Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

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Masculine Surrender Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! Register Here. A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called 'virginity'. I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but especially for the intensely masculine receivers. Allowing a bit of feminine in to help find balance can be refreshing, wondrous and healing. Not having to be in control can be a relief, startling in contrast to the daily expectations of society. And the stuff about 'virginity'. Whew. Perhaps it was an innocent question, but the word itself represents so much bad stuff, and not any good that I can see. Educate yourself. Carry the good forward and discard the bad. The concept of virginity isn't doing anyone any favors. You'll hear this in the recording, but I will be leaving Instagram and Threads today, the 19th. There are a lot of reasons, most of which many of you will also be familiar with. I will not participate in a social media platform that simply doesn't care about hate speech and misinformation. Since most of my connecting with you lovely folx happens on Fetlife.com and Reddit, I can make this move and not have it affect me negatively. I'm really liking BlueSky. Give it a try - link below. Info and Articles The Many Ways to Bend Over; How Words Matter - Article Bend Over and Take it - Article Virginity and the Hymen Myth - Article by NZ Sexual Health Society Here I am on BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/rubyryder.bsky.social Here are my TikTok videos Here is my Free Erotica The post Short Take On Masculine Surrender and Virginity appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

He wonders what to say in the moment for givers who are beginners and asks what I might have wanted to hear! He's puzzling out the details of how to take a bigger toy. The lube must be slippery and they need the right harness so the new toy is over her bits! Articles/Information Different Ways of Opening Up For Pegging - Article Reddit post about Silolis Anal Training Plugs All About the Rectosigmoid Junction - Article Equipment Fukena Sliquid Silk X-Lube CBD Butt Stuff CBD Palm Grease Extra Greasy Silolis Anal Training Sets Aslan Leather Commando Harness Square Peg Slink Hosed Tapered Flexible Silicone Anal Hose Tantus Snake Tantus Cones Banana Pants Bumpher - to grind against Banana Pants Lippi grind with or without vibe Best vibe for Lippi Nu Sensuelle Point Plus Webinar Sale is ON - Limited Time Offer All 3 of my Webinars - the Premium Pegging Package - are now on sale until the end of the year, discounted from $99 to $75! This enables you to have a six hour complete educational pegging library on hand for new partners, additional partners, or for your own review. The best part about the recorded webinars is the on-demand flexibility that allows you to view them on your own time frame as opposed to when I have a free webinar scheduled. The post Short Take – What to Say and Big Toy Questions appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

Pegging Paradise Podcast #303 Just when you wondered if you'd lost me... Another podcast pops right up! Both sides of an amazing pegging story Some new toys after the ANME show! All 3 Webinars are now recorded and available for on-demand viewing Happy Hour Chats with Ruby are now a thing Private consultations can be scheduled here Information/Articles All 3 Webinars Recorded Happy Hours Equipment Strap On Me Unique Harness dual penetration one size waist 25 - 35 Strap On Me Tapping Wave Dildo 6" x 1.5" suction cup waterproof Strap On Me Realistic 6" x 1.69" suction cup dual density Tantus Uncut Realistic O2 #1 ~8" x 1.75" no suction cup Tantus Uncut Realistic O2 #2 6.4" x 1.6" no suction cup Tantus Anal Training Cones Small, Large, and Squat Tantus Charmer Great Beginner Dildo 7" x 1.3" no suction cup med firm B-Vibe 360 Rotating Plug with Dual Vibrations and Remote B-Vibe Expand Inflatable Plug with Vibrating Base and Remote Strap On Me Inflatable Dildo Plug 5.5" to 7.8" x 1.12" to 2.36" Liberator BonBon Cushion Best for Holding Dildo and Riding Liberator On a Mission Cushion for Lucky Pierre Experience HarForDil Dildo Harnesses Tell them Ruby Ryder sent you! I hope you enjoy this podcast. Speaking of something that pops right up, there are two inflatable toys for you to check out this time! One from my last blog post, The Strap On Me Inflatable, and a new one from B-Vibe, the Expand, which luxuriously inflates with the touch of a remote. Also - the story from the couple is heartwarming and a pure pleasure to listen to. I do spend a fair amount of time solving problems and giving relationship advice here at Pegging Paradise. What a treat to get a purely good news story! In fact, I felt compelled to play the music for them. Happy Pegging and No Shame! The post Podcast #303 Pops Right Up! appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

