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You've Got What it Takes
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| Date | Episode | Description | Length | ||||||
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| 4/12/26 |  You've Got What it Takes | “You’ve got what it takes.” That’s what my friend Noah writes to Timothy—a young man experiencing same-sex attraction (SSA) and feeling alone.In this episode, I share Noah’s letter and the impact it had on me. If you’ve wrestled with SSA, shame, identity, or your future, I hope this reminds you: you are not alone, and your story isn’t over.👉 Read Noah’s full letter: https://jasonmellard.com/dear-timothy-with-love-noah/👉 Coaching: https://ownyouridentitynow.com/groupcoaching | — | ||||||
| 3/6/26 | We Honor You | What happens when the story you’ve been telling yourself about your attractions begins to change?In this episode, Jason talks with Kevin, a graduate of the Own Your Identity group coaching program, about his journey from shame and isolation to honesty, community, and a renewed understanding of identity.Kevin shares about growing up with confusing attractions, the loneliness of secrecy, and the courage it took to finally open up to safe people. He also talks about how learning he wasn’t alone changed everything.This conversation is a reminder that your attractions don’t define you — and that sharing your story can be a powerful step toward freedom.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 2/27/26 | The Attraction Scorecard | What if you’ve been measuring the wrong thing? For years, I defined success in my SSA journey by whether I felt more drawn to women than men. In this conversation, I share why attraction isn’t a test — and how real growth is about staying grounded, aligned, and steady no matter what you feel. | — | ||||||
| 2/6/26 | There's Nothing Wrong with You | Living with shame can make life so much harder than it needs to be. My friend Lare and I invite you to choose a greater future than what shame offers. You are not broken and you aren't alone. | — | ||||||
| 1/30/26 | Trade Dead-Person Goals for Legacy Goals | Are your goals helping you become more alive—or just more controlled? This episode invites you to move beyond avoidance and into legacy, asking a simple but challenging question: what do people experience of life when they’re with you?For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com | — | ||||||
| 1/23/26 | Remember Wonder | What if part of our healing isn’t just honoring what hurt, but remembering what made you feel alive? In this episode, I reflect on wonder as a practical posture—one that calms the nervous system, expands perspective, and helps you engage life with greater openness and courage.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 1/15/26 | There You Are | Do you brace yourself when someone says, "there you are"? In this episode, I discuss how this phrase can feel like pressure. But what if you let it be an invitation to just be yourself? For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 1/2/26 | Reclaim Power Over Attractions | You don’t need to eliminate your attractions to be free.This episode reframes same-sex attraction as information rather than identity and offers a framework for responding with clarity, strength, and agency. Discover how to reclaim your power — and join the new course, Reclaim Power Over Attractions. | — | ||||||
| 12/12/25 | Men Create | What if the first thing God asked a man to do wasn’t to lead, protect, or achieve—but to create? In this episode, we explore the overlooked masculine calling of creativity: shaping life, bringing order from chaos, creating safety, setting vision, and reflecting the generative heart of God. Whether you’ve doubted your influence or felt outside traditional masculinity—especially for men navigating SSA—this message will remind you of the creative strength God placed in you from the beginning. For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 12/5/25 | Vision Trumps Fantasy | Fantasy escapes reality. Vision transforms it. Vision gives direction, clarifies choices, changes what you tolerate, and activates courage.In this episode, you will learn to craft a clear and compelling vision capable of lasting transformation.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
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| 11/28/25 | Make Space for What's Next | If I received that promotion, I wouldn't be talking with you today. God used that disappointment to make space for something bigger. Now, I am a Certified High Performance Coach empowering men to live beyond their same-sex attractions and into their purpose. And I love it. What does God have next for you that requires space to hear? | — | ||||||
