Hooked On Pleasure

For those who already know in their gut that something isn’t right... and for the ones who keep explaining it away, hoping it will change.In this episode, we talk about:• the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs it’s time to leave• why staying often costs more than leaving• what actually opens up after a breakup; relief, clarity, desire, self-trust, exploration, pleasure. • our personal experiences + the incredible transformations we’ve witnessed in clients on the other side of breakups.This is about choosing yourself when your body has been saying enough for a while, trusting that what's meant for you is on the other side of a hard decision.Disclaimer: This episode is for situations where communication has been attempted and both partners are capable of growth. Relationship change requires deep inner work, not just changing partners.Follow us on instagram Vanessa: Somatic Sexologist that helps you experience more pleasure & deeper connections through her signature Golden Pleasure Method;https://www.instagram.com/hookedonpleasure/?hl=enEffy: Holistic Life Coach that helps you create a life that you're OBSESSED with! https://www.instagram.com/empoweredwitheffy/?hl=en

Effy joins me to talk about FEASTThe 4 day FREE activation starting 14th July It was born on our recent holiday in Bali together where we were crying with laughter talking about our past experiences of relationships. Times of starving in our connections, begging for the bare minimum & not feeling worthy of more. Dm me “FEAST” on instagram @hookedonpleasure to join the 4 day activation starting 14th July.You will learn to raise your standards, be open to receiving without guilt and become magnetic to aligned connections!

In this episode, Katy Bampton & I talk about the different ways to communicate and navigate your sexual desires. In particular, for women who are currently in a monogamous heterosexual relationship. We normalize attraction to people outside of your relationship and discuss how to figure out exactly what you are wanting to experience before you have the conversation with your partner. We explore how to communicate to your partner your sexual desires and ways to make it fun for everyone involved. We go on to discuss how to have the best experience possible with your first threesome, where to find a person that would be a great fit and keep the playfulness and novelty of it all while remaining connected to yourself.