A Gospel-Centered View of LGBTQ Identity with Adam Westlake

About this episode

Ken Freire and Adam Westlake discuss a Gospel-centered approach to LGBTQ identity and same-sex attraction, sharing personal stories and practical advice for those struggling with these issues.

In this deeply personal and redemptive conversation, Ken Freire sits down with Adam Westlake, a biblical counselor, to explore a Gospel-centered approach to same-sex attraction (SSA) and LGBTQ identity. Adam vulnerably shares his own story of growing up in West Texas, wrestling with his identity, and finding true healing through Christ, community, and biblical counseling. Whether you're in Nashville, TN, or anywhere in the world, this episode offers powerful encouragement and practical steps for those struggling with sexual sin, identity confusion, or shame. 📌 Key Topics Covered: * Adam's journey from hiding same-sex attraction to walking in the light * The difference between experience and identity * How shame and silence grow without Gospel-centered community * Why sexuality is often a search for connection, validation, or healing * How Jesus satisfies our deepest longings as the Bread of Life * The role of the church in counseling and loving those with SSA * Common lies people believe when struggling with sexual identity * Reframing disordered desires through God's redemptive story 💡 Practical Takeaways: * Name the struggle: Bring your sin or confusion into the light with…

People in this episode

Host: Ken Freire

Guest: Adam Westlake

Topics covered

• Gospel-centered approach
• same-sex attraction
• LGBTQ identity
• shame and silence
• sexuality and connection
• biblical counseling
• redemptive story

Keywords

• LGBTQ
• same-sex attraction
• shame
• identity confusion
• biblical counseling
• community
• healing
• sexual sin
• Gospel
• connection

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: the church

Places: West Texas, Nashville, TN

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