How Your Stepkids Really Feel According To Research with Dr. Todd Jensen

About this episode

Dr. Todd Jensen discusses his research on stepfamily dynamics and the feelings of stepchildren.

Dr. Todd Jensen, the founder of THRIFT (Thriving Through Family Transitions Research Lab), joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to share his research on stepfamily dynamics from the perspective of stepchildren. Jamie and Todd dive deep into loyalty binds, the responsibility parents should feel to supporting and nurturing the stepfamily dynamic, 'ambiguous gain' in step families, why authenticity is so important when building a relationship with your stepkid, and creating a sense of safety in your home. Learn more about Todd's research: https://toddmjensen.com/ Subscribe to Jamie's Substack: https://jamiescrimgeour.substack.com/ Get The Stepmom Rebrand: www.stepmomrebrand.com Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order. Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase.

People in this episode

Host: Jamie Scrimgeour

Guest: Dr. Todd Jensen

Topics covered

• stepfamily dynamics
• loyalty binds
• authenticity in relationships
• supporting stepfamilies
• creating safety in homes

Keywords

• stepchildren
• family transitions
• relationship building
• ambiguous gain
• parenting
• stepmom
• family dynamics

Sponsors

Cozy Earth, Metabolic Reset Program, LMNT

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: THRIFT

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