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This week we are unpacking everything social media. How did we build our platforms, what you're doing wrong and what actually works in the industry. Not everyone 'pops off', but how important it is to keep posting. We are speaking on our own journey's and how different they both were, but why they both work. 2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Winter has you feeling a little flat, unmotivated and over the cold? In this episode, we’re sharing our 10 favourite ways to ditch the winter scaries and romanticise your life again, because sometimes you don’t need a full life reset, you just need a few little things that make you feel like you again.From getting your nails done (almond French or light pink because choosing a risky colour and immediately regretting it is NOT the vibe) to booking a massage, fake tanning, cleaning out your wardrobe and giving your home a little Pinterest inspired refresh, we’re getting into all the small things that can completely change your mood.We’re also sharing our favourite makeup products, how to make your skincare routine feel like a GRWM, the easiest accessories to instantly look more put together, digital decluttering, resetting your “for you” playlist and why an at home brow tint might just be the underrated glow up you need.Basically, 10 easy ways to feel fresh, put together and excited about your life again without needing to completely reinvent yourself. 💅🏼✨Grab your coffee, put on your favourite playlist and let’s ditch those winter scaries.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#196 You say you want your dream life, but are you actually willing to do what it requires?In this episode, we’re challenging the idea that success should feel easy, perfectly balanced or constantly “aligned.” Because while you can manifest, journal, visualise and dream about the life you want… at some point, you actually have to do the work.We’re talking about the difference between wanting the outcome and being willing to do what it takes to get there, from building a successful business and becoming a creator, to getting fit, making money and creating the life you actually want.We get real about the influencer life people only see from the outside, Lily’s journey of realising she wasn’t working as hard as she thought she was, getting out of the victim mindset, comparing your starting point to someone else’s, and why being busy doesn’t always mean you’re moving forward.We also unpack the uncomfortable truth that hard work doesn’t guarantee success, life isn’t always fair, and sometimes being uncomfortable doesn’t mean you should stop.Because your dream life isn’t something you simply manifest.It’s something you build.And the question we want you to finish this episode asking yourself is:If I carried on being the person I am today, would I actually reach my goals?You say you want your dream life, but are you actually willing to do what it requires?Challenging the whole idea that success should feel easy, perfectly balanced, or constantly aligned.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

What started with contractions and the excitement of finally meeting her baby quickly turned into something Tori never could have prepared for.In this episode, Tori takes us through her birth story from the very beginning, the first contractions, the anticipation, heading into hospital, labour, the moment her baby arrived… and then how everything suddenly took a terrifying turn.What was meant to be one of the biggest and most special moments of her life became an emergency, with things unfolding completely differently to how she imagined.We’re talking the full birth story, the moments that scared her, what was happening behind the scenes, how she felt in the aftermath and what it was really like going from “I’m about to meet my baby” to “something is seriously wrong.”Raw, emotional, chaotic and completely unfiltered. This is Tori’s birth story. 🤍2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Over the past few episodes, we've unpacked why mid-year slumps happen, shared our different perspectives on getting out of them, and talked about what it really means to reset your life without trying to become a completely different person.Now it's time to bring it all together.This episode is the wake-up call you might not want, but probably need. We explore the uncomfortable truths that keep us stuck, why we often blame our timing, motivation or circumstances instead of taking ownership, and how raising your standards can completely change the direction of your life.We challenge you to ask yourself the questions you've been avoiding. What truth have you been avoiding? Where are you lying to yourself? What part of your life feels out of alignment? What are you blaming instead of changing? What behaviours are no longer acceptable for the person you're trying to become?Because the reality is, you can want more for your life, but eventually you have to start acting like it. The things you tolerate become the life you live, and if you keep accepting a life you say you don't want, you're choosing it.This episode isn't about becoming perfect. It's about becoming honest. It's about having the hard conversation with yourself, taking responsibility, embracing discomfort and choosing growth over excuses, because that's where real momentum begins.Your next chapter starts the moment you stop making excuses for the current one.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Not all burnout comes from doing too much.Sometimes the exhaustion you're feeling isn't because your schedule is full. It's because you've become disconnected from the things that make you feel like you.In this episode, we're unpacking what burnout can really look like. Losing touch with your purpose, your habits, your joy, and the version of yourself you know you're capable of being. We talk about how disconnection often happens slowly through small, everyday choices and why it's so easy to mistake feeling lost for simply being tired.Together, we explore the difference between physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion, how to recognise whether you need rest or a change in direction, and why taking time off isn't always the answer.We also leave you with a simple but powerful exercise: creating your own Back to Me List. A reminder of the habits, routines, people, and environments that bring you back to your best self.Because the goal isn't to become someone new. The goal is to come home to yourself.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Halfway through the year doesn't mean it's too late, it means you have a choice.In this episode, we're talking about why your reset doesn't need to be dramatic. You don't need a new version of yourself. You need consistency from the version of you that already knows what works.We dive into the power of returning to your fundamentals, creating your own "Back to Me List," and why the all-or-nothing mindset is probably the biggest thing holding you back. We also chat about minimum vs. maximum standards, why momentum matters more than perfection, and how the smallest habits are often the ones that create the biggest change.If you've been waiting for the "perfect" Monday, the "right" motivation, or a complete life makeover before starting again, this episode is your reminder that consistency will always beat perfection.Because six months from now, your life won't be different because of one massive decision. It'll be different because of the small choices you repeated every single day.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Feeling stuck? Unmotivated? Like you've completely fallen off track?You're not alone and you're definitely not too far gone.In this week's episode, we're joined by Bec Stewart for an honest conversation about what it really feels like to be in a slump, why so many of us end up there, and how to stop waiting for motivation and start creating momentum instead.We talk about the warning signs of a slump, what causes us to lose momentum, the difference between protecting your energy and avoiding effort, and why trying to completely overhaul your life overnight usually does more harm than good.We also share the practical habits, mindset shifts and "bare minimum" standards that help us reset when life feels overwhelming, along with a rapid-fire round of advice to help you lock back in.If you've been waiting for Monday, next month, or the "right time" to start showing up for yourself again, this episode is your reminder that your reset starts today. Because you don't need a whole new version of yourself, you just need to start being consistent with the one you already are.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Halfway through the year and feeling like you've lost your spark? You're not alone.In this episode, we're having the mid-year reality check we all need. Whether you've fallen off your routines, lost motivation, slipped back into old habits, or simply feel disconnected from the goals you set in January, this conversation is for you.We unpack why the mid-year slump happens, how bad habits quietly creep in, and walk you through a simple reset formula to help you rebuild momentum without the guilt.Because here's the truth: you haven't ruined the year. July to December is enough time to completely change your life you just have to choose to start.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

