Is This A Safe Space?

In this episode of ITASS, we sit down with a Lagos-based dominatrix who shares insights into her unconventional career. She explains why many men seek control, structure, and dominance, both online and in real life, and how she has built a business around it.This conversation explores power dynamics, societal expectations, and the psychology behind it all.ITASS podcast, Lagos podcast, Nigerian podcast, relationships, masculinity, dominance, psychology of men, modern relationships, lifestyle Lagos, taboo conversations, African podcasts, human behavior, power dynamics👉 Watch, share, and join the conversation.👉 Subscribe now and join a community that isn’t afraid to talk about real issues.💜 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.📢 Join the conversation on X (Twitter) using: #ITASS #ITASSPodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podX: https://www.x.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itasspodDomina's socials Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goddess_haviTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/dominahavi

In this episode, Dara shares her shocking experience of being unlawfully arrested alongside her mother, sister, and neighbors by the Nigerian police after a simple dispute over a wrongly sent transfer.What started as a request for a refund escalated into harassment, violence, and wrongful detention.While in custody, Dara faced inhumane conditions; she and her family were subjected to:- Police intimidation and abuse- Inhumane detention conditions- Denial of basic hygiene during menstruation- Illegal transfer to a distant prisonYet, from this painful experience came a powerful mission.Dara founded PADANIMATE, an initiative that provides free sanitary products to women in prison and combats period poverty.This story sheds light on critical issues affecting women in Nigeria today. This is more than a story — it’s a call for justice, awareness, and change.👉 Watch, share, and join the conversation.👉 Subscribe now and join a community that isn’t afraid to talk about real issues.💜 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.📢 Join the conversation on X (Twitter) using:#ITASS #ITASSPodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podX: https://www.x.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comDara's socials Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dees_star PADANIMATE'S SOCIALSInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/padainmateX: https://www.x.com/padanimate Keywords: Nigerian police brutality, wrongful arrest Nigeria, women in prison, period poverty, human rights abuse, PADANIMATE

In today’s society, body shaming has become far too common, but what are the real consequences? In this powerful episode of Is This A Safe Space (ITASS), I sit down with the author of OROBO KIBO KIBO, April Ifunanya (aka Aprilboldchic), to have an honest and vulnerable conversation.She opens up about her personal experiences with body shaming, how it shaped her self-image, and the life decisions it influenced. This episode dives deep into sensitive but important topics that affect many people in silence.💬 In this episode, we discuss:Body shaming and its emotional impactMarriage and relationship strugglesDivorce and healingSexual assault and finding your voiceThis is more than a conversation—it’s a safe space to learn, reflect, and grow.👉 Subscribe now and join a community that isn’t afraid to talk about real issues.💜 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.📢 Join the conversation on X (Twitter) using:#ITASS #ITASSPodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comApril’s socials Instagram: instagram.com/aprilboldchicTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aprilboldchic

In this special IWD episode of "Is This a Safe Space?" sponsored by Lasgidi Crush, I sit down with Doctor Adefunke to discuss girls' and women's rights. Doctor Adefunke talks about the injustice girls and women still face, especially medically and sexually. She highlights the issues that girls and women shamefully have to go through in our society.Topics we cover:- Childbirth- Periods- Fibroids- Sexual and reproductive health- FGMSubscribe and join the conversation!Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you 💜Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comLasgidi Crush's SocialsInstagram: instagram.com/lasgidinigeriaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/lassgidinigeriaDoctor Adefunke's socials Instagram: instagram.com/doctor.adefunkeTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/dr.adefunke

In this powerful episode, I sit down with spoken word artist Ibquake as she shares the emotional journey behind discovering her love for spoken word poetry. She opens up about finding her voice, embracing her gift, and watching spoken word grow into a recognized and paying career path.Ibquake talks about the challenges, the wins, and the moments that shaped her — and how her talent has taken her farther than she ever imagined. This conversation is a celebration of creativity, courage, and the future of spoken word poetry.If you're a lover of poetry, storytelling, or creative expression, this episode will inspire you deeply.Topics we cover:Ibquake’s personal journey into spoken wordThe rise and acceptance of spoken word as a professionTurning passion and talent into opportunitiesThe impact of poetry and performanceHer vision for spoken word to reach the topSubscribe and join the conversation!Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you 💜Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comIbquake's socials Instagram: instagram.com/ibquakeTwitter: twitter.com/ibquakeTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/ibquake

In this episode of Is This a Safe Space? titled “Balancing Business, Creativity & Identity in the Music Industry", I sit with Lammy A, a dynamic marketing lead turned creative entrepreneur. Lammy’s journey took her from working at Empire, one of the leading names in the music industry, to co-founding her own creative and music agency - KVLT World.She also runs The DIY Collective, a growing community that nurtures young talents, helping them build confidence, skill, and visibility in the creative market.Together, we dive into her thoughts on:💰 Making money and defining success on her own terms💍 Her views on marriage and modern womanhood🌱 How her childhood and early experiences shaped her creative pathIf you’re passionate about music, marketing, creativity, or personal growth, this episode will definitely inspire you.Subscribe and join the conversation!Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you 💜Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comLammy’s socials Instagram: instagram.com/lammy.aTwitter: twitter.com/lammyy_aTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/lammy.aLammy’s brands KVLT - https://www.instagram.com/kvltwrldDIY collective - https://www.instagram.com/the_diycollective

