Book Series: Chapter 3- Neo-Exiles, Abandonment Anxiety and Ways Our Parts Can Sabotage Relationships

About this episode

In this episode, Raquel DeLuccia discusses Neo-exiles and their impact on relationships, drawing from Chapter 3 of Dr. Richard Schwartz's book.

Send a text Welcome to Episode 3 of my Book Series on "You Are the One You've Been Waiting For" by Dr. Richard Schwartz. Make sure to catch up on episodes 1 & 2 first! This is Part 1 of Chapter 3- Courageous Love & Doomed Relationships. In this episode I cover: What are Neo-exiles? Identifying parts of us that become exiled because they are not acceptable to our partner; Reflecting on how we have done the same to our partners The consequences of neo-exiles in relationships&nbs...

People in this episode

Host: Raquel DeLuccia

Topics covered

• Neo-exiles
• Abandonment Anxiety
• Courageous Love
• Doomed Relationships
• Relationship Dynamics

Keywords

• Neo-exiles
• Abandonment Anxiety
• Courageous Love
• Relationships
• Self-Improvement

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: You Are the One You've Been Waiting For

More episodes of Feel and Find Out

• Book Review Series- Chapter 2-What are exiles and why are they so powerful? · November 10, 2025 · 30 min
• Book Review Series- You Are The One You've Been Waiting For: Intro & Chapter 1 · October 30, 2025 · 23 min
• Your Past is Present in Your Relationships: Trauma, Attachment & Healing with Elaine Evans, LPC · May 16, 2025 · 42 min
• ENCORE- The MOST downloaded episode: Are You Emotionally Mature? · April 11, 2025 · 27 min
• What is your Emotional Capacity? · April 3, 2025 · 25 min
• The top 3 conversations that couples struggle with · February 28, 2025 · 18 min