S5E22: HE'S SEPARATED AND KEEPS COMING BACK—IS THIS TIME DIFFERENT?

About this episode

Blake seeks advice from Coach Paula Grooms after her on-again, off-again relationship with Carlos resurfaces.

S5E22: HE'S SEPARATED AND KEEPS COMING BACK—IS THIS TIME DIFFERENT? Coach Paula Grooms Download After years of on-again, off-again with 63-yr-old Carlos—a separated man who never followed through on his promise to divorce—48-yr-old Blake is faced with the moment she’s been waiting for… or is she? Nearly a year into no-contact, Carlos reappears with a simple, cryptic message. Unsure what to do next, Blake returns to ask Paula how to decode it—and discovers much more in the process.

People in this episode

Host: Paula Grooms

Topics covered

• relationships
• separation
• communication
• self-discovery
• decision making

Keywords

• separated man
• relationship advice
• no-contact
• cryptic message
• self-improvement

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