Pegging Paradise Podcast #301 Prince of Pegging Dogs and Cars and Escapes Email lists and marketing Pretty Dildos! Pegging Celebration Time! He finally asks for it and gets it plus more! Vagus Nerve considerations post heart attack He discovers real femdom exists and I talk about consent He is so giving to her that she revisits his love of anal play and he's hopeful Podcast #112 is a lighthouse for him is so many wonderful ways He seeks a solution to a complicated toy issue Information/Articles Dr. Joe Kort on men wanting to feel desired Paper - Anal sex after Cardiac event Podcast #112 Equipment Andrew Christian Jock Straps! Unicorn Tongue Dildo 2.3" x 7.4" Mr Hankey's Toys Beefcake Small 2.2" x 6.44" Alien Breeder Small 2.18" x 7.5" Kthulu Small 2.4" x 7.5" Banana Pants dildo covers Bumpher - cover Shagger - cover b.Cush - pad Honeybunch - pad with vibe Lippi - pad with vibe Nu Sensuelle Point 20 - Best bullet vibe for pads I hope you enjoy podcast #301! I included a link to an instagram video from Joe Kort that relates to my new article posted on 7/2, "Men Like to Feel Beautiful and Wanted, Too". There's a lot to this line of thinking. I think the reasons that women are not as good at expressing their desire for men are complicated, but that doesn't mean that the desire to receive compliments and feel wanted is not there. Please take some time and consider this. BIG SALE: Mr Hankey's is having a sale! From now until August 31st, the code SUMMER20 will get you 20% off storewide! Shop. Happy Pegging and No Shame! The post Turning the Spotlight on Podcast #301 appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

Soft Cock Week is Coming! Podcast #300 Part 2, where Michelle and I continue the conversation talking about responsive desire, celebrating people's no, and more. We explore touch, awakening the prostate, foreplay in solo anal exploration, and giving yourself permission. And don't forget, Soft Cock Week is coming again November 5 - 11, 2023! There are so many subjects around soft cocks that we discuss. Even how the word cock seems to be more favored by one racial demographic - with no studies to prove it! Articles/Information Emily Nagoski - Come As You Are Cuddle Party Soft Cock Week November 5 - 11, 2023 Soft Cocktail Mixer 2022 Barry McCarthy - Coping With Premature Ejaculation Mark Greene - Remaking Manhood Betty Martin Wheel of Consent Woodhull Organization program archive The Case For Cock Owners Using Strap-Ons Equipment B-Vibe Snug Plug Aneros Helix Syn Spare Parts Deuce Michelle and I go down a bunch of rabbit holes (pun always intended) in part 2 of podcast #300. She explains about responsive desire, and how understanding what your accelerators and your brakes are can be so important for couples to explore with each other. Then we explore Soft Cock Week (Michelle's creation!) from a variety of different perspectives. Check out the website - there are a collection of writings there from the inaugural 2022 celebration. Again, I want to thank you for downloading and listening, and for your support. I believe that because of my efforts, and by extension, your efforts, too, that we have significantly reduced the shame often felt by receivers of pegging. We have also corrected the misconceptions and myths attached to this delightful sexual activity. More people than ever are exploring pegging. The wave of interest has not slowed. If anything, it has increased. Those of you here learning, exploring, and discovering all of the pleasures pegging can offer, you are absolutely surfing that wave, and I congratulate you! The post Here it is! Presenting Podcast #300 Part Two! appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

Pegging Paradise Podcast #299 She used to peg him but not anymore. Advice? He wonders if pushing the cock and balls back behind the legs has a point? He wants to find the right formula to increase her enthusiasm and pleasure Pegging Celebration Time! He has Equipment questions after their first 3 times He comments on my article and tells a story Seven words and a grammar lesson Shout out and a question Sub seeks prostate orgasm and wants more pleasure for his mistress He's post-op prostate cancer, seeking advice about a strap-on for him He's a virgin looking for a dominant partner, advice? She said no, he made a Funky Rocker! Articles/Information Review of Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Review of Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double Sign up for my webinars! Chairman Position Givers Discord Chat - email me: Ruby@ PeggingParadise.com Midori's DIY Scarf Harness When Dominant Women Suck Submissive Dick Cam Fraser Interview Mish Middelmann The Case For Cock Owners Using a Strap-On Equipment Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Double Strap On Me Vibrating Double Spare Parts Sasha Harness Silicone Sheaths for Strap On Me Doubles O-Ring Sets Blush Silicone Dildos Spare Parts Deuce Harness Mr. S Leather Corey Jay Leather Harness Hismith Fucking Machines Coupon Code 5% off:%20WYWE97H3 Plans for Funky Rocker and DP Upgrade! Velvet Teddy Thrusting Dildo - powerful and kinda loud! Naked Addiction Freak - thrusts, vibrates, rotates Podcast #299 touches on a variety of different topics until finally revisiting that question of a fucking machine, but this time it is not a machine, it's a rocker. We've talked about these before and since that time there's a new upgrade to the plans, if you are a DIY kind of receiver. There are also a couple of new toys for those receivers who don't have a partner yet crave that sensation of being pegged. Affiliate links Entice Me Code Ryder for free shipping!Hismith Fucking Machines Coupon Code 5% off:%20WYWE97H3SheVibeThe Butters Hygienics Palm Grease Lube 20% off coupon code PEGGINGPARADISEGiddi Prostate MassagersMr Hankey's Large ToysGodmiche - UK basedNYTC - New York Toy Collective The post Get Down and Get Funky With Podcast #299 appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

