Monumental Podcast

Join host Pete Hunt with esteemed society photographer Sam Pelly for an open and deeply reflective conversation about identity, self-expression, and the journey to emotional and creative freedom.In this episode, Pete and Sam discuss:The power of storytelling through photography and how capturing the essence of his subjects has shaped Sam’s career.The challenges of identity and self-worth, growing up as the eldest of three brothers and navigating life in the shadow of a well-known sibling.The impact of early boarding school experiences and the deep emotional imprint they leave on men.The importance of emotional awareness and self-inquiry in relationships, fatherhood, and personal growth.The courage to embrace truth and transformation through life’s major transitions, including divorce and redefining success.The healing journey of men’s work, nature, and creative exploration, and how Sam now helps others step into deeper authenticity.Renowned for his work with Vogue, Tatler, The Telegraph, and institutions such as the National Portrait Gallery, Sam Pelly has built an extraordinary career capturing everything from fashion campaigns to Royal weddings. His lens has taken him across the world, working alongside legendary photographers including Peter Lindbergh, Paolo Roversi, Patrick Lichfield, and Mirella Ricciardi.But beyond the camera, Sam’s personal journey has been just as remarkable. From an idyllic yet complex childhood to finding his own creative and emotional voice, he shares how his search for belonging and truth has shaped both his art and his life.A self-described “scribe of imagery, a storyteller of soul and wonder”, Sam reflects on how photography has reframed his world, helping him see beauty everywhere and connect with the infinite mystery of life.Join Pete and Sam as they explore the courage to feel, the power of authenticity, and the privilege of being truly alive.MonumentalThe Monumental Network - The Private Network For Growth Focused LeadersMonumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast. Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.And we have a lot of fun doing it.For more information, please click on this link. https://monumental.global/

Bob Skinstad is a former Springbok captain, entrepreneur, and advocate for community-driven change. In this episode, Bob reflects on his extraordinary rugby career, which includes leading South Africa to victory in the 2007 Rugby World Cup and overcoming personal challenges like imposter syndrome.Expect to learn:Bob's most memorable rugby moments and toughest defeats.How Bob tackled the pressure of leadership and anxiety early in his career.His insights on building a sense of belonging and fostering resilience in teams.Bob also discusses the role of sport as a unifying force in South Africa, his thoughts on privilege, and the lessons he hopes to pass on to the next generation. This is a captivating conversation with one of rugby’s most insightful leaders.Timestamps00:00 Introduction to Rugby and Personal Struggles06:49 Memorable Moments in Rugby11:45 The Internal Battle of Belonging17:58 Understanding Privilege and Its Impact24:08 Reflections on Family and Financial Legacy30:38 Leadership and Governance Challenges33:46 Cultural Reflections: South Africa vs. the UK36:20 The Legacy of Apartheid and Its Impact39:40 Celebrating Progress and Good Governance42:31 Navigating Privilege and Responsibility46:17 The Role of Sports in Unifying Society48:50 The Impact of Technology on Youth52:43 Mental Health and Community Support57:29 Vision for a Better FutureMonumentalYou may know that Pete Hunt is also the Founder of Monumental, a personal development platform for male business owners and leaders. For More Information on Monumental:- Monumental - https://monumental.global/- Monumental Testimonials - https://monumental.global/testimonials/

Join host Pete Hunt as he delves into all the challenges of education with Will Turner, headmaster at Ryde School on the Isle of Wight (Pete's home Island). Pete and Will cover:The dangers of social media and smartphone use for young people.The future of education in the age of AI and technological advancements.Proposed changes to the curriculum and assessment processes.The evolution of boarding school environments and student well-being.The importance of empathy and counseling in supporting students emotionally.Will Turner brings a wealth of experience in education and school leadership. His academic journey began at a boarding school in Cambridge at the age of 15, followed by university studies in French and Italian. Will's passion for teaching emerged in his final university year, kickstarting his career at the renowned Sherborne School in Dorset.His professional path saw him taking pivotal roles at prestigious institutions such as Harrow School, St John's School, and UWC Adriatic in Italy. His international experience includes working with students on full and partial scholarships, offering him diverse insights into varying educational environments.Since joining Ryde School two years ago, Will has championed significant changes, including policies on smartphone use and advocating for a "dumb phone" alternative for younger students to encourage face-to-face interactions. An advocate for modernising the curriculum, he aims to integrate AI and diagnostic programs to enhance learning experiences, focusing on developing skills relevant to the workplace.Timestamps00:00 Introduction00:53 Career experience/background05:33 Will’s parents separation during GCSE year09:04 Wished for counseling during university for support13:26 Modern boarding schools15:14 Boarding school experiences in mixed environments18:39 Changes in safeguarding practices21:07 Safe age for children to start boarding24:47 Increased parental involvement in boarding29:26 DVDs replacing videos31:38 School recommending “dumb phone” for students33:40 Lack of awareness about online dangers38:26 Adolescence - Insecurities and embarrassing moments41:55 AI in schools46:23 Potential impact of VAT on school fees49:23 Universities shifting to open book assessments53:13 Preference for International Baccalaureate over A-levels54:38 Call for comprehensive curriculum review for all agesMonumentalYou may know that Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast is also the Founder of Monumental, a personal development platform for male business owners and leaders. For More Information on Monumental:- Monumental - https://monumental.global/- Monumental Testimonials - https://monumental.global/testimonials/- Find out your "Wheel of Life" score in just 90 seconds - https://insight.monumental.global/whe…Get in Touch: Podcast Instagram: @theprivilegedmanPrivate Instagram: @pete_hunt_Email: connect@theprivilegedman.com