In this episode of Is This A Safe Space? titled “The Super Unserious Episode: Perliks Definition Believes Aliens Are Made Up”, I sit down with the creative genius and director Perliks Definition for a conversation that’s equal parts unserious and inspiring.From starting out as a set assistant to becoming one of the most in-demand directors in the country, Perliks walks us through his journey - and yes, we get into some very unserious hot takes along the way 👽✨With an insane portfolio featuring Simi, Rema, Adekunle Gold, Falz, Fireboy DML, Darkoo, Shallipopi, Asake, Johnny Drille, Blaqbonez, Young John, BNXN, L.A.X and more, he breaks down his creative process from wild idea to full-blown masterpiece.If you’re a curious creative or just love gist with a sprinkle of chaos, this episode is for you.Subscribe and join the conversation!Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you 💜Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comPerliks socials Instagram: instagram.com/perliksdefinitionTwitter: twitter.com/perliksdefinition Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@perliksdefinition_Youtube: https://youtube.com/@UCaCYoYaodmSTruPRWJ4eENQ

On this episode of "Is This A Safe Space?" titled "Motherhood, Healing & Identity: Postpartum with Thayour B", I sit with content creator, business mogul, and new mom, Thayour B, to have an honest conversation about postpartum- what it really means, how it feels, and the realities many women face after childbirth. From physical recovery to emotional shifts and identity changes, this episode sheds light on a journey often left in the dark.If you’re a mom, expecting, or simply curious, this episode is a must-watch.Subscribe and join the conversation!Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you 💜Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comThayour B’s socials Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thayour_bInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jan.deuxInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebodymagicng

In Season 2, Episode 1 of Is This A Safe Space? titled "The Benin to Lagos Hustle: Tobe Szn on Risk, Growth, Law School & Content Creation", we sit with Nigerian Influencer and travel content creator - Tobe Ugeh aka Tobe Szn.He opens up about:Starting content creation in Benin CityTravelling overnight to Lagos for collaborations & eventsBalancing law school with influencer lifeGrowing from shy and people-pleasing to bold and unapologeticTransitioning into being a Travel content creatorIf you've ever wondered what it's like to chase a creative career while studying law in Nigeria, this conversation is for you.Subscribe for more inspiring conversations from creatives shaping culture.Don't forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around youSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comFollow my Instagram - @itass_pod Twitter - @itass_ Youtube - @isthisasafespacepod Substack: Osasbaby.substack.com

Navigating Loss: Hameedah’s Journey Through Grief | Is This A Safe Space? In this episode, model, and businesswoman, Hameedah sits down with Osas to talk about loss, grief, and guilt. She speaks on how she has managed to live through losing her mother and how much the friendships she has built have held her down through the journey. Osas’ note: This is quite an emotional episode for both parties, I’d love to encourage anyone dealing with any form of loss to watch this and share their stories as it is these stories that keep us together. Special thanks to Hameedah for coming to my safe space, please say a heartfelt wish for Hameedah in the comment section.Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you, it would mean a lot to me 💜Connect with Hameedah on IG -https://www.instagram.com/hameedah_xxhttps://www.instagram.com/mielofficial__ Follow us on -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comDirector: https://www.instagram.com/stylesenamiProducer: https://www.instagram.com/_digitalbossStyling: https://www.instagram.com/whatsenamistyledIt’s a safe space, talk to me.

Is This A Safe Space? Four guests, one unforgettable episode. Join us as we explore our most dynamic episode with fresh perspectives and real talk. This special episode features four amazing guests sharing stories, insights, and endless inspiration. This special episode is packed with heart and insight. That being said, Happy New Year to us! 🎉To be a part of the next episode - https://www.forms.gle/yGH17fCtZVn4pAMSAConnect with our guests -Lumi: https://www.instagram.com/lumiixzOlusegun: https://www.instagram.com/olusegun__tsTolani: https://www.instagram.com/tolani._Kofo: https://www.instagram.com/kofobaker__Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you, it would mean a lot to me 💜Follow us on -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comDirector: https://www.instagram.com/stylesenamiProducer: https://www.instagram.com/_digitalbossStyling: https://www.instagram.com/whatsenamistyledIt’s a safe space, talk to me.

enni Frank’s Journey | Is This A Safe Space? In this episode, Jenni Frank talks about her journey from TikTok to TV, discusses her life, career, and everything in between. She reveals how she found success while still in school, shares her passions, goals, and aspirations, and offers advice for achieving success.Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you, it would mean a lot to me 💜Follow us on -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.comDirector: https://www.instagram.com/stylesenamiProducer: https://www.instagram.com/_digitalbossStyling: https://www.instagram.com/whatsenamistyledIt’s a safe space, talk to me.

Hauwa speaks on transitioning from a faceless brand | Is This A Safe Space? In this episode, Hauwa sits with Osas in her safe space to talk about her life as a faceless creator and her transition into being one of the most recognizable faces on the internet space. She also speaks on the cyberbullying she has faced since leaving her faceless brand behind and how she has been able to navigate through it.Don’t forget to use the hashtags #ITASS or #ITASSPod to share your thoughts on X (Twitter) while listening. Please share this pod with everyone around you, it would mean a lot to me.Follow us on -Instagram: instagram.com/itass_podTwitter: x.com/ITASS_Youtube: @isthisasafespacepodSubstack: Osasbaby.substack.comDirector: instagram.com/stylesenamiProducer: Instagram.com/_digitalbossStyling: Instagram.com/whatsenamistyledIt’s a safe space, talk to me.