"That's Going to End Up On Your Hips"

About this episode

This episode discusses the impact of body-shaming comments on children and how parents can help build their confidence.

A stranger in a bakery made one comment about a young girl’s body — and it sparked a conversation every parent needs to hear. When should we speak up? When should we walk away? And how do we help our kids build confidence in a world where careless comments about appearance are still far too common? In this powerful episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the viral bakery confrontation that divided the internet, explore the lasting impact of body-shaming comments, and share practical ways parents can help children become resilient, self-aware, and emotionally strong. They also dive into healthy masculinity, raising respectful boys, and the simple lesson every child should learn about commenting on other people’s bodies. KEY POINTS: Why comments about kids’ bodies can leave lasting emotional scars The difference between reacting publicly and protecting your peace How to teach children resilience without dismissing their feelings The “30-second rule” for commenting on appearance What healthy masculinity really looks like How to help daughters identify respectful relationships and red flags Using difficult moments as powerful teaching opportunities QUOTE…

People in this episode

Host: Dr Justin Coulson

Guest: Kylie

Topics covered

• body image
• parenting
• resilience
• healthy masculinity
• body shaming
• emotional strength

Keywords

• body image
• parenting
• resilience
• body shaming
• healthy masculinity
• emotional strength
• confidence

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Happy Families podcast, News.com.au

Books & works: Boys: Building Strong Young Men From the Inside Out

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