Podcast #297 brings all kinds of good things, like putting on a show for your partner, thinking hard about the connection of bisexuality and pegging, and a deep dive (pun intended) into lube options. PLUS, I finally found a lube option for you wide toy aficionados that measures up to my lube snob standards - yay! If you are going to put something in your body, make sure it's safe. That axiom applies to toys as well as lube! For those of you interested in different techniques to help open up to pegging pleasure, I'm hooking you up with Dr Carlton's butt clock technique, too. So effective! Enjoy podcast #297. For Your Listening Pleasure! She waxes poetic about pegging, and wonders about positions and toys She wonders about the assertion that all men who enjoy pegging are on some level interested in the real thing Receiver/Giver Reddit shares of their first time pegging He discovers solo shower play and puts on a show for his wife! Discovering pegging at a later age has it challenges, and he’s looking for ways to make it easier and more enjoyable for her Lube info/opinions, from a man with decades of anal play experience! He’s having a hard time relaxing with solo play Articles/Information Pegging Positions Ciren Virde Interviewed by Leyna Nguyen of Consenting Adults Podcast Venus Cuckoldress Interviews Ruby! Reddit Forum - Straight Pegging Podcast #112 for the Givers The Webinars! Newbie Solo Ass Play Dr. Carlton’s Butt Clock Technique on IG Equipment Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo Pegasus Vibrating Dildos with remote Blush Vibrating Dildos Jim Support Sex Sling Spare Parts Sasha Sliquid Silk Butters Palm Grease Code PEGGINGPARADISE for 20% off! Njoy Purewand Here in CA we recently did the whole stupid (IMO) time change thing again. I wondered what the hell happened because I thought we were getting rid of it. Turns out despite voters approving the measure, state lawmakers have not passed any legislation to get rid of it. Will of the people, my ass. Politicians do whatever they like, and prioritizes the needs of the rich and powerful, especially corporations. Wow, I'm in a mood this morning! The post Surprise! Podcast #297 Appears! appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #295 Podcast #295 is my offering to Soft Cock Appreciation Week, the brainchild of Michelle Renee at HumanConnectionCoach.com. For too long, there has been far too much emphasis on erections, how to get them, what to do if you don't have one, and pretty much everything that surrounds the constant quest for an erection. Let's celebrate soft cocks in all their glory! It's not hard, head over to the website and check out all the offerings from so many different sex educators and sexuality professionals. Officially begins November 13th and lasts through November 19th, which is when there will be a variety of events, and there are already resources and offerings to explore; a wealth of information! Moved to donate to Movember? It's not hard: Click here to Donate to the Movember Fundraiser for Ruby Ryder AND Soft Cock Appreciation Week! Articles/Information Cam Fraser/Mish Middelmann Interview Rediscovering Life and Manhood After Prostate Cancer Movember's True North - Life After Prostate Cancer Treatment The Conscious Locker Room - Tully O'Conner - Podcast The Man Rules Podcast With Dan Griffin Movember Fundraiser for Soft Cock Appreciation Week! Soft Cock Appreciation Week The Case for Cock Owners Using a Strap-on Aneros Forum The Love Drive Podcast with Shaun Galanos - Excellent episode for Soft Cock Week! Equipment Spare Parts Deuce for Cock Owners I urge you to join me in celebrating soft cocks, slow sex, non-PIV sex, unhurried explorations of each other's bodies, and our own bodies! There are so many ways to have sex that don't require or involve a hard cock, a wet vagina, and a goal driven activity. Be good to yourselves! The post Podcast #295 It’s Not Hard! appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

