QueerLove Podcast

Change. We have talked on it from a number of angles, but this time around, let's go into the changes you actually want to make in your relationships. Maybe it is an old pattern in communication, a tendency to shut down, a habit of trying to "fix"...whatever it is, this is something you actually want to be different moving forward. What does that process look like? Because yes, it is a process, and can be quite a long one. E reflects on the process of change when it comes to her relatio...

Waiting for the other shoe to drop? Feeling on edge around there only be challenges in your relationship and nothing good to focus on? Let's talk all about it. What can you do to start training your brain to find the wins, even when challenges are present? (especially when challenges are present) What gets in the way of letting things be good when they are genuinely good in a dynamic? P.S. Ready to get certified as a relationship coach? Enrollment for the 2026 cohort of Love Mas...

"I want to feel secure in my relationship." A goal that we hear all the time from clients so let's break it down - what are the components of a truly secure attachment in relationships? If you are interested in learning more around what we go over today, we mention the work of Emotionally Focused Therapy, founded by Dr. Sue Johnson. P.S. Open enrollment for the Love Mastery Coaches Certification is happening now for the 2026 cohort! Find all the goods and apply here! Send us Fan...

Whether this is completing the past with a relationship long gone, or completing the past in a current relationship around an ongoing issue, your ability to liberate yourself from the charge of those experiences will make a huge difference for your relational wellbeing. What does it even mean or feel like when we say completing the past? We go over different examples and how you can tell when something is not complete, as well as how to be in that uncomfortable space in a partnership wh...

What is the long game? How does discernment come into play? And exactly how much patience do you actually need to say that you successfully attempted to play the long game? We go over the ins and the outs with these questions and more from what we have experienced ourselves, and from what we have learned with clients in this realm! Send us Fan Mail Sending you so much love! Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us ...

Intuition. A gut feeling. Inner knowing. Whatever the word, whatever the phrase, let's talk about getting connected to that (often) soft voice within yourself and how that relates to any and all relationships. There is a lot of noise in the world from external sources and it can be so difficult to know what action to take or what choice to make. And then, maybe you do have some clarity around what your intuition is telling you, but then you run up against the barriers of taking action in that...

Conflict is something most people run away from in relationships, but we know it is inevitable because well, we are humans. The aftermath of conflict leads us into that season of repair, which could be one afternoon or perhaps could be a couple of years, depending on what the conflict entailed. Repair entails a lot more vulnerability and tender moments in a relationship, and can lead to micro moments of conflict too. The conflict has not been resolved, but you are working on it together...

Y'all, we are in quite the challenging times. Something that we have been noticing more and more in sessions with our clients is the importance and growing desire for queer friends and community, which makes sense that we would be seeking that out as the challenges in America grow for queer folks. We dive into the meanings of friendship and community, which we both have different takes on so you will get to hear some different perspectives on these topics. As always, we invite you...