, Paul Sullivan, founder of Company of Dads and former New York Times journalist, joins the host to redefine what it means to be an involved father. He shares his personal journey as a "lead dad"—a term he coined for dads who actively manage caregiving while maintaining professional lives. Together, they unpack the cultural stereotypes around fatherhood, the pandemic's unexpected impact on parenting roles, and how workplaces can better support engaged dads. Filled with personal stories and practical advice, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the evolving landscape of modern fatherhood.00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:44 Discovering Common Ground in Fatherhood03:20 Defining the Lead Dad04:37 Paul’s Personal Journey05:45 Balancing Career and Fatherhood07:51 The Impact of COVID-1911:20 Launching the Company of Dads12:59 A Shared Journey in Fatherhood18:35 Changing Perceptions of Masculinity24:38 The Future of Fatherhood32:10 Management Evolution and Challenges33:14 Parenting Roles and Emotional Connection34:38 Handling Children’s Anxiety37:19 Balancing Work and Family42:53 Encouraging Dads to Get Involved47:34 Changing Corporate Culture for Dads54:48 Final Thoughts and Resources

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with two remarkable dads who share their unique journey of raising four children, including two furry babies. They discuss the dynamics of their family life, the importance of having a support system, and breaking stereotypes associated with fathering roles in society. Highlighting their commitment to love and responsibility, they offer valuable insights for all parents on maintaining a strong relationship while embracing the joys and challenges of parenthood. Join us as we celebrate their story and learn how they navigate the complexities of being same-sex parents in a traditional society.Host: Subhasis MishtaGuests: Sougatu Basu & Mayank Kalra00:00 Introduction to Our Family00:30 The Journey to Parenthood03:17 Support from Family and Friends05:57 Parenting Challenges and Joys23:41 Balancing Relationship and Parenthood28:34 Navigating Society's Perceptions37:06 A Heartwarming Message from Karnataka38:15 Navigating Family Dynamics with Kids40:03 Honesty and Openness in Parenting41:02 Positive Experiences and Acceptance48:01 Challenging Gender Stereotypes in Parenting01:02:32 Intersectionality and Privilege01:11:29 Advice for Aspiring Gay Parents01:15:49 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

In this episode of DadSense, we are thrilled to welcome Mansi as the first mom to join the dadsense podcast. Mansi brings a fresh and insightful perspective to parenting, highlighting the essential role of a mother’s voice in the journey of raising children. The conversation explores how childhood experiences shape who we become as adults, the importance of a balanced partnership in parenting, and the ever-evolving challenges faced by parents today.From sharing heartfelt childhood memories to examining the dynamics of modern parenthood, this episode offers valuable takeaways for both moms and dads. Mansi also opens up about her personal experiences and professional insights in the parenting space, emphasizing the value of conscious parenting, shared responsibilities, and fostering open communication with children. Don’t miss this engaging discussion that sheds light on the joys, complexities, and growth that come with being a parent.Chapters00:00 Introduction 03:43 Discussing Childhood and Upbringing10:17 Journey to Parenthood14:54 Balancing Parenting and Career23:08 Creating a Parenting Community30:59 Evolution of Parenting44:14 Respect and Ego in Parenting44:57 The Importance of Apologizing45:32 Repairing Relationships with Children48:36 Balancing Fun and Discipline49:01 Gender and Parenting Roles49:56 Learning from Each Other54:01 Role Modeling and Setting Boundaries01:05:11 Navigating Difficult Conversations01:16:52 Handling Criticism and Learning01:20:36 Final Thoughts

In this episode, we delve into the importance of Emotional Intelligence (EI) in children and its pivotal role in modern parenting. Varun shares insightful strategies for nurturing EI through storytelling, play, and intentional interactions. We explore the unique challenges fathers face, from overcoming societal expectations about masculinity to expressing emotions and building deeper connections with their children. The discussion highlights how traditional education often overlooks emotional and social skills and how parents can fill this gap to prepare their kids for the real world. We also touch on the cultural shift from communal child-rearing to nuclear parenting, the loneliness many men face today, and how building supportive communities can create lasting change. With practical advice on managing meltdowns, fostering resilience, and breaking shame-driven societal norms, this episode offers a thoughtful perspective on raising confident, emotionally aware children while navigating the evolving dynamics of parenthood.Chapters:00:00 Intro03:43 How Did You Realise the Importance of EI in Children?08:08 How to Describe Emotional Intelligence?17:00 Varun's Approach to Managing Meltdowns with His Kids26:08 Cultural Differences in Parenting Styles29:37 Emotional Expression from a Father’s Perspective37:15 The Bio-Psycho-Social Method of Understanding Parenting46:00 Impact of Social Media on Parenting and Children48:26 Men’s Emotional Health and Its Challenges55:11 The Role of Shame and Its Impact on Men and Women01:04:08 Journaling: A Tool for Emotional Clarity01:09:57 Conclusion