| 11/21/25 | Participate in Masculinity | A powerful reminder that masculinity isn’t earned — it’s shared. In this episode, we explore what it means to participate in masculinity, belong among men, and reclaim the identity God has already woven into you.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 10/16/25 | The Key, the Locked Door, and the True Me | For years, I’ve stood in front of the mirror, staring at my reflection. I saw my silhouette—the outline of me. But just beyond it, like a shadow I couldn’t escape, was the outline of the man I thought I had to be. Broader shoulders. Thicker chest. Sharper jawline. I didn’t always know where that outline came from. But one moment, one memory, gave it shape. For more tools to live beyond you same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 10/9/25 | No Compromise: Why 100% is Easier than 99% | Do you find compromise exhausting? In this episode, we’re diving into why living aligned with your values 100% of the time is actually easier than 99%. That 1% of compromise—the “just this once” moments—creates mental clutter, inner conflict, and drains your energy. But when you commit fully to who you are and what you stand for, you unlock clarity, peace, and freedom. Join me as we explore the problem with 99%, the power of identity-based boundaries, and practical steps to move from compromise to alignment. If you’re ready to stop negotiating with yourself and start living free, this episode is for you.For more tools to live beyond you same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 10/3/25 | Choose Your Feelings | When I turned to gay porn, I wasn’t just escaping life—I was running towards feelings I desired. I wanted to feel strong, inspired, connected, and safe.The good news? You don’t need anything outside yourself to feel those things. You can choose them—right now. And God made you capable of that.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 9/27/25 | Honor Your Anger | Learn to honor your anger, meet it with empathy, and process it in a way that helps you move forward. For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 9/19/25 | Navigating Confusion | Ever felt stuck in the fog of confusion, unsure of your next step? In this episode, we dive deep into how moments of uncertainty can actually be the catalyst for clarity, growth, and connection. I’ll share personal insights and practical tools to help you embrace the fog, navigate through it, and uncover the clarity waiting on the other side.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 9/12/25 | When Admiration Shifts to Lust | How can we recognize the shift from admiration, to comparison, envy, or lust? In this episode, we will explore how to become more self-aware and navigate these moments a way that aligns with our values.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 9/3/25 | Choose Me | Have you ever found yourself longing to be noticed? To be chosen? To hear someone say, You matter. You’re enough. I see you. In this week’s podcast episode, I share:How the longing to be chosen shows up in our lives.Why these desires are not about shame but about deeper connection.A 7-step process to respond to intrusive thoughts and uncover the truth behind them.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 8/29/25 | Just Be | Today, we will learn how to just be ourselves, present in the moment, without overcompensating, performing, or needing to be "extra", inspired by the carefree nature of my son on the soccer field. For more tools for living an empowered life and navigating same-sex attraction, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 8/22/25 | What I Wish I’d Learned Growing Up | Today, we’re going to talk about the things we didn’t learn from our dads, or our mentors, or our peers—and how that shaped us. But more importantly, we’re going to talk about how to fill that gap. Because here’s the truth: it’s not a liability. It’s an opportunity to grow, to connect, to stretch yourself, and to celebrate the journey of learning along the way.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 8/1/25 | Am I Marriage Material? | If you’ve longed for a life shared with a wife — a woman to build a future with, to be known and loved by, and to love in return—this episode is for you.Together, we’ll explore the deeper questions beneath “Am I Marriage Material?” | — | ||||||
| 7/18/25 | The Locker Room: A Place of Vulnerability and Preparation | While I longed to be in the athletic, game-time locker room, energized with the team before stepping onto the field, I was doing good to make it through showering after junior high PE. If you’ve ever felt like me—like you didn’t measure up, were stuck on the sidelines, or hiding parts of yourself because you were afraid of being seen—this episode is for you. For more tools to live beyond your unwanted same-sex attractions, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 7/3/25 | If You Only Knew | Those five words can feel like a prison — locking us in shame, self-doubt, and fear. But what if that phrase could be transformed from a whisper of shame to a declaration of hope?For more tools to live beyond your unwanted same-sex attractions, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
| 6/27/25 | Mastering the Moment: Mindfulness During SSA Urges | Do your same-sex attractions feel overwhelming at times? Maybe it’s a physical sensation that catches you off guard. Maybe it’s a romantic feeling that stirs something in your heart. Or maybe it’s a thought pattern that loops in your mind. These things can feel powerful, but I want you to know they are not you. They are experiences that are just passing through.For more tools to live beyond your unwanted same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com. | — | ||||||
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