Richard Tice, Chairman of Reform UK, who are set to have a huge say in shaping British Politics for the next 5 years, joins us on the Podcast. Who is Richard Tice? What motivates him? And can the right really be caring?Find out by listening in....For More Information on Monumental:Monumental - https://monumental.global/Monumental Testimonials - https://monumental.global/testimonials/The Wheel of Life Scorecard - https://insight.monumental.global/whe…Get in Touch: Instagram: @theprivilegedmanInstagram: @pete_hunt_Email: connect@theprivilegedman.com 

Henmania has arrived on The Privileged Man Podcast!I am delighted to dive deep into an exclusive interview with Tim Henman, the iconic former British tennis sensation.Brace yourself for an exhilarating ride through Tim's journey, from his privileged upbringing to the exhilarating highs of his illustrious tennis career.Discover the Tim's secrets to success and the indispensable role of a robust support system.With riveting revelations about his experiences at Wimbledon and the transformative impact of family and mentors, Tim offers a masterclass in determination and perseverance.But the journey doesn't end there!Explore Tim’s experience of boarding schools, the challenges of fame, and the profound significance of community in shaping one's destiny.For More Information on Monumental:Monumental - https://monumental.global/Monumental Testimonials - https://monumental.global/testimonials/The Wheel of Life Scorecard - https://insight.monumental.global/whe…Get in Touch: Instagram: @theprivilegedmanInstagram: @pete_hunt_Email: connect@theprivilegedman.com 

In this riveting episode of the podcast, we delve into the extraordinary life of Kent Bray, a man who's known the thrill of international rugby and the high stakes world of trading with Citi. For the first time, Kent opens up about his remarkable journey, offering listeners an unprecedented glimpse into the highs and lows that have defined his path.From the adrenaline of rugby fields across the globe to the buzzing trading floors, Kent's story is one of remarkable transition and transformation. However, amidst these achievements, he faced a formidable opponent off the field and outside the trading room: cocaine addiction. With raw honesty and striking transparency, Kent discusses the shadowy grip of substance abuse and the profound impact it had on his life and career.Yet, at the heart of Kent's narrative is a message of hope and resilience. He shares the pivotal role of Narcotics Anonymous in his recovery journey, highlighting the power of vulnerability, the strength found in community, and the importance of open dialogue, especially with the younger generation. Kent's story is a testament to the transformative power of honesty and the support of a compassionate community in navigating the road to recovery.Now, as a mentor and counsellor, Kent dedicates his life to guiding others through their struggles, illuminating paths to recovery and self-discovery. The episode culminates with an inspiring discussion about the Monumental Men's Group, underscoring its significant impact on fostering men's mental health and building a support network that champions honesty, transparency, and collective healing.Join us for an unforgettable conversation with Kent Bray, whose journey reminds us that even in our darkest moments, there is hope, and a new chapter awaits those brave enough to seek it.TakeawaysCommunity and support are crucial in the recovery process.Seeking help early can prevent further damage and pain.Friendship and connection are essential for personal growth and healing.The Monumental Men's Group provides a safe space for men to share their challenges and find support.Find out how privileged you REALLY are by taking the scorecard…https://insight.monumental.global/privilegedmanMonumentalThe Monumental Network - The Private Network For Growth Focused LeadersMonumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast. Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.And we have a lot of fun doing it.For more information, please click on this link. https://monumental.global/

Dr Erica Komisar is a clinical social worker, psychoanalyst, parent coach, and author with 30 years of experience. Erica is also a sought-after psychological consultant, bringing her expertise to clinics, schools, and corporations like Goldman Sachs.Erica has written two highly influential books on parenting and is a media mainstay, appearing on CBS, ABC, FOX, and contributing to top publications like the Wall Street Journal and Washington Post. She's also a Contributing Editor at the Institute for Family Studies.I asked Erica on because I was enamoured by her points of view on parenting. They seemed to stem from a place of common sense in what can be a confusing picture in the modern day. So - it is fair to say that speaking with Erica was a special experience, she doesn’t hold back and I’m grateful for her plain speaking. If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe, give us 5*, leave a review and share episodes on your social channels. The more the podcast is listened too, the bigger the impact. There are men out there who have listened to these podcasts as a first, inspiring point to taking huge steps of growth in their lives - so a big thank you for listening and supporting. There are links in the bio section to our website and scorecards that will give you instant insights into how balanced your life is - so please feel free to take them and receive the reports. Now..onto the main event.The Privileged Man Website - https://www.theprivilegedman.com/The Wheel of Life Scorecard - https://insight.monumental.global/wheeloflifeMonumental - https://monumental.global/Dr Erica Komisar - https://www.ericakomisar.com/

Welcome to episode 11 of The Privileged Man podcast with Dr Joy Schaverien. Until her death in Mid 2025, Joy was a Jungian psychoanalyst, psychotherapist and supervisor. In 2015 Joy authored the book “Boarding School Syndrome” where she described common symptoms suffered by those affected by early boarding after extensive research with ex-boarders, in psychotherapy and in semi-structured interviews. Spending time with Joy was an enlightening experience and I am extremely grateful I spoke to her before she passed away. Whatever your take on Boarding School - this episode is worth listening to.MonumentalMonumental is a private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast. For more information, please click on this link. https://monumental.global/