What You Refuse to See Will Cost You

About this episode

Tim Holloway discusses the dangers of ignoring warning signs in various aspects of life and leadership for Christian men.

Many Christian men, leaders, husbands, fathers, entrepreneurs, and ministry leaders are building their lives while ignoring the warning signs that something is breaking underneath the surface. Your marriage may be sending signals. Your body may be sounding alarms. Your business, soul, emotions, and leadership may already be showing signs of collapse, but without self-awareness, you keep calling it normal life. In this episode, Tim Holloway exposes the danger of clueless leadership and why the most dangerous leader is the one who cannot see himself. This conversation is about spiritual awareness, emotional maturity, leadership formation, Christian men’s growth, marriage health, business leadership, fatherhood, soul care, and learning to pray the dangerous prayer from Psalm 139: Search me, O God. You will learn why gifted leaders still fall, why success does not equal maturity, why warning signs matter, and why God uses pressure, pain, and deficiency to reveal what needs healing. This is stage one of becoming a formed man: waking up from cluelessness and finally seeing what you have refused to face. You’ll learn why leaders often confuse gifting, calling, charisma, or business…

People in this episode

Host: Tim Holloway

Topics covered

• spiritual awareness
• emotional maturity
• leadership formation
• Christian men’s growth
• marriage health
• business leadership
• fatherhood

Keywords

• self-awareness
• clueless leadership
• warning signs
• spiritual maturity
• emotional health
• leadership
• marriage
• fatherhood
• business success
• personal growth

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Psalm 139

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