Echoes Of Her - Adell Coleman On Grieving Her Mother & Finding Community

About this episode

Adell Coleman shares her experience of grieving her mother and finding community support after loss.

In this episode of Grief Out Loud, we talk with Adell Coleman about her mother who was killed when Adell was just 24 years old. Adell reflects on the closeness of their relationship and how her mom's death radically shifted her sense of safety in the world. She shares how the circumstances around her mother's death, including being the person who found her, has made it difficult to remember how her mom lived, without reliving how she died. Adell also talks about what it's been like raising two daughters who never met their grandmother, but somehow carry her presence in surprising and meaningful ways. She reflects on anniversaries 14 years later, the exhaustion of grief, and how becoming the family "grief expert" interrupted her capacity to engage with her own grief. The conversation closes with Adell describing how community, therapy, boundaries, and creative work - including her documentary and podcast, Echoes of Her: To Mom With Love - have helped her find language, connection, and space for her grief. We discuss Losing a mother in young adulthood and feeling "not ready" to be an adult How violent death and trauma impact grief and memory The challenge of accessing good memories…

People in this episode

Host: Grief Out Loud

Guest: Adell Coleman

Topics covered

• grief
• loss of a parent
• community support
• parenting while grieving
• trauma and memory
• mental health

Keywords

• grief
• loss
• mother
• community
• parenting
• trauma
• memory
• anniversaries
• mental health

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: The Dougy Center

Books & works: Echoes of Her: To Mom With Love

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