In this week's Pregnancy Series episode, we sit down with private midwife Tarlia from Avenir Midwifery to discuss home birth vs hospital birth, birth plans, common interventions, and how women can make informed choices throughout pregnancy and labour.From inductions and epidurals to C-sections and home births, we unpack the realities of birth, debunk common myths, and share practical advice to help women feel empowered, educated, and supported in their journey into motherhood.No matter your birth preferences, this episode is a reminder that there is no perfect birth—only the birth that feels right for you. 2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

This week on Raw Reality, we sit down with Avalon for an honest conversation about conceiving, pregnancy, motherhood, body image, and the transition into becoming a stay-at-home mum.Avalon shares her journey to motherhood, opening up about the realities of trying to conceive, the pressures and emotions that can come with fertility, and the expectations she had before becoming a mum. We also dive into pregnancy, navigating a changing body, confidence, social media pressures, and the conversations many women don't hear enough about.Together, we explore the identity shifts that come with motherhood, how relationships and friendships evolve, the challenges and rewards of being a stay-at-home mum, and what finding purpose looks like in this season of life.Whether you're a mum, hoping to become one someday, or simply curious about the realities behind motherhood, this episode is full of honest reflections, reassurance, and wisdom from someone living it every day.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Birth is one of the most natural things the body is designed to do, yet for so many women it feels overwhelming, feared, or misunderstood.In this episode, we’re joined by Shari from Belly2Birth to break down what hypnobirthing actually is, the stages of labour, and what’s really happening in the body during birth. We also dive into fear, mindset, and how they can shape the birth experience.We discuss hospital interventions, inductions, epidurals, informed consent, and the cascade of interventions, giving you a clearer understanding of your options so you can feel informed and empowered.This isn’t about a “perfect” birth it’s about understanding your body, your choices, and feeling confident no matter how your journey unfolds.This is the birth education every woman should have access to.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

In this special pregnancy series episode, we sit down with a future mum and dad as they share their honest thoughts, emotions, and experiences on the journey to parenthood. From the excitement and anticipation to the fears, challenges, and everything in between, they open up about how they're feeling as they prepare to welcome their little one into the world. A raw and heartfelt conversation about one of life's biggest transitions.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality ⁠https://rawreality.com.au/⁠⁠**⁠⁠https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**⁠Find us below:@rawreallity ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw⁠@ttorisstory ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/⁠@fitwithlilyy ⁠https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/⁠Community Facebook group ⁠https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/