
.89 before you date again: the healing work that makes discernment possible
From Own Your Revival by Andy Arbie
February 3, 2026 · 37 min · Season 3 · Episode 89
About this episode
This episode discusses the importance of healing before dating again after divorce, emphasizing clarity and discernment for those of faith.
Dating again after divorce can stir up hope, fear, and a quiet sense of urgency—especially for people of faith who want to move forward with integrity and peace. In this episode, we slow the conversation down and talk about why healing has to come first, including the often-avoided annulment process, and how clarity—not rushing—creates the conditions for real discernment. This is a gentle, honest conversation for anyone longing for love again but wanting to move forward in a way that's grounded, faithful, and free. 📱 Stay Connected • Instagram: @andyarbie • Website: www.andyarbie.com • Book a Clarity Session: Click here — A 75–90 minute, one-on-one session designed to help you slow down, clear the mental noise, and get grounded in what actually matters for you right now. Perfect for emotional clarity, next-step discernment, and supporting yourself through tender seasons.
People in this episode
Host: Andy Arbie
Topics covered
- dating after divorce
- healing
- discernment
- faith
- integrity
- love
- annulment process
Keywords
- dating
- divorce
- healing work
- discernment
- faith
- love
- annulment
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