Podcast #293 - for your listening pleasure! He describes his sexual assault (trigger warning)Short and sweet happy news!He loves feminization and she's concernedHe introduces us to the 'Peg Pal' term!Pegging Celebration Time!They pegged before, but not for a while. This time was amazing!Pegging Celebration Time!New relationship and pegging is a happening thing!Pegging Celebration Time!After 3 years, it finally happenedPegging Celebration Time!Peggers from Belgium - He tells their story!She wonders if he relaxes through the have to pee, if he will orgasm? Articles/Information The Truth About Strapless Strap-OnsPodcast #112 - For the GiversAll the Pegging Paradise Podcasts! Equipment Lucky Glitter Dildo by AvantPink Aslan Leather Minx harness Hope you enjoyed podcast #293! Two more things... Two Awesome Things - Sex Swings and Podcast #293! I have talked about my amazing sex swing before. You know, the one that doesn't require a hard point, is free-standing, and breaks down to a duffel bag so you don't have to have a dedicated sex play room...? I showcase it in every equipment webinar I teach, because besides being amazing for pegging, it's excellent for less able-bodied givers and receivers! A new company took over the brand, and now offers an affiliate program, which I of course signed up for pronto. They offer not only sex swings, but a variety of other sex furniture, too! Here's the link: Fetish Locker Sex Swings and Sex Furniture! Movember Will be Here Soon! Movember is coming right up and I will be doing my yearly fundraiser combined with gym workout (that's the 'move' part) again this year. My goal is $1K, and I have reached it twice in the past - with the assistance of a few tata pics. Just google tatas here at Pegging Paradise. and you will see what I mean. I hope you will join my efforts to raise money for Movember. They started off with an emphasis on prostate and testicular awareness, and expanded into men's health in general (men are not as good at taking care of their health because they are expected to just tough things out), and men's mental health (men are taught to compete, and follow a strict set of rules of masculinity, which leads to isolation and a lack of close friends = bad for mental health). They do amazing work! The post Tickle Your Ears with Podcast #293 appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

https://www.reddit.com/r/HiddenStrapon/ Podcast #291 Rolls Into Town! So - Some great stuff with this podcast. My fascination with vulnerability continues. So I gathered together a number of shares about the emotional vulnerability felt by receivers during pegging. And then we have a celebration, too! To begin with, more suggestions for incorporating pain with peggingPegging after a prostatectomy?Pegging brings up his lack of vulnerability in his relationshipThen, he sends a vote for men feeling sexy and beautiful!He feels shame with his solo anal (esp big) toy playHe wonders about terminology for pegging partnersHe seeks info to begin exploring depth playPegging Celebration Time!Their first time was so emotionally satisfying for him!He eloquently shares the intense emotions he feels from peggingHe shares therapist's suggestion about shadow workAnd finally, he shares his anal story - from shame to thrills! Articles and Information Figging - WikipediaTiktok capsicum video removed, sorry!Aneros Forum - register and then search for 'prostatectomy'Podcast #35 - pegging after prostatectomyPodcast #109 - discussion about PSA and prostate cancerPodcast #168 - pegging after prostatectomyCam Fraser/Mish Middleman Rediscovering Life and Manhood After Prostate CancerPegging and AftercareBig Toys and StigmaAdvanced Webinar for depth play infoShadow Work Video #1 - Christina LopesShadow Work Video #2 - Khetasar LoveShadow Work Video #3 - The Quintessential MindShadow Work Video #4 - Dr. Steve MortensenMap of Seminal Vesicle and Prostate #1Map of Seminal Vesicle and Prostate #2Ruby Rolls into an Interview - "In Bed With Lisa"! Equipment Icy HotShop for Big Toys at Mr Hankeys! The post Podcast #291 Rolls Into Town appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.

Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #289 Podcast #289 is in the room and ready to play! No butts in the USAHe discovers about real trust with peggingNew to pegging but not solo play, he has size questions He lets go of the shame and guilt, and talks to his wifeHe has some questions about vibe vs no vibeShe seeks a toy that has no curveHe found Homme Mystere - men's lingerie!Pegging Celebration Time!After 9 years, he asks and she says yes! Articles/Information Podcast #112 - Introduction for GiversTrying Anal Sex - advice column replyMen's Lingerie and more!Homme MystereKoalaSwim.comXDress.comJanet's ClosetCrossdressers BoutiqueActivSkin - Legwear for MenSecret Male Equipment Strap On Me Bendable Vibrating DoubleBlush Impressions Vibrating DildosPegasus Vibrating Dildos with RemoteGodemiche Apprentice Dildo So there were a lot of topics in the room of Pegging Paradise Podcast #289. Hope you enjoyed them! I always delight in every Pegging Celebration Time I have the pleasure of playing the music for. I feel like I should have a sticker I send folx or something. Placed on the bumper of your car - who would know? Anyone who recognized it would surely grin and nod, knowingly. The post Podcast #289 is in the Room! appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise.