Ep. 106: We Didn't Know Until After, Here's What Happened!

About this episode

The episode discusses a listener's unexpected hookup experience and explores themes of attraction and relationships within the lifestyle and LGBTQ+ community.

Episode 106 Show Notes This week starts with one of those stories that makes everyone stop and go, "Wait... what?" A listener shares a hookup that took a turn he never saw coming, leaving Richard with about a hundred questions, Lauren with a few clinical observations, and all of us wondering how we'd react if we found ourselves in the exact same situation. From there, things somehow get even more interesting. Haley joins us because she's trying to do something that terrifies most people in the lifestyle—pick up a complete stranger who isn't in it. Is there a right way to tell someone you're happily married but your husband already knows you're interested? Richard coaches her through his favorite pickup strategy, Lauren weighs in, and everyone agrees there's a very real chance this could either end in fireworks or become the most awkward gym experience of all time. Along the way we dive into attraction, labels, bisexuality, the overlap between the lifestyle and the LGBTQ+ community, why these conversations aren't always as simple as they seem, and why Richard somehow manages to turn every serious discussion into an argument about penis depth. Oh... and Lauren has new boobs. Can…

People in this episode

Hosts: Richard, Lauren

Guest: Haley

Topics covered

• swinging
• LGBTQ+
• attraction
• pickup strategies
• bisexuality
• relationships

Keywords

• swingers
• trans woman
• pickup strategy
• vanilla couples
• bisexuality
• flirting
• lifestyle

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