Who Owns a Baby? Sophie Lewis on Ethical Surrogacy & the Future of Pregnancy

About this episode

Courtney Kocak interviews Sophie Lewis about ethical surrogacy and the future of pregnancy.

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People in this episode

Host: Courtney Kocak

Guest: Sophie Lewis

Topics covered

• ethical surrogacy
• pregnancy
• parenthood
• reproductive labor
• maternal mortality
• children's rights
• artificial womb technology

Keywords

• surrogacy
• pregnancy ethics
• reproductive rights
• maternal health
• family structure
• birth strikes
• artificial wombs

Sponsors

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Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Pleasure Podcast network, Bookshop.org, Amazon

Books & works: Full Surrogacy Now, Abolish the Family, Enemy Feminisms, Femmephilia

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