Subhasis, the host of Dadsense opens up about his transformative journey into fatherhood, inspired by his own childhood experience, becoming a father away from homeland and 'on the job' learnings from fatherhood. He highlights the joy, challenges, and profound emotional discoveries that come from candid dialogues with other dads on his show. The episode delves into raw, unscripted moments, including guest revelations about childhood abuse and family struggles with alcoholism, underscoring the significant emotional impact fathers have on their children. Discussions include the vital role fathers play, raising teenagers, and achieving work-life harmony. Subhasis shares personal rituals and advice for new dads, emphasizing emotional presence, partner support during pregnancy, self-care, and the importance of a community in parenting. The episode ends with a call for kindness and recognition of the imperfect beauty of the parenting journey.Chapters:01:27 Introduction and Purpose of the Show03:00 Personal Parenting Journey05:20 The Joys and Reflections of Fatherhood08:26 Professional Background09:04 Memorable Guest Experiences12:24 Sabbatical and Personal Growth14:39 Diverse Range of Guests16:24 Future Guests and Podcast Vision17:40 One-Liner Description of Dadsense18:09 When is the Right Time to Have Children19:03 The Impact of Fathers on Their Children21:17 Bonding with Teenage Children23:26 Work-Life Balance Myth or Reality25:32 Resources for Dads27:13 My Parenting Style29:24 Advice for Soon-to-Be Dads31:57 Final Thoughts and GratitudeSubhashish, fatherhood journey, distant father, HR career, joys of fatherhood, challenges of parenting, emotional discovery, candid dialogues, guest revelations, childhood abuse, family struggles, alcoholism, emotional impact, father-child relationship, teenage parenting, work-life balance, fatherhood challenges, personal rituals, new dads advice, emotional presence, partner support, pregnancy support, self-care, parenting community, parenting journey, raw moments, unscripted conversations, parenting role, teenage challenges, parenthood harmony, imperfect beauty, parenting kindness, emotional vulnerability, fatherhood advice, parenting show, parenting podcast, parenthood insights, transformative fatherhood, personal growth, parenting rituals

Linkedin: In this episode of Dadsense, Bryan Paul, Fine, an international school teacher, and father of two sons, reflects on his journey from childhood to fatherhood, sharing how his diverse multicultural global experiences shaped his approach to being a dad. Born in Nashville, New Hampshire, USA, he discusses growing up with a Dad who came from a Holocaust Survivor family —a bond that became even more meaningful after he became a father himself. He shares the story of meeting his future wife in Hawaii, getting married and being parents in Shanghai and living across Asia, including Bangalore India where he and his family live now. Bryan touches on the challenging yet fulfilling journey of parenting a son diagnosed with ADHD at an early stage. He beautifully interprets the virtues of masculinity and how it can be channeled for noble causes , how he and his wife are raising their two boys with learning inspired from Asian cultures In this episode, Bryan traverses a diverse range of topics and takes a candid look at fatherhood, masculinity, and the lasting impact of our actions on our childrenChapters0:00 Introductions01:55 Welcome to DadSense02:59 Early Childhood Memories05:04 Moving and Family Dynamics10:33 Inspiration from Family History13:12 Journey to Teaching and Meeting Lindsay17:27 Becoming Parents in Shanghai25:49 Navigating ADHD and Parenting Challenges31:37 Teaching Stoic Principles to Children35:05 Understanding Adolescent Anger35:44 Channeling Aggression Constructively36:29 The Capable Man: Strength and Goodness38:30 Raising Boys vs. Girls39:41 Parenting Dynamics and Patterns42:16 Expressing Emotions and Childhood Reflections44:38 The Value of Attention in Parenting49:15 Love Languages and Relationship Dynamics52:37 Sacrifice and Personal Growth01:00:15 Teaching Boys in Today's World01:04:33 Practical Tips and RecommendationsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsensepod/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/dadsensepod