Inner Confidence Podcast

Apply to the Inner Confidence Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community_________________________________A girl told one of my guys she doesn't kiss on the first date. Twenty minutes later she was all over him in the elevator. She wasn't lying. She was telling him how she wants to be seen, not the rules for the night, and if he'd taken her literally he would have gone home with a hug and a "no chemistry."This one is for guys who are getting dates and then losing them because they take everything she says literally. Real client stories: the law student who said "you're 10 years older, I'm probably not interested" and kissed him goodnight two hours later, "just as friends," the boyfriend line, what "I'm terrified" means in a text, and why the ick is way overblown.It works both ways too. Watching what she does means listening when her body says no. If she pulls away, you back off, and when she says no, you stop. The guy who reads her is the least pushy guy in the room.I finish with the 5-step method: let rule-sounding lines pass, yes-and the comments meant to rattle you, trust her body and her time, stop spiraling over single moments, and lead._________________________________Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

Ever seen a woman you wanted to talk to, felt your whole body lock up, and watched her walk away while you came up with reasons it wasn't the right moment? This episode is about why that happens and the only thing that actually fixes it.Most guys want to stop being nervous first and then go approach. That order has never worked for anybody. The nerves last until you're comfortable, and the only thing that makes you comfortable is exposure. And here's the part almost every beginner gets wrong: the fear wears off before the skill shows up. You don't become calm and good at the same time. First the fear goes, then you get good.I also break down the weasel, the voice that never says "don't, you're scared" but always has a smart reason this particular girl is a bad idea, plus the four things to do about it: warm up every time, decide your number at home, expect the adrenaline hangover, and don't do the early ones alone.Your assignment: warm up, do three, write them down. Don't grade them. Just count them.───────────────────────────Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/Apply to the Inner Confidence Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community───────────────────────────Connect with Robbie:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramerYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

Have you ever read a dating book, felt fired up for a week, then noticed nothing actually changed? Or you've got a shelf full of self-help books and the same results you had three years ago.One of the guys in my community asked for an updated five-book list, so here are the five I'd hand a guy today — and why the order matters more than the list.He put it best: when he first met me, he was trying to put icing on a shitty cake. Most guys want the texting rules and the date protocol right now. But if the cake underneath is bad, she tastes the cake eventually.Beliefs, then the market, then purpose, then where your hope comes from, then execution. Plus a bonus book that has nothing to do with women, and how to use the list without turning reading into procrastination.If you're looking for a book on opening lines, this isn't it.───────────────────────────Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community───────────────────────────Connect with Robbie:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramerYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

Most dating advice tells you to keep female friends at arm's length. Don't get too close, don't be too available, don't become her emotional support guy.Some of that is real, the friend zone exists. But that advice conflates two completely different things: orbiting a girl you're attracted to while doing her emotional labor, and actually having real female friends who are part of your social world.I break down the four things genuine female friendships give you - social proof, warm introductions worth ten to fifty cold approaches, access you can't manufacture alone, and honest feedback you'll never get from women you're trying to impress. Plus how to be a cool friend without becoming a therapist, and a client story showing what changed over six months.If cold approach and the apps feel like grinding, this one gives you a different lens.───────────────────────────Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community───────────────────────────Connect with Robbie:